Because of a quarrel, a friend suddenly pays you back, has the friendship come to an end?

No, a real good friend will not cut off the relationship with you because of a quarrel over a trivial matter, perhaps because the quarrel reminds me of the good side of you before, and remembers that your money has not been repaid. So I'll give you the money back.

In the sports meeting last semester, I jumped high, and the last time I used too much force, my thigh cramped, I fell to the ground, I couldn't move, and then I was carried out by my classmates. My classmates were very enthusiastic and said that they would take care of me, but after all, the newly graded class was not very familiar, so I didn't want to trouble others, so I politely refused. She was there at the time, and I struggled to find her, and I said you can go with me to the infirmary, and she said, look, you can still move, there's a boy in our class who is going to run soon, and I want to see him.

Then she walked to the check-in without looking back. I was stunned, really, it hurt, I cramped when I moved. At that time, I didn't even have the courage to call her, and in the end, my current classmates slowly carried me to the infirmary to get ice cubes, and then sent me back.

Really, it's very painful. A friend I've been together for four years is not as good as a stranger who has only met around me.

I think it should be like this, because after a quarrel, I want to cut off all relations with you, and I will return the money I owed you before, which means that there is no more relationship between you.

It's a friend that I think is a good friend, but sometimes it really makes me uncomfortable. Living on campus on weekends, often going out to eat together, shopping for things, are the norm, the weather is hot, walking on the road is like being by the sun from head to caster. I was going to go back to school directly, and then she said she wanted to buy water, so we switched to the supermarket at the school gate (there is a particularly long overpass at the entrance of our school, and we have to walk through the tunnel to get to the supermarket after getting down), I didn't want to, but she asked me to accompany her, and I said you will accompany me back to the classroom to get the power bank later, my phone is out of battery.

She readily agreed, and I went with her. Then when I returned to school, the door was almost closed, I said you accompany me back to the classroom to get a power bank, she looked at me with an unhappy face, and said, "Do you really want to go back?"

I thought you were joking. "I don't know if I'm mentally wrong, but I'm really unhappy. Really, it's just that, very unpleasant feeling.

I said goodbye to her on the spot and went back to the classroom alone.

I'm very possessive. She was very nice to me, she made me feel important, and we were like each other's relatives. However, I found that the older I get, the more my ideas change, for example, I am still naïve, just as the previous topic can make me laugh again, but she becomes more and more mature.

After having a partner, she made me feel like a spare tire, but I actually didn't like this feeling in my heart. Later, I found out that she had a good relationship with the two girls she grew up with, well, to be precise, the three of them were very good with her. I flipped through her Weibo and suddenly felt confused, wasn't that her best friend??

Come to think of it, she never seemed to say that I was her best friend for so many years, even though she had always been very nice to me. Alas, maybe the expectations are too high. I want to let go, but I think it's weird.

Maybe she would have sensed the changes in my heart if she was smart, but she was so busy with love and studies that she didn't care about me at all. Hmm, it doesn't matter, another person silently digests his deep affection for her.

I don't think so, the relationship between you and the good oh will not be so fragile, it's just that the blow is in the anger that's why it's like this, you have to believe that the relationship between you will not be destroyed.

It depends on how big the quarrel is, if it's a small problem, it's not possible, if it's a big contradiction, then it's very likely to be like this.

Of course I do, I never owe anyone money, and I don't want to feel guilty for the rest of my life.

In my opinion, if you borrow money from a friend and break up the relationship, you will still choose to pay back the other party's money.

Of course, it is a matter of integrity, we must have our own principles, and we must not lose our character.

Of course, this money has to be repaid, provided that you take care of the money and you have to pay it back no matter what happens.

I think that one yard is one yard, and the money should still be repaid, which is a person's integrity.

There are several ways to deal with meeting friends who have been unhappy with paying back the money:

If the two of you still have to deal with each other often in the future, then take the initiative to say hello, and if the other party is also very enthusiastic to chat with you, it means that both parties feel that this matter is over and there is no need to think about it in the future. If the other party is very cold to you, then after greeting each other, they will not be rude or suffer any losses.

If you basically don't deal with each other in the future, you can also take the initiative to say hello and appear generous. Then respond according to the other person's reaction, which is basically the same as the above one.

If the relationship is already very bad, then nod and smile, and both sides will be over.