Should I ask my boyfriend about his previous relationship history?

As soon as you say that he is 20 years older, I think of a picture of a young girl in the flower season being taken away by an old wolf.

Actually, you didn't make it clear, he is 20 years older than you, he won't have a wife and no children, right? It's not clear, it's not good.

But I think if you don't want to leave him, you should ask less, at least not blatantly.

Let's assume that he loves you: he must have had a woman, and if you ask him, he is afraid that you will leave him, so he will make up some white lies. Or he is more open and tells you how many women he has, and how much he loves her. I don't think that's going to be the answer to make you happy.

He cheats on your feelings: you ask him, and he sweetly tells you that you are his first. Or you are afraid that you are a little sheep and run away, what do you say, how many women there are, how much they love him. I don't think you'll be happy either.

So, it's better not to ask and let the happiness last a little longer.

It depends on the person, but the average cheerful boy can ask him these questions and he will be happy to share them with you.

If it's the withdrawn, selfish kind, then you'd better not ask.

I don't think it's okay to ask, as long as you don't mind!

You are in his present tense, if you have faith, then you are his future tense, he is even yours in the future, why do you care about his past! asked, he said really, you feel uncomfortable, tell the false, he feels uncomfortable, why bother!

To be honest, you care a lot about his past, and if you don't, you won't even have this idea.

With a 20-year difference, you're not a good fit! If you're a normal person, then don't take any chances, 20 years old, think about it.

In the mind of a stupid person like me, there may only be the kind of game that can be played by rich lords and girls who don't know the height of the sky, and normal people still go the normal way.

Don't, at least don't ask deliberately... Even if you ask, can he tell the truth? 20 years old, you're not his opponent, ask yourself to add blockage, you continue to maintain the image of being innocent and cute and fighting for love...

To love Him is to embrace all that He has.

What kind of nerves, don't ask as soon as possible, it's not that you're embarrassed after asking. It's better not to know anything about this kind of thing.

Hehe, stupid one. How stupid is that man to say. Except that he doesn't care about you. It doesn't matter what you say.

The two of them can sit down and communicate well, ask tactfully, and if he doesn't want to say it, just look at his expression.

I think you can ask your boyfriend directly, but this is not conducive to the development of the relationship, nor is it conducive to the harmony of the relationship, and it will also cause a lot of conflicts between the two parties, so we must pay attention to this aspect of the problem.

You should ask directly, and let the other party understand your thoughts, so that you can avoid a lot of contradictions.

The two of them can sit down and have a good time, turn to ask, if he doesn't want to say, just look at his face.

Regardless of the past. Therefore, some men are confused by how many times their girlfriends have talked about love, and they have to find an opportunity to ask for a clear question, which is very immature.

You must know that a woman is more sensitive, and perhaps she was hurt in the previous relationship and is reluctant to mention it, and it is very easy for the man to ask about the details, or even to get to the bottom of it, which can easily arouse resentment from the other party. How do you think she can answer this question? Because you care so much, if she tells you the truth, it will only increase your annoyance.

So a wise woman will tell you: I have been in love once before you, but I am in love with you for the last.

Only by ignoring the past and looking at the future can we deepen this feeling.

Be honest with each other.

Therefore, at the beginning of a relationship, both men and women should be honest and sincere, and should not avoid their own shortcomings, so that it is easier for them to understand each other and to run in before marriage.

Don't have skin-to-skin kisses too soon.

When the love is strong, the flowers bloom spontaneously. Men and women have reached a certain stage of love and are eager to have more. However, it is not necessarily a good thing for this to happen too soon.

Sometimes men are strange animals with strange brain circuits, and they wonder if the other party is too casual and behaves when they get it.

Therefore, the women themselves should have a good grip on their own Tongyuan, so as not to suffer a big loss in the end.

Male friends should also remember that respecting each other is also the same as respecting oneself. A man who is restrained and patient is more likely to make a woman feel reliable and go with the flow, isn't it?

Anyway, I think it's best for you not to ask about your boyfriend and ex, because it will affect your relationship very much. I feel uncomfortable knowing it.

Don't ask, I want to know again, and I feel uncomfortable when I know it! I never deliberately mention it, he wants to say that as long as it is not too much, I will not say anything, listen to laughter, sometimes make a joke, it's all in the past, don't make yourself unhappy. We have been friends for many years before we were together, and I basically know everything about him, but I never tell my ex in front of him, even if he asks me, because I believe that everyone feels the same way, don't look for trouble.

Personally, I think you can ask about the story of your boyfriend and ex, he may not necessarily affect your relationship, whether it will affect your relationship, it mainly depends on what you think, and if your boyfriend is not willing to tell it, then you must not ask again.

In fact, as the current one, you should ask about the situation of your boyfriend and your ex, because your boyfriend doesn't matter who he was with before, but now he is with you, so you can learn about his previous relationship experience, if you really love each other, you should be honest with each other, and if he treats you with his heart, there will be no contradictions.

If you want to ask, you should ask, it shouldn't affect your relationship, and it will have a very good effect on your relationship.

In today's open era, people look at their partners' personal feelings relatively lightly. But there are also some people who are always dwelling on the past. So how should we view our lover's emotional experience?

Let's break it down!

First,Attribute his current excellence to past experiences, including emotional ones.

Everyone's present has a shadow of the past. That is to say, everyone's growth experience and environment will affect a person's personality and living habits. So in love life, what kind of emotional experience a person has had and what kind of partner he has met will also directly affect his attitude towards relationships.

If your significant other is considerate and caring. Then you must be grateful for his past and cherish the present even more.

Second,Everyone has a past they don't want to talk about, and neither do you?

In modern society, most people have a very open attitude towards relationships, and young people will also enjoy the sense of security and happiness that love brings to them. But no one can guarantee that they will be able to meet the person who will spend the rest of their lives together in a relationship, and the hurt they have suffered in love will leave a scar in their hearts. This scar may always be there, but most people choose not to touch it and slowly forget it.

If you can also protect his scars and prevent your other half from suffering again, I think he will cherish and love you even more. At the same time, it will also protect those scars in your heart that you don't want to be touched, so that the feelings of mutual respect will definitely go further.

Third,The past cannot be repeated, and only by grasping the present can we not let ourselves become the past of tomorrow.

How can there be regret medicine in the world? If everyone could predict the future, or maybe time could be turned back. Then I believe that everyone is not willing to meet the person who can't make it to the end.

Now that it's a thing of the past and can't be changed, why not accept it with grace? It is better to enjoy the happy and sweet love of the moment than to be immersed in the shadows of the past and not be able to let go. Excessive dwelling on the past will only make both of you unhappy, and eventually the relationship will break down, and you will become his past, right?

The previous experience is just a thing of the past, and with your current boyfriend, then don't talk about the past often, if you talk about it often, it will affect the relationship, and you can look at it with a calm mind.

It's too normal for my boyfriend to have a few relationships, I can understand that as long as they break off cleanly, as long as they are healthy enough, if their lives are very flooded, then I will definitely be very unhappy and want to break up.

You should use a normal psychology to look at your boyfriend's previous emotional experience, after all, it has become a thing of the past, and you should pay attention to your boyfriend's feelings for yourself in front of you, because people want to live in the present, don't always dwell on the past.

If your boyfriend is let go, you will be even more obsessed with your boyfriend's inability to let go.

The key is that now, the past has been turned over, as long as he is true to you and is willing to pay for you, it is enough to love him, and it is not good for the relationship to mention the past.

Hello landlord, many people will have emotional experiences, which is also human nature, as long as it is a normal emotion, there is no need to mind.

Feelings are complicated things, but your boyfriend's previous emotional experience is better for you to let it turn the page and don't mention it again, because you are living in the present, only living well is better than anything else, why mention the past.

In fact, the current society is very open, and you can't look at his previous emotional experience, but see if he still has any connection with the previous female return ticket. After all, there are so many ex-girlfriends. A little affection was deceived by one or two **.

Then don't want this kind of man. Disturbing. If he dissociates himself from the relationship, then you can ignore his rich emotional experience.

There are a few people in this world who are clean.

Honestly, who hasn't had a few girlfriends or a few boyfriends? If you say that you want to find your first love and get married, it is basically very rare, and there are actually some of them, so if you treat your boyfriend's previous feelings, you can only say that as long as he loves me now, I don't care about what happened before.