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But women should be more affectionate and afraid than men, so they can't quickly step into the next marriage. Many women go into a low point in their lives once they get divorced. The impact they suffer in their relationship will be very large, and some people know that they can't hold on for a long time, but they still can't convince themselves and can't get out of their last marriage.
But this kind of woman also needs to be informed here, you must know that the unhappiness of marriage is something you cannot predict, so no matter what, please remember to leave some way back for yourself.
Although this sentence is somewhat practical, social development is like this, you have to have self-confidence to live a better life. Ms. Jiang once had a very happy marriage, when she first got married, she was very in love with her husband, and there was no disagreement with her mother-in-law, and the family seemed happy and warm.
After getting married, Ms. Jiang took the initiative to quit her job because she needed to take care of her family, and became a housewife, taking care of her children and in-laws at home every day. originally thought that if he was not arrogant or humble, his marriage would be happier. But as time passed, everything changed.
I don't know why, Ms. Jiang often hears her mother-in-law gossip about her, and her husband has also influenced her mentality a lot.
Ms. Jiang knew that her marriage was in trouble and that she could not go back. She thought about it for a long time, and finally decided to divorce her husband, and for the children, she and her husband each took care of them for a year. But after the divorce, Ms. Jiang will really feel the hardship of Sister Ri, the water spilled by the married woman, and Ms. Jiang's parents are relatively old and dull, they will feel that Ms. Jiang lost the face of the student after the divorce, so they pay little attention to Ms. Jiang's life.
In the end, Ms. Jiang lived alone and rented a rental house. But when she lived alone, Ms. Jiang realized that she resigned after marriage and stayed at home, as if she didn't know anything else except laundry and cooking, and even had nothing in her wallet. Before Ms. Jiang divorced, all she consumed every month was given to her by her husband, and she couldn't think of saving money at that time, but now she understands that life is not easy.
Especially after Ms. Jiang and her husband got married, she felt that she didn't need to contact some good friends who hadn't been in touch for a long time, so she also deleted the contact of her friends**, even if she didn't delete it, it was just a friend who liked it.
Ms. Jiang figured out that even if she went to find this kind of borrowed money herself, few would lend her. Now the only way is to do something that you can do, to stabilize first, and only to take one step at a time. In fact, what the figure wants to tell you here is that women are at a disadvantage after divorce, if they don't have a certain level of savings at the beginning, or actively become a housewife after marriage.
Please be sure to consider whether your marriage is really suitable for you.
If a woman does not have her own assets, whether she has a happy event or is divorced, her life is actually not very easy. The most important thing for women is to rely on themselves, only if they can have a sufficient level, they will not become more and more poor and helpless.
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A woman must have a deposit of about 500,000 yuan, and she will have confidence after getting married, so that her marriage will not be particularly bleak, and her marriage will become very happy.
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In marriage, financial independence must be maintained, and a woman should at least save 50,000 to 100,000 private money in her own hands. This way you don't put yourself on the back foot.
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Personally, I think that women have their own financial independence, and only when they speak can they have the right to speak.
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Second, women who save money know how to live betterA woman who knows how to save money knows how to live better. Because a married woman knows that saving money is a thing that must be done, and she must also work hard to make money. After all, in married life, not only oneself, but also children.
If you don't save money, when you don't have the economy, the people around you will live with you, and you will definitely suffer to varying degrees.
A woman in marriage must have her own concept of money. Don't feel that after getting married, it seems that there will be someone to rely on for the rest of your life. If you fail in your marriage one day, you will inevitably suffer a lot because you don't have money.
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Very important. Women must know how to save money in marriage, which is the guarantee of your married life, and it is difficult to move an inch without money.
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In marriage, if a woman saves her own money, she can achieve financial freedom and spend freely.
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It is actually very important for women to know how to save money, only if you have money on you, then you will find that you live a hard life, and at this time your family will respect you.
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Very important. A woman who knows how to save money knows how to plan her finances reasonably, and when she really needs to use it, she will not be unable to take out money.
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It is very important for women to know that saving money can provide security for later life and can prepare for unexpected needs in life.
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It's important to know how to save money, but it's not for men to spend, maybe you're her wishful husband, it's okay, don't worry about it.
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There is, of course, a big difference between a woman who has a deposit in a marriage and a woman who does not. If a woman is only in her marriage to take care of the family and not save her own savings, then this is a sad thing. After all, if a woman doesn't have any money on herself, then she will feel uneasy about doing anything.
First of all, they are distinguished by their self-confidence。Because women who have savings, they have their own money, so they will not be attached to their husbands, and they can do whatever they want, and they can buy what they like. Sometimes they don't have to look at their husband's face to act, so such women, they are often more confident, and this self-confidence is not only manifested in this good marriage, but also in his work.
And women who have no savings, they are often more cowardly, and they will habitually ask their husbands for money every month, so that they habitually bow their heads in front of their husbands. So women like this, of course, they don't have self-confidence.
And women who have savings, they will appear stronger, because they have their own money, so no matter what happens, they have confidence。But for women who don't have savings, they often panic when something happens, because they don't have any extra money on them. And they often have to look at their husband's face, or even look at their mother-in-law's face, so this is not a very good thing for them.
So if a woman gets married, then she must save her own money, or she can't give up her job because of marriage, then this is a relatively big blow for the rest of your life.
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I think women with savings can be more self-reliant and self-confident, and women without savings will be bullied.
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In marriage, there is a woman who has a stool to save money, and she is full of confidence, and she does not need to be quiet in her mother-in-law's house; A woman who has no money has no status in her in-law's family, is groveling, and is often bullied.
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The two can't be compared at all, a woman with savings must have the right to speak at home without savings, and she is definitely very humble.
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Women with savings generally have a very high status at home, and women without savings go without saying.
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Women with savings are more domineering at home and have a strong side.
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A woman with savings can buy whatever she wants, while a woman without savings has to rely on her husband for everything.
I don't think the rich are talking about how much money they have in their savings, but how many industries they have, and how many industries they have that can generate value.
Over a million. At the age of 40, I have basically worked for about 20 years, so it is not a big deal to have a million like this.
The two can't be compared at all, a woman with savings must have the right to speak at home without savings, and she is definitely very humble.
Because women have too many things that men don't have, and men need it to make up for it, so to a large extent, men need women to be complete and think that life is meaningful.
In fact, when I got married, I didn't have any savings, after all, I still spent a lot when I talked about friends, and I wasn't highly educated? When I get married, I only have a deposit of 30,000 or 50,000 yuan.