Treat your unintentional husband like this

Friend, let me tell you a story about my family: my father and mother were the same age and married at 23, and at that time, my mother was considered an older young woman. Before marriage.

Dad didn't love my mother very much, they were introduced to each other, and my father's previous girlfriend was driven away by my grandmother because the family was too poor, and my mother said that long after getting married, my father drank too much or called the woman's name. After getting married, they have been fighting for so many years, and their relationship has become colder and colder, and my father even hooked up with other women. Mom has always felt that she is getting older and will just get by, but last year, their marriage came to an end.

So, the man who has no heart for himself, forget it, my mother has loved my father all her life, has been tolerated, has been wronged, and gradually got depression, and I saw my father and other women living like husband and wife in my house, that kind of depression for many years finally broke out, my mother beat the woman, my mother, even the fish dare not kill the person (not lying, our chickens, ducks and fish are all I killed my mother before I dared to get it), actually beat people so hard, Therefore, a woman who has struggled for a long time in an unhappy marriage will have a lot of pain in her heart. Now my mother is 48 years old, but she is very happy now, and she is also heavy (she lost 30 pounds in the previous divorce) because she is in love, my mother often tells me: no matter how good the family of my current object is, how handsome he is, when he doesn't love me, I must not covet anything, or feel that I can match him very well and continue to be wronged, it will be very hard.

If you don't have children yet, then you really don't have to wait for children to solve these things, my mother has endured so many years for me and my brother, boiling her hair white and breaking her heart. Friends, I hope that all children in the world are happy, including your children, and don't put the ice cubes of your cold marriage with your husband into your children's hearts, so that children can grow up in such pain. I grew up in the divorce of my parents, and the shadow in my heart was so deep that I didn't even want children anymore, and I didn't want my children to suffer.

In addition, if your problem with your husband is not so serious, maybe your husband and most men who work hard for the family just don't know how to romantically express his love for you, then please pay attention to the details of life, maybe he doesn't love you, but this kind of love has slowly become an invisible care over time. Pay more attention to the good things in life, and I wish you can still smile happily in the end.

Of course, it's time to cut through the mess quickly! For the sake of such a husband, you succumb to continue living together by yourself, is it worth it?!

The 2nd floor is really well written, first work hard for yourself, communicate more with your husband, and communicate when you want to divorce, depending on his attitude, if you can't leave, don't suffer yourself for a lifetime!

Don't waste an emotionless marriage!

Say goodbye early, maybe the next relationship will be happier, and there is no need to compromise yourself.

It means that your husband is not good to you, and it means that there is something wrong with your relationship.

But you don't give up at all, you still can't let go of the other party at all.

That's why you will make him ruthless, and you will die.

It may be that he doesn't have much hope for him, but he can't give up.

That's why I'm so entangled.

Obvious masochistic tendencies. In today's society, it is not an unspeakable thing for husband and wife to turn against each other and divorce, if they can live together, they will be together, if they can't live together, they will get together and disperse, don't come to cold violence, obviously there is no love, they have to sleep in the same bed and have different dreams, and they are called for this family and children, so that the real harm to others has ......

I don't give up yet, I hope to reconcile. If the husband is ruthless, choose to let go.

Because you have illusions about him. There is also a trace of reluctance. Why bother?