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People who love to take advantage of small advantages do not think or do not realize that this is a bad habit, but because of taking advantage of small advantages and enjoy themselves, this kind of smart but clever mistaken behavior is the true portrayal of many people who love to take advantage of small advantages. Because deep down in his heart, he still doesn't know the adverse consequences and potential losses and harms caused by taking advantage of small advantages, and the reasons are as follows:
1. Lack of correct ideological understanding and good ideas for dealing with people. People who like to take advantage of small advantages tend to see problems more simply, have a short-term vision, and only look at the immediate small interests and ignore the long-term interests; Lack of ambition, generosity, and the spirit of looking to the future; only thinks of their own interests, their own gains and losses, but does not take into account the interests and feelings of others; It is a manifestation of selfishness that only thinks about oneself and does not consider the problem from the other person's point of view.
2. Self-cultivation and environmental factors. There is a direct correlation between an individual's behavior and ideology, consciousness and self-cultivation. With a positive, healthy and good attitude towards all things in the world, it will be beautiful, full of vitality and hope, people are mostly kind and friendly, and the views of things and others will also be friendly, and the actions will naturally release goodwill and love.
We should not only deal with ourselves, but also think about others and empathize. And people who love to take advantage of small advantages are not, neither understand nor do not know these truths and cultivation, everything starts from the self, I take the word first, and think that taking advantage is not taking advantage of nothing.
Neither the impact nor the undesirable consequences were expected. If it is for him to suffer a little loss and pay a little, then I don't know how uncomfortable or complaining it is, which is completely opposite to the psychology of being good at suffering losses. People who love to take advantage of small advantages, the reason for this is their own cultivation, concept, and ideological consciousness are the main factors.
Of course, it will also be affected by the environment, such as parents, colleagues or friends, as the saying goes, "like gathers people in groups". Habit changes character, and character determines fate. Every little thing or action is a portrayal of a person's life and produces such and such an impression in the outside world, and this impression will also form a personal image, which has a close relationship with its own development and future.
3 Hazards and Losses. People who take advantage of small advantages seem to be a small matter, and they get small profits, but in fact, they can't get any big profits over time, it's just a personal psychological effect. However, the bad habit of taking advantage of small advantages has a great impact and loss on the individual.
The main thing is to damage the image of the individual. Image is the façade of a person and the embodiment of the value of life. The quality and value of the image are directly related to their own quality, or they are directly proportional (high education and talent do not mean that the quality is high).
People who love to take advantage of small advantages give people a bad impression and a negative image, which will be affected by social interaction, communication, service, cooperation, evaluation, etc.
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There are no consequences, and if there are consequences, it is very serious, that is, to settle accounts after the autumn.
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1. I have tried fakes: I once bought some fakes because of the greed for being late, but I found that the quality was very poor, and even the things I bought back could not be used, and I lost a lot of money.
2. I have eaten inferior food: I once bought some inferior food because of greed for small and cheap, but I found that the taste was very poor, and even some food had a lot of stains, and I lost a lot of money.
3. I have bought inferior clothing: I once bought some inferior clothing because of greed and cheapness, but I found that the workmanship was very poor, and it was easy to fade, and I lost a lot of money.
4. I have bought counterfeit brands: I once bought some counterfeit brands because of greed and cheapness, but I found that the material was very poor, and even the counterfeiting was obvious, and I lost a lot of money.
To stick to their bottom line, love greedy people, once or twice may be fine, but once you stretch out your hand, it is difficult to stop, sooner or later you will do something without principles and bottom line, this is the biggest failure in life, greedy for small and cheap people, is the easiest to suffer a big loss.
On the other hand, there is a good saying: "The greatest pain in life is that no one needs you, and no one pays attention to you."
When they weigh the pros and cons, they always think that what is good for them is right, everything is not beneficial, or not conducive to themselves, they can't take advantage of it, they can shirk it, and they can escape it. ”
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Generally, people who love to be greedy for small and cheap are extremely selfish, they only have their own little interests in their eyes, and they never have long-term concerns, but they also bury hidden dangers for themselves, and eventually they will take turns to suffer a big loss!
Tell me about the people around you who love to be greedy for small and cheap, and what big losses they suffered in the end?
My husband has a male colleague who once came to my house for dinner, and told me with a proud face, saying that he buys clothes online, and the general brand store is the kind that discounts a few pieces, and then he placed an order to pay, and when he got the discount, he returned all the clothes, as long as one piece, and said that he bought clothes ......like thisWhen I heard him say this, I looked down on him!
In the supermarket where I worked, there was a very young and beautiful girl who stole the goods, secretly took them out, was caught by the security guard at the door, and asked her to come back to pay, who knew that only part of it was bought, and the remaining part was still hidden in the bag and did not buy, and was caught back by the security guard, we directly called the police, and she was still unconvinced......Tell me what this thing is, you're young, you don't learn anything, you do something like stealing chickens and touching dogs!
Colleague, we have been working together for more than a year, we all live in the company, I live in a single room with the object, laundry and cooking in the company's kitchen, I buy dish soap, laundry detergent, soap, he has not bought once. Later, my object went to work, I can't cook, of course, I don't have to brush the pot, the dish soap is gone, my colleague bought a bottle of stealing, squeeze a little when you use it, he doesn't wash the clothes when the laundry detergent is gone, and then wash it when I buy it, the soap is gone, wash the face with dish soap, the most annoying thing is that he smokes my cigarettes in the drawer, and he doesn't even give me a lighter, and there is no need to say anything about toilet paper. Also, in order to prevent others from riding his bicycle, he releases the car gas every time he rides, or shares the bicycle, and it doesn't cost money to pick the lock off.
My sister-in-law went to the countryside to catch up on the streets, and she didn't spend a penny, and when she came back, a few clothes pockets were filled with melon seeds, fried beans, bowl beans, pine nuts and other small snacks, and taught me how to pretend to be a buyer to grab some and taste it.
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1. People who love to be greedy and cheap are easy to break through principles and bottom lines, and lose their personality and self-esteem.
To be a man, we must stick to our own principles and bottom line, and our personality and dignity must not be lost, and people who love to be greedy and cheap, we may not be lenient when we make two times at a time, but once we stretch out our hands, it is difficult to stop, and sooner or later we will do things without principles and bottom lines, so people often say, "Don't stretch out your hand, you will be caught if you stretch out your hand." When a person loses his personality and dignity because he is greedy for small gains, it is undoubtedly a kind of depravity, and it is the biggest failure in life.
On the other hand, there is a good saying: "The greatest pain in life is that no one needs you, and no one pays attention to you." "And the people who love to be greedy for small and cheap are exactly what everyone hates and everyone wants to stay away from, and this loss is not small.
Second, people who love to be greedy for small and cheap are easy to ruin their future and future.
People not only live in the present, but also have to consider the long-term and future, and small cheap is often the immediate small interests, although it is easier to obtain, but it is also easy to cause you to lose sight of Mount Tai, but also easy to let you lose a big because of a small loss, because of choking on food. When they weigh the pros and cons, they always think that what is good for them is right, everything is not beneficial, or not good for themselves, they can't take advantage of the cheap, they can shirk it, and they can escape it, and after a long time, it is easy to lead to the indifference between right and wrong and unscrupulous means, just like the Song Dynasty literati Yang Wanli said: "The heart of interest is born, but the heart of right and wrong is dim."
This is obviously a big loss in life.
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Once, I bought a relatively low water cup because of greed, but in the process of using this water cup broke and scratched my hand, which had a very big impact on me, and since then I am no longer willing to be greedy for small and cheap, because greedy for small and cheap will suffer a big loss.
In addition, I have bought some counterfeit brands, only to find that the material is very poor or even the counterfeit is obvious, and I have lost a lot of money. I once bought some fakes because of greed, but it turned out that the quality was very poor, and even the things I bought back could not be used, and I lost a lot of money. I once bought some inferior food because of the cheap orange boy, but I found that the taste was very poor, and even some food had a lot of stains, and I lost a lot of money.
I once bought some inferior clothes because of greed for small and cheap clothes, but I found that the workmanship was very poor, and it was easy to fade, and I lost a lot of money.
I think that to be a man, you have to stick to your bottom line, and you love people who are greedy and cheap, and maybe you will be fine once or twice. But once you stretch out your hand, it is difficult to stop, and sooner or later you will do things without principles and bottom lines, which is the biggest failure in life, and people who are greedy for small and cheap things are the easiest to suffer a big loss.
In short, greedy for small and cheap suffers big losses. There is a good saying: "The greatest pain in life is that no one needs you, and no one pays attention to you."
And the people who love to be greedy and cheap are exactly what everyone hates, everyone wants to stay away, and in the end they don't even have friends. People who love to be greedy for small and cheap can easily ruin their own future and future. People do not crack to stop living in the present but also have to consider the long-term and future, and small cheap is often the immediate small interests, although it is easier to obtain, but it is also easy to cause you to lose a leaf of the blind, the situation is not Taishan, and it is easy for you to lose a big because of choking and waste food.
I will always remember the lesson that I am greedy for small things and suffer big losses, and change my concept of consumption.
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There are some people around me who love to buy cheap, and I deal with them in the following way:
1.Be vigilant. It is necessary to maintain a certain degree of vigilance against the pure limbs of such people, so as not to be used by them.
People who love to take advantage of small profits often take advantage of various opportunities to make small profits, which can make the people around them suffer. Therefore, when dealing with such people, it is necessary to pay close attention to the details to prevent them from being taken advantage of.
2.Don't borrow money at will. It will not lend money to such people at will, so as not to cause unnecessary trouble. People who love to be greedy for small debts will not care about indebtedness, but the small debts you auction will also cause a certain burden, and if the risk of bad debts is greater, it is better not to borrow money easily.
3.Be cautious in your dealings. If you need to have transactions with such people, you must be cautious, especially in terms of contracts or **, etc., to avoid losses caused by the other party's calculations.
People who love to buy small will always try to maximize the profit in trading, so you also need to learn to be cautious.
4.Don't miss out on subsections. For this kind of person, I will choose to care about the posture and values of the world, and I will not be too entangled in small thrifts or interests.
People who love to be greedy tend to be more serious about small issues, and I don't think there is any need to be too weak with him in this case, so as not to cause unnecessary conflicts.
5.Appropriate distancing. If this person's personality has affected my trust in him, I will choose to be moderately distant. It is best to be kind to others or to get along with sincerity, and if the other party's problems cannot be adjusted, keeping a distance is a safe choice for both parties.
The above is my general strategy and way of dealing with people who love to buy small things, in general, we should be vigilant and take precautions, and we must also learn to keep our distance in our interactions, so as not to be affected or deceived. But it is not absolutely alienating, after all, the interaction between people still depends on the specific situation.
Yes, I appreciate this person every day like looking at a painting, of course, people are big bosses, they must have unique secrets, they are bold and upright, and there is no negative news, making such friends is very face-saving, and I can show off what is a tall friend, and people who are greedy for cheap make me feel inferior and very faceless.
When I went out to play, I didn't take any paper, so I went to the KFC store and bought a Coke, and then asked for a lot of paper, and I felt a little too much.
Bought a cheap used car and ended up in an accident.
There are often free things to try in the supermarket, and many parents usually like to take their children there to eat free things when they have nothing to do, even if they don't buy anything, they have to eat and come back, I really don't think that is earned. Those things are not worth much money in the first place, and children have a misunderstanding about buying things, children will think, even if there is no money to eat, why should I spend money to buy it, just eat it for free? Such children will be easy to be fooled in the future because they are greedy for small and cheap, because they will think that pie will fall from the sky at any time, but they don't know how to analyze, and there will never be a free lunch in the world. >>>More
is to buy those particularly cheap goods on the **, originally wanted to take advantage of the small advantage, but ended up buying knockoffs.