Should the elderly give all their savings to their children?

If the children are filial, it is okay for the elderly to give all their savings and property to their children in advance. But the premise is that you are sure that your children are indeed filial. If you can achieve such a family, it must be a very warm family, a family of complete trust, a family full of love and happiness, and a model family in society.

In this case, the elderly can leave a house to live in, and the excess real estate can be given to their children to live in, and the savings are also dealt with, and they can leave part of the pension money, and the excess money can be used for their children to buy a house, or other investment and financial management. The advantage of this is that it not only ensures the security of one's life in old age, but also supports the investment and financial management of one's children.

The old man should have a nest of his own, and this nest is his own home. As the saying goes, the golden nest and silver nest are not as good as their own grass nest, the elderly have their own home, have their own independent space, this is one of the most important conditions for the elderly to live happily in their later years, is the last word, remember to remember, don't lose this idea! Those who give their property to their children in advance, but end up displaced, and the tragic end of being under the fence is not all, but it is not rare.

Older people give all their savings and property to their children in advance. Or in a word, birth, old age, sickness and death are the natural laws of human life, who can avoid it? When the elderly have more than enough hearts, when they are not in good health and can not do anything, when they can't spend the money in their hands, when their children are devoted to serving you and fulfilling their filial piety, shouldn't they give their savings and real estate to their children?

Some people say that their property will be left to their children sooner or later, and it is better to give it early than to give it late.

If it is true that the children are very filial and have been living in the children's home, then there is indeed a certain necessity, whether the property or fixed assets, to the children to take care of, after all, in the end it does not belong to your two elders or to the children, so as long as it is a reasonable distribution, I believe the children will also gladly accept it. Of course, after the parents transfer all his property to their children, I believe that as a child, he will definitely take care of his parents' retirement life more carefully.

The reason is that if you hand over all your savings and real estate to your children in advance, it will make you fall into a more passive realm, in case there are some changes, it is difficult for you to deal with and deal with them, so the safest way is to keep them first, and then give them to your children in the end.

I don't think it's good, the current raising of children to prevent old age is really unreliable. It also depends on the degree of filial piety of your children. I know a lot of them are given to their children in advance, and no one cares about the old people when they are old, and their old age is very miserable.

I don't think that's good, because some of the children are actually unreliable, and when they get the money of the elderly, instead of taking care of it, they will take it for themselves or squander it.

I'm curious, are you an old man or a child? If you are an elderly person, whether you tell your children how much you have saved is your personal business, and others cannot interfere; If you are a child, how much savings the old man has told you is his freedom, you have no right to interfere, after all, it is his personal property, his own property he has the right to decide and distribute, and his property does not necessarily have to be given to the children, it can be donated to the society or to welfare institutions, understand?

The old man's deposit is private property.

Nowadays, there are many young people who always want to inherit their parents' property, I wonder, your parents' property is your parents' property, your parents have the absolute right to distribute, as a child you have absolutely no right to interfere, you don't think that your parents' property is yours sooner or later, I advise you not to have this kind of thought, because now there are too many unfilial children, and there are many children who are lazy to eat, and your parents may donate all their property before death because of these factors. Therefore, if you want to continue your parents' property, you must live as a human being, respect your parents, and be filial to your parents.

Elderly people have the right to keep their property confidential.

The old man does not have to tell his children how much he has in savings, because the savings are his own, he can decide how to use it, who should be given it to whom he should not be given it to him, he has a scale in his heart, and in reality there are many cases where the property of the elderly is not given to his biological children, for example, to take care of his nanny all day long, to people who are good to him. Of course, the vast majority of the elderly still distribute their property to their children, after all, relatives are closer than anything else, more important than anything else!

Conclusion: How much savings the elderly have, whether to inform their children is based on mutual trust. The elderly have the right to choose whether to tell their children or not to tell their children, and the children cannot not support the elderly or look at the elderly differently because the elderly do not tell you how much they have saved. The old man has a scale in his heart, whether his children are good to him, filial piety or not, or who their savings are left to, they know very well in their own hearts.

In short, as a child, you should not think about the property of the elderly all day long, some elderly people live far longer than you think, even longer than the life expectancy of children. If you are told in advance how much property he has, in case the old man has less property, you ignore him, in case there is more property, you let it be lazy and degenerate from then on, so it is not good for you and him, so whether the old man will tell you the property, he must have his own ideas, as a child, do not guess, let alone ask, you will know when you should know.

Do you know that only the old man told you? The elderly have the right to privacy. There is no law that explicitly states that children must know. Maintaining personal privacy has nothing to do with age. Therefore, it is not necessary for the elderly to know the privacy of their children.

The old man, as his heir, should let them know that there is this savings. But as long as the old man is still alive and does not have Alzheimer's disease or confusion, the money still belongs to him.

This depends on the wishes of the elderly, after all, the money belongs to the old man, he has the right to control, how to distribute the old man has the bottom of his heart, as a son and daughter, he should not ask the old man about his money, and respect the old man.

Depending on the wishes of the elderly, the children of the elderly do not have any rights when they are alive. In the case of Alzheimer's disease, a guardian must be appointed by law, but it cannot be divided when the elderly person has not passed away.

The old man is old, and he has some money in hand that should be known to his children.

There are three main reasons why the elderly should not tell their children how much savings they have, first, they can eat and buy what they want if they have money; second, the money is your own, and it has nothing to do with your children, so there is no need to tell them; Third, having money in hand can ensure that children are good to themselves, but also just in case, so I think the elderly should not tell their children how much they have saved, and when people are old, there are more places to use money, and they can live a little more chic if they have money, and keep money not only for life, but also to retain their dignity.

First, the elderly should not tell their children about the amount of savings in their hands, first of all, because they can live a chic life with money.

When people reach old age, they can not go to work, they can only spend their own accumulated money, and there are many places to use money, not only in life, but also some physical examinations or want to travel, etc., all need money, if you tell your children about your savings, it is easy for your children to leave, so that you have no money to be more passive, you may have to look at the eyes of others to live.

Second, the second is that the money is your own, and it has nothing to do with your children, so there is no need to report it to them.

The second is that the old man's savings are accumulated by his own hard work all his life, and he has nothing to do with his children, and he has no obligation to tell them how much money he has, telling them that he can only let them covet his own money, which is not conducive to family harmony, so he should not tell his children, and feel that when he is old, he should stop thinking about his children and do what he wants to do, so that life can be considered relatively complete.

3. Just in case, let your children be filial all the time, and you should not tell your children about your savings.

If the children are more filial, it doesn't hurt to tell the children, but I am afraid that those children who are not very filial, if they know the savings of the elderly, when the old man has no money, he will no longer be good to the elderly, then the old man's old age will definitely be more difficult, so for the sake of his own well-being in his old age, he should not tell his children about his savings.

I think that if you feel that you are healthy and can live for many years, there is no need to tell your children, when your children are in trouble, you can also take out this money to help your children, and if you feel that your life is not long, you can tell your children about your savings in the form of a will.

I think this should be analyzed on a case-by-case basis, for some children who are not very filial to their parents, they should not be told how much savings they have, which may make them have some bad intentions and cheat money from the old man through some deceptive means, but if the old man is delirious, he can let his children manage the money.

Don't tell your children. This is the privacy of the elderly and should not be spoken.

Personally, I think that what to do with the savings of the elderly is the freedom and rights of the elderly, and the elderly choose to tell their children out of trust in their children, but if the savings of the elderly are not told to their children, there is no need for the children to accuse the elderly of being wrong.

In fact, when we were young, we would treat our parents as a family, but I don't know when we gradually became estranged from our parents. At least that's how my family is. In the past, when I was young, my parents would calculate how much savings the family had in front of me.

Ever since I went to college and had a job, I never talked about my savings in front of me, and I really didn't know anything about how much money I had in my family. It made me feel like an outsider, excluded by my parents. This also led me to not mention it to my parents after I worked, no matter how much money I earned.

But I wouldn't ask about his parents' savings, and they would ask me about my salary and savings. This makes me feel very uncomfortable.

But on the other hand, I thought that my parents' money was their own money, and that I, as an adult, had nothing to do with my money anymore. All I should do is work hard and work hard to earn money to give my parents a better life.

However, there are also some parents who will tell their children all the savings in their family, such parents often expect their children to settle down better in the future and entrust themselves to their children, while my parents may not expect me to provide for them in the future.

Therefore, as the elderly continue to deal with their choices, as children, we must respect the choices of our parents. But no matter what our parents choose, we are all obligated to honor our parents and support them. At the same time, I also hope that the elderly can let go of some secular concepts, freely dispose of their savings, choose not to tell their children, and there is no need to feel guilty or have some psychological burden, after all, it is their own money, just follow their own wishes.

When we were young, we were naturally a family with our parents, but as we grew up, got married, had children, and started a family, it was natural to break away from the original family and establish a new family. In fact, I think this approach and choice for the elderly is also reasonable.

Because that's always the way I get along with my parents. When I was young, I was able to know how much money was in my passbook, and since I went to college, my parents often deliberately carried me behind my back when discussing money matters, although it made me feel a little excluded and uncomfortable, but after a long time, I felt that there was nothing. And as I started working, I gradually moved out of the house to live outside, and I didn't know how much money my parents had in their hands at this time, and my parents never took the initiative to tell me how much money was in the house.

And I won't deliberately ask, because the money in my parents' hands has nothing to do with me, after all, I am an adult, and I can support myself independently, so there is no need to pay attention to how much money my parents have to continue to gnaw at the old.

But from another point of view, it is not a particularly good thing for the elderly not to tell their children how much money they have, after all, when the elderly are old, they will naturally face the danger of their lives, and now the pressure on the children's family, money, society, and three aspects is very great. If the elderly blindly hide the money and hide it from their children, they may wait until the day when the elderly really get sick, and the children will also face the situation that the medical expenses are expensive and cannot be paid because they do not know how much money the elderly have in their hands. Although parents need to rely on their children for the elderly, but in this society, children will generally have their own children to support after marriage, just the children's tuition fees, living expenses are a lot of money, coupled with high medical costs, it is indeed unbearable.

Therefore, when parents reach a certain age, it is best to talk to their children about how much money they have in their hands. Telling your children doesn't mean giving them money, it's two different things altogether.

Finally, I also hope that your children can understand any decision made by the elderly, after all, although the elderly are old, they still have their own right to choose, which is the elderly's own money can be freely disposed of, but at the same time, I also hope that the elderly can tell their children how much money they still have in their hands at a critical moment, which may be related to their own lives and the pressure that their children will face in the future. After all, everyone is a family, and money shouldn't be a sensitive topic. Tend to be honest, there's nothing wrong with that.