Should I go out and work hard, do you think young people should go out and work hard?

It depends on your relationship, in fact, isn't it better for people who love each other to work together? If you work hard alone and lose her, what if you win the whole world?

I think to go, you think about it, how much does it cost to buy a house and land now, without money, your girlfriend will become someone else's wife sooner or later, feelings are very important, but the parents' ideas also have a big impact.

First of all, if you can't see each other for a long time after you separate, you have to be prepared for a relationship breakdown, you want to go out to work hard, and then you get married, and then you go to Beijing after you are not familiar with life, you will not be used to being helpless, and the expenses in the middle are huge, believe me, you will lose more after you go, you dare not do anything after you have the capital, cherish what is in front of you, I have also gone out, my friends have also gone out, most of them have come back in a gloomy manner, and you still have a girlfriend, you should know which is more important in your heart.

Some people study abroad, and some people live and work outside the home. Have you ever lived and worked alone, no one is waiting for you at home alone, eating hot pot, going to the supermarket. Are you in a strange city and feel happy?

Lonely at night like a dog or a dog! That year, I left home and went to live in Hangzhou, every day from morning to night, alone, straight to the finch class. I remember one night, it rained a lot, I didn't bring an umbrella, I didn't have a car, the Mobike bike couldn't sweep it, the program was broken, I couldn't find the car, the others were ridden away by others, and the phone was turned off.

Do you know what it's like to be alone in the middle of the night in the middle of the night? I squatted on the ground and cried, but no one could see it, because thank God it was raining. What is the loneliest time for a person, just like you have happiness, no one to share, you are sad, no one to comfort, gradually, a person slowly gets used to it, as soon as it is time to rest, he stays in the rented place and goes to the supermarket to buy enough food for the day, and then, in the place where he lives, he watches TV, paints, and sleeps in a daze.

Working and living outside is for dreams, ideals, and working hard to make your life better! Now, we talk about dreams slowly becoming extravagant, and we start chasing around to make ourselves look less depressed. Social interaction is getting weaker and weaker, life is getting more and more homely, working and living in an unfamiliar city, and suddenly I feel that although I have a place to live, the most heartbreaking thing is home.

Working hard in an unfamiliar city and taking care of yourself, although it is not easy, although it is not good, although it is not bad, although the city is indifferent, although it is not good, although it is hysterical to cry in the middle of the night, although it is so, it is much better than the original.

Loneliness, strangeness, indifference, is synonymous with not knowing a strange city, I hope that in a strange city, you can get rid of your troubles as soon as possible, let yourself live a good life as soon as possible, I hope you live happily, no one is around, hug yourself when you are sad.

This question reminds me of when I first came to Shenzhen in 2003 and worked hard for a job that could provide food and clothing.

Just graduated from school, I always feel that I can sweep thousands of troops invincible, and I can leave a proud back for the world. But when I stood on the streets of Shenzhen, I realized how pale and powerless that thought was. Because I don't have too high education and work experience, many companies directly reject us who have just come out of school and have no experience.

Shenzhen's talent market is divided into grades and speaks directly with academic qualifications. The higher you go to the top, the higher the academic requirements, the better the job, and the treatment is not to mention. When I first arrived in Shenzhen, I was not in a hurry to find a job, and I always felt that I could definitely find a good job with my own ability.

In the past few days, I slowly turned around in the talent market, and my resume was also submitted based on the job I wanted. As the bosses of all the interview units shook their heads collectively as if they had discussed it, their wallets became tighter and tighter, and there was a sense of urgency in their hearts.

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The torment of not having a job can be imagined, and being in such a strange city is in yourself. It's no better than at home, hungry and having something to eat. If you don't do it outside, you'll have to go hungry, the anxiety, the disappointment with the city, and the hard work of waiting.

That unwise feast can be described in a sentence or two.

I began to wonder if I was setting my goals too high. I even thought that as long as there was a unit to accept it, even if the major was not right, I would do it, and now is not the time for me to be proud.

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The goal is lowered, and it is naturally easier to find a job, although I still hit a wall everywhere, but there are still units willing to accept me as a novice with no work experience. I worked, learned, gained work experience, and waited for the opportunity to come.

You must be diligent outside, it won't work to be ambitious, and down-to-earth is the most important. The virtue of hardship and hard work is loved by any boss, and if you keep this virtue, it will beckon to you at work.

A larger part of the population returns to a small city, finds a job safely, and can save a lot of money every month, and then follows the society's requirements for age, should get married, should have children. With the passage of time, the network resources in the small city are slowly accumulated, and then the living conditions are getting better and better.

It must be admitted that a person who has the courage to go to a strange city will really grow up quickly, which means that everything you have, everything you have, you have to fight by yourself, and compete with people who are more educated, more capable and smarter than you. Maybe at the beginning is a simple young man with no scheming, life in the big city will hone your scheming deeply, the workplace is deceitful, intrigued, and has more contact, and there is no myth that is out of the mud and not stained, and if you don't synchronize with others, even survival is a problem.

Finally, I would like to give you a piece of advice: if you are still young, you should go out, face the cruelty of life alone, that experience will make you grow up quickly, but at the same time, you have to think about the most critical question, people have the habit of returning to their roots, in your life, whether you want to settle in a big city, or want to live in the city where you grew up, this is a very important question.

If you want to settle in a big city, the most important thing for you is not to work hard to make money, but to work hard to broaden your network and make friends with people from all walks of life who are more powerful than you.

If the last thing you want to do is to return to your family, friends, and the city where you grew up, then you should focus on trying more, experiencing more, and seeing more in the big city for a few years.

There is also a problem, that is, don't change cities frequently, this is also very important, the longer you stay in a city, the more connections and resources around you, if you change a city at this time, all the connections and resources maintained before are almost useless, and everything has to start over.

There is a good saying: choose a city to grow old. Then your life will get better and better, choose a base camp, focus on development, and after the income is stable, poetry and distance can be experienced in the way of travel.

Personally, I think that young people should go out and work hard, they should work hard for their ideals and for the life they want, don't choose comfort when they are young, they must do what they want to do, and they must work hard.

Young people should really go out and work hard, only in this way can they create brilliance and then make themselves excellent.

Each of us needs to find a job and get a salary to support ourselves. ......For young people, if they can't even guarantee survival in their job, how should they deal with this problem, the specific understanding of this issue includes the premise that they can maintain a stable life, they should seek career development on the basis of ensuring a stable life, and young people must make a decision to find a new job when their work is not even guaranteed.

1. When we choose to work, we must be able to maintain a stable life.

For the vast majority of us, we need to rely on our salary income to support ourselves. Therefore, when we choose a job, we must be able to maintain a stable life as the premise, and only when we meet these conditions can we choose this job. ......As a young person, this is the first thing to pay attention to when choosing a job.

2. On the basis of ensuring the stability of life, you should seek career development and success.

Ensuring stability is only one of the most basic needs, and we need to have it, but we must not be satisfied with it alone. ......Specifically, when young people choose a job, they should further seek career development and career success on the premise of ensuring that their jobs can ensure a stable life, so that they can benefit the most.

3. If their jobs do not ensure survival, young people should immediately look for new jobs.

As a young person, who is in the initial stage of his career, how to make a good start and a good start in his working life is a very important issue. ......Therefore, when young people find that the work they are engaged in cannot ensure their own survival, they need to make a decision and choose a job that is truly suitable for their life and development, so that they can achieve better development and ultimate success.