I want to change him, how can I get him to change himself?

Do you know whether you love your boyfriend or So Ji-sub? If you love him just because he looks like someone, do you really love him? What do you think he would think if he heard that?

If I had to choose one of the answers you gave, you would be wrong.

He's not your doll, and you know what, he's not a substitute for you to fill your own unfulfilled desires. You love Su Ji-sub, you don't love him. So, is it fair to him?

You say it's hard to change him, why change? Imagine if someone falls in love with you because you look like Cecilia Cheung, but hopes that you can also become like her in temperament and personality, can you accept it? You are an individual, and you don't have to be anyone you don't want to be.

People feel the same way, and so does your boyfriend.

I hope you can love your boyfriend, not Su Ji-sub ......

Don't try to change a person deliberately, otherwise, not only may you lose all your efforts, but you may end up hurting yourself.

Don't compare your boyfriend to celebrities or whatever! There are only disadvantages and no good!

Love someone, love the shortcomings but also love the advantages.

If it's a harmless little problem, I think everybody has it, and if you've always wanted to change him, I don't think you're in love with him, so let it go sooner.

Summary. Hello, dear, we can understand this sentence in this way, oh, if he says to you that he wants to change someone, it proves that he trusts you very much, you are willing to communicate with you, what he is thinking and feeling in his heart now, and he may also want you to give him some advice.

He said to me that he wanted to change someone.

Hello, dear, we can understand this sentence in this way, oh, if he says to you that he wants to change someone, it proves that he trusts you very much, you are willing to communicate with you, what he is thinking and feeling in his heart now, and he may also want you to give him some advice.

The person he wants to change, I think it may be the person who is more important to him, he thinks that that person may have some shortcomings that he can't accept, or that person has some bad habits, he thinks he can work hard to make his life better, so he wants to change him.

That's about it, you can refer to it.

One day I told a girl next to me that I couldn't pass the exam, and he also heard it, and when he did Fan Painting at night, he said don't give up on himself, and said that he didn't have any goals now, and wanted to change a person, a bad student, there were many people looking at Fan Painting at that time, and I don't know if he said it to me.

I think it's a possibility, because what you're talking about is very closely related to what happened to you, and he wants to use his own modest strength to pull you so that you can both make some progress, or find your purpose in life.

I think if there is someone who is willing to work with us, it is also very lucky to walk with us, if it is true, but to you, you must seize the opportunity baby.

So does he want to change me, let me study hard?

From your description, I think there is such a meaning, and besides, what you two said is actually quite large, and things are relatively close to each other.

I think you can find out a little bit more, that is, to determine the situation and see if he has some targeted arrangements for you in the future.

It's you who need to change. If this continues, it is only a matter of time before you break up. If he doesn't fight back, it means that he can still bear it now, and he still has love for you. If you continue to do this, your days will come to an end when he can't bear them anymore.

I think your behavior is very bad, you don't have to change your husband to beat him, and vent these things on him, if he really beats you and resists one day, that thing is your unlucky day.

Monkey, giving in will only make you worse, you want to change him Why don't you change yourself, it's not easy to change yourself It's even more difficult to make others change The eternal topic between men and women is the love between men and women, and when you are still young and ignorant, spring love is overflowing. There are boys they like, and boys have girls they like. Some people are red-faced when they meet the person they like, and some people are enthusiastic in the face of the person they like.

So, what kind of behavior do girls like boys?

If a girl likes a boy, she will rely on the boy as her own and will treat the person she likes wholeheartedly. And the attitude is different from other boys. The first manifestation of the difference is to remember more clearly what the boy commands.

If a girl is interested in a boy, as long as the boy explains something, she will record it in her heart, and occasionally provide you with some surprises. For example, you can do what you like, or give a surprise gift on your birthday. Another manifestation is that he will be very patient and gentle with men.

Once a girl likes a man, she will be very patient with this man, and her usual savagery will become gentle, and she will accommodate the boy in everything in life. When a girl likes a boy, she thinks about him even after a breakup, and she will contact him from time to time. If a girl breaks up with you, but contacts you frequently and harasses you, it means that she is in love with you.

Girls like boys' performance and always speak for boys in front of others. When a girl falls in love with a guy, she will often defend you in front of others. If you defend you in front of outsiders, it means that this girl likes you very deeply.

There are four aspects of a girl's liking of boys, she will remember the things the boy tells very clearly, treat the boy she likes more patiently and gently, and will continue to harass and contact the boy when she breaks up, and defends the boy when others count or criticize the boy.

You should feel especially content. It's true. You have a husband who loves you very much. Men are not without tempers. It's just because he cares that you don't want to fight back. If you really love him. You have to rein in your temper.

First of all, I would like to ask you, why do you want to change yourself, and you want to change yourself completely? Everyone comes into the world, we are unique, we are endowed with different personalities and other aspects, we should continue to discover the shining points in ourselves, when you really experience, you will feel extremely confident! At the same time, if you follow your own personality, you will feel happy!

However, perhaps, we are facing the real society, and sometimes we have to change ourselves to adapt to the society and the people around us. However, you don't have to change yourself completely, you just need to change yourself in moderation, if you change yourself too much and lose your personality, you will not win the appreciation of others.

It's your blessing to have such a good man, and now there are a few men who won't be able to fight back. Get rid of your temper first. Embroidery can temper people's hearts.

One is willing to fight and the other is willing to suffer. But after a long time, he will definitely leave you, and no one wants to swallow his anger forever.

I think two people being together is a process that needs to be constantly running-in, a process of adapting to each other!

Only by changing oneself, others cannot change.

The only way to do that is to change your character.

That's a bit excessive.

Why don't you die yourself?

I came to the anthill, where many ants were standing, following the queen's instructions: "Children, we need to stock up on some food for the winter, and we will go our separate ways." So they divided into teams and went separately to find food.