In addition to the New Year, he has no more festivals

It's really a headache to meet such a husband, girls are born romantic, and it is always easy to remember the important days in life, but men's brain cells in this area seem to be never as developed and sensitive as women, not that men don't like romance, it's just that men don't know how to be romantic, and he will always be afraid that he will do something wrong, so you might as well try to make efforts in this area, you can directly and clearly tell her how you need to live, how you plan and arrange, So that he doesn't have to spend time for the holiday, if you want him to take the initiative, the next time he has a birthday, you might as well create a surprise for him, and even with the help of the child's power, let him feel the happiness of the family, so that the next time you have a birthday or have a holiday, he may take the initiative, when he can create surprises for you from passive to active, remember to praise him for the gift he bought you, thank him for his behavior, so as to strengthen his willingness to continue to surprise you, If he always complains and blames what he does, he will think that he can't do these things well, and since he can't do it well, it's better not to do it. Marriage is like a flowing river, there are always highs and lows, as long as you manage it with your heart, I believe you can get happiness from marriage! o(∩_o~

Personally, I feel that it is still a man's problem, someone raises flowers and knows how to water, how can a daughter-in-law not know romance, it is recommended to take more emotional management classes, and men from Mars and other books should also read more, in short, feelings need to be managed. Understand the three major needs of women: first, a sense of security, second, romance, and third, being coaxed and spoiled! It's not a problem to learn a lot.

In short, it's a change of concept!

After the fifteenth day of the first month, the New Year is over.

On the first day of the first lunar month, you can start the preparation and celebration of the Chinese New Year, but in fact, these activities start as early as the end of the year 24, during the Chinese New Year, the Chinese folk should carry out various customs activities such as sacrificing stoves, keeping the New Year, worshiping the New Year, worshiping the gods, worshiping ancestors, removing the old and cloth the new, welcoming the jubilee and receiving blessings, visiting temple fairs, etc., until the end of the "Lantern Festival" on the fifteenth day of the first month.

In the development and inheritance of the New Year's Festival, some relatively fixed customs have been formed. People who have worked hard for a year will have family reunions, visit relatives and friends, worship gods and pray for blessings in various ways during the period before and after the Chinese New Year.

The Spring Festival is one of the grandest and most lively ancient traditional festivals in China, which has a long history and rich social and cultural connotations. In its historical development and evolution, the Spring Festival has continuously formed and condensed the unique ethical emotions, time and life consciousness, cultural pursuit of identity, and even a quasi-religious consciousness of the Chinese.

In a variety of unique Spring Festival ceremonies, the traditional Chinese ethnic and folk culture can be displayed and expressed in a concentrated manner; During the Spring Festival, China's Han and many ethnic minorities celebrate with their own unique performances.

Most of these activities are mainly to pay tribute to ancestors, remove the old and welcome the new, celebrate the new year, pray for a good year, and sacrifice various gods, and the activities are colorful and have strong national characteristics. These folk activities during the Spring Festival reflect the inheritance and promotion of this long-standing traditional folk culture in contemporary times.

Lantern Festival customs

1. Eat Lantern Festival.

Eat Lantern Festival on the fifteenth day of the first lunar month, and "Lantern Festival" as a food has a long history in China. In the Song Dynasty, the folk were popular with a novel food eaten during the Lantern Festival. This kind of food was first called "Fu Yuanzi" and later called "Lantern Festival", and businessmen also called it "Yuanbao".

The Lantern Festival is filled with sugar, roses, sesame seeds, bean paste, yellow cinnamon, walnut kernels, nuts, jujube paste, etc., and the stuffing is rolled into glutinous rice flour after the filling is formed. Lantern Festival can be meat and vegetarian, with different flavors. It can be boiled, fried, and steamed, which has the meaning of reunion.

2. Watch the lanterns. During the Yongping period of Emperor Ming of the Han Dynasty (58-75 AD), because Emperor Ming advocated Buddhism, Cai Su returned from India to seek Buddhism, saying that the Indian Mahoda country gathered on the fifteenth day of the first lunar month, and the monks gathered to pay homage to the Buddha's relics, which was an auspicious day to visit the Buddha. In order to promote Buddhism, Emperor Ming of the Han Dynasty ordered the fifteenth night of the first lunar month to be in the palace and the temple"Lighting the lamp to show the Buddha"。

Since then, the custom of putting lanterns on the Lantern Festival has spread to the people from the original sail stall only held in the court. That is, every fifteenth day of the first lunar month, both the scholars and the common people have to hang lamps, and the lights in the cities and villages are brilliant all night.

Spring Festival is a festival that begins in spring, referred to as Spring Festival.

In ancient times, people believed that there were two monsters, one was called "Xi" and the other was called "Nian", the former was a bad beast and specialized in bad things, and the latter was a good beast and specialized in doing good things.

Since the Spring Festival is the time of winter and spring, and it is the time to wake up at night, people are here to drive away the bad beasts and welcome the good beasts. The last day of winter is called "Chinese New Year's Eve", which means to drive away the former, and welcoming the new year means to welcome the latter.

Now the Spring Festival has two meanings, one is to celebrate the Spring Festival itself, and the other is to welcome the New Year, which is later combined to become "New Year".

Have you ever heard the story of the Nian Beast? Chinese New Year is a celebration of defeating the New Year Beast.

The year is an ancient phantom beast, so if you want to pass, it is called the New Year.

I want to ask where you are? Isn't the Spring Festival called the New Year?

Legend has it that a long, long time ago, the year was not a festival, but a monster in the sea, it had sharp fangs, Jingjing's feet were fierce and abnormal, every Chinese New Year's Eve would run out of the year to scourge the four directions, so on Chinese New Year's Eve, people had to drag men and women, lead animals, hide in the mountains, people are thinking about Lianguan sad, but this year a gray-haired old man came to this village, he went to an old woman's house and said, please lend me this room, I can make the year no longer plague the four directions tonight. The old woman persuaded him: "You better hurry up and go into the mountains, the New Year is coming."

Seeing that she did not listen to the persuasion, the old woman had no choice but to hide in the mountains by herself. Nian, came out, the old man picked up the firecracker, lit its head and threw it towards the year. Nian had never seen this thing, and the crackling of firecrackers startled Nian, and Nian never dared to come out again.

The Chinese New Year is one of the most important traditional festivals in China, usually starting from the 23rd day of the lunar month and lasting until the 15th day of the first lunar month. Spring Festival is a very important festival of family reunion and cultural inheritance, and it is also an important time for Chinese to yearn for the New Year and pray for peace, prosperity and strength.

This year's Spring Festival, most Chinese celebrate through traditional customs such as small-scale dinners, watching the Spring Festival Gala, and playing mahjong at home. Against the backdrop of the pandemic, many people have chosen to avoid travel and high-occupancy gatherings, instead connecting with friends and family online at home. In addition to this calendar, many people will also clean up and buy New Year's goods during the Spring Festival, preparing to welcome the new year.

It is worth mentioning that due to the impact of the recent coronavirus epidemic, some epidemic prevention measures have also appeared in many places, such as restrictions on people in some cities, cancellation of activities and strict control of public places. Therefore, during this year's Chinese New Year, some people may spend the festival at home more quietly than in previous years.

Because Jiahanhe is in the barbecue business, he talks and sleeps until 12 o'clock during the day, and when he gets up to eat, he skewers barbecue, and sells barbecue until four or five o'clock at night. Also rotten shack has no time to go out to visit relatives.

I just got married this year, and we here are talking about the first time I met all my relatives in the first year of marriage, but I can also receive red envelopes, and I won't have anything to do next year.

This Spring Festival, spend in happiness, with relatives and friends, New Year's Eve together, go to relatives together, set off fireworks together, barbecue together, go to New Year's greetings together and other activities.

Spring Festival and boyfriend spent in the city of work, did not return to their hometown, although a little uncomfortable in the heart, less lead and relatives reunion lively, but this year's Spring Festival is the two of us single-handedly run Huaihe no, buy vegetables to buy New Year goods, Spring Festival, Chinese New Year's Eve dinner is also our own do-it-yourself, a total of eight dishes prepared, take the meaning of "888, shoot hair and hair", watch the Spring Festival Gala together, eat dumplings, also very sweet!

I spent this year's Spring Festival at home with my family, staying up all night to watch the Spring Festival Gala, eating dumplings together, and it feels good to be reunited.

This Spring Festival, I didn't go to visit relatives, I watched a movie quietly at home alone, and I didn't go anywhere.

30 made a pure round of Chinese New Year's Eve dinner at home, the first world searched for pants and burned to play on the street, and the second year of junior high went to relatives.

The third, fourth, fifth, and sixth years of junior high school are busy.