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I feel the same way, I am the same now, sometimes I don't mean what I want to say, but then I think about it, people will not think according to my smugness, and then I have to deliberately circle things back early, I have been the leader many times, there is no way! My brain just thinks don't talk badly, sometimes I think about why I'm so stupid! They told me that it was best not to speak, now I won't say too much, and I can't make friends with the leader, there is no way, what I say, come back at night, I will save my body!
Slowly I think it'll be fine.
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It would be nice to be more mature, I don't like to look at people who do something and preach that they think they are great.
Don't say it quickly, think about it and say it again, it's much easier to offend someone now than to please someone.
Doing things also depends on experience, just looking at it is not enough, this point must be admitted, practice more to find opportunities, of course, it is very important to think about what needs to be done.
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Don't say something when you read it, and don't say it when it's clear. Otherwise, every time you succeed and fail, it's a lever. As long as it doesn't hurt your interests, learning to stand by is not a bad thing! Learn to lose to understand the value of gain!
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To put it simply: one. Observe the words.
Two. Sometimes silence is better than sound.
Three. Think a lot, think from the other person's point of view, and then speak.
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Speak! Say what you want to say.
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bu Don't always feel like this, thinking so stupid about what words do.
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I'm going to answer all the questions you raised.
1. Doing things is more direct, not necessarily a bad thing, and doing things directly is easy to make true friends. But sometimes it is easier to offend people, you can find some books on the art of behavior, and take a look at the way of doing things taught by others.
2. Fight to meet people who have no rules and regulations to do bad things, and people who have no principles. You don't have to be taboo about this, but you must remember that you have your own rules and principles. They will appreciate this over time, and if you have time, it's a good idea to point them out.
3. Keep a peaceful mind, not everyone in this world can become a climate. Because there are different kinds of people, the world seems so vocal and accepts it calmly.
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