Is it possible to have such a boyfriend? Let s judge whose fault it is, did I do the right thing whe

Updated on society 2024-07-17
33 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It should be said that no one is wrong, and when they all mature in a few years, the story will not be like this. You don't want to break up, but you can't put it down, then there's no way. He was the same. Is the shelf that important? If the shelf is greater than love, it's time to break up.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    When the problem of business management is overheard, I see it inadvertently"Annoyance"After reading your story, you will find a few points:

    1.There is a man's self-esteem at work.

    2.There's a woman's dependence in it.

    If you don't pay back the money in person, maybe there is a so-called self-esteem in it, machismo, men generally don't want to be with women who are stronger than themselves, because there will be pressure, he doesn't want to meet you, maybe because after seeing you, there is pressure.

    The most important thing is that you shouldn't take such things to the Internet and "make it public", you may get countless answers, in fact, what you have in mind is the most correct answer, isn't it? Hehe.

    Actually, you did nothing wrong, he didn't coax you because his self-esteem and machismo were at work, since there is no emotion, separation is also a solution to the problem.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's not the point, it's about whether you care about her, whether you still like her, whether you're still caring.

    If you figure it out yourself, you will know how to do it, but whether you can do it or not depends on how much you like him.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's so long... But I want to say that maybe he has a good face, and a man's girlfriend may not be able to stand his self-esteem if he is stronger than himself.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Maybe he's just a person who isn't good at expressing his feelings, and he doesn't like to say sweet words, but I think you can ask him directly, "Do you want to be with me seriously".

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I'm also an Aries girl, I just broke up with my boyfriend, he is also such a person, at first he was invisible to me, the space was encrypted, and then he simply blocked me, he thought I had a bad temper and was very strong, but this is not fundamental, to put it bluntly, in fact, he doesn't like it anymore. Don't contact him anymore, really, don't think about whether he will regret it, even if you regret it, you can't look back, I'm a failure, I turned back at the time, I had a car accident for him, and then he broke up with me, completely disappeared, women shouldn't be too good to others, in the end no one will pity themselves, I hope you can insist on forgetting every day like me, day by day, day by day, day by day, don't think about whether he has a girlfriend, maybe he talked about a few more relationships, and will find that it is still you, but it can't go back to the beginning. It's not terrible to fall out of love, you should thank him for making you understand a lot, adjust your mood, and get ready to accept the next relationship...

    Bless you ...

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Good people love people, and bad people love bad people. It's normal, don't you know there's a song that's written? (There is no one right or wrong in love, only who doesn't love anyone first) In fact, if you really want to say right or wrong, then I think you are all wrong, and the fault is in the place and time where you shouldn't know, so you met the wrong person.

    Everyone is different, so it's hard to say that a breakup could be another reason.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's not your fault, really, I used to have your experience, rest assured, losing you is his loss, because you love him he doesn't love you, what you lose is a person who doesn't love you, you should feel happy, the sad person is he will regret leaving you, let him regret it, find someone who loves you and let the other party be tired, why should you be tired.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There is no right or wrong in love, because I care, I feel that I can't do it now, I read your story and I don't think you are very suitable, he is not good at expressing it, maybe he cares about you very much, but you don't agree with the way he behaves! It's over, it's over, tidy up your mood, and I'm sure there will be someone who suits you waiting for you in front! Will be very happy1

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Decisively said, break up, if a woman falls in love for the purpose of marriage, find someone you think will hurt you for a lifetime, find someone who loves you very much, if he loves you, he will tolerate your heart and talk quickly.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you think too much, just let it go.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Your boyfriend doesn't like you and wants to break up with you and deliberately make excuses! Since he proposed it, there is no need to keep it!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    2 people together, to learn to be tolerant, self-understanding!

    If it weren't for the DU issue of BAI involving the big principles, then it would not be DAO to let the other party go

    Losses can also avoid heated quarrels.

    Or if you think you have a point, then you can patiently explain that quarreling is not the solution to the problem at all!

    I think your boyfriend said that you fooled around with other men just for a while!

    Think about it, you drank so much wine, your emotions were out of control and cried, and you beat him and said that you had a stomachache, think about it, although you quarreled, he is still your boyfriend, and he will still feel sorry for you, and said that he will send you medicine, but you have no news like this, is he in a hurry?

    Looking at the ** he hit, you know that he is very worried and anxious.

    I think he's angry because he doesn't know what you're doing, you can explain it well, clear up such a misunderstanding, why is he angry? It's nothing more than jealousy, anger, and worry, all for you.

    Don't mention breaking up, don't force him, explain it in another way, and coax him!

    If you love him!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Maybe you can describe you and your boyfriend in one sentence.

    Your boyfriend: Love is selfish, just because it cares a lot.

    You: A woman in love likes to be coquettish, but unfortunately she doesn't know where to go.

    Suggestion: Calm down with each other, reflect on yourself, and think about each other. If it's really a difference in personality, maybe you're really not a good fit.

    If it is like this occasionally, it should be regarded as a spice in life, after all, when two people are together, there will always be no smooth journey, there will always be unsatisfactory, learn to be tolerant and understanding.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Actually, there's nothing to be angry about, just explain it to him, after all, he's a man, give him a step.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    There is no right or wrong between two lovers who get along.

    Maybe you're just too willful, but this willfulness is the version of using his hurry to pay.

    Maybe he is just too serious, but this kind of comparison is really paid for with your grievances.

    When a quarrel is made, the first person to stop is the one who truly loves each other.

    After a quarrel, the first person to bow his head is the one who really loves each other.

    This has nothing to do with face, as long as you know in your hearts whether you really love or not.

    It's all because you care about each other, so why should you be angry.

    Just make it clear.

    You're all right.

    It's good to be young.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It is difficult for a clean official to decide family affairs and emotional matters. You two decide for yourself.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Let's reflect on both of you!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    There is no absolute right or wrong in love, love needs the mutual trust of both parties to support, sometimes humble a little, make a little concession, why not? If you think that giving in will make you lose your status in the future, then don't talk about this relationship, because you have already deviated from love. Don't fall in love easily, let alone break up easily.

    If you take love as a child's play, you will never find true love.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    He still loves you. He cares about you. It's hard to explain. You'd better not miss out on such a person who cares about you. Find some good way to solve this misunderstanding. Otherwise, you will regret it!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    That's right, it's all selfish, love is very selfish, and now society is also very selfish, this is love.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Well, both of them are at fault.

    He is very tired and rushes back in the middle of the night, you should care more about him and let him go to rest quickly, or you will pick him up, this is the right way to communicate. Instead of just wanting to eat barbecue, let him accompany him, is it really that important to eat barbecue.

    Secondly, you can't block it when you're angry, it's too capricious.

    You want to eat barbecue, and although he is tired, he shouldn't murder you. The next day, after resting, I should take the initiative to contact you and apologize to you.

    When two people get along, they should understand wrongly, communicate more, be more tolerant, sometimes think about each other, and control their emotions well.

    Now, if he doesn't contact you, he may be angry with you for blocking him, you'd better take the initiative to call ** to chat, communicate well, don't hurt your feelings because of trivial things.

    Best, I wish you all happiness.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    This is obvious, it's the fault of selling barbecue.

    The barbecue that doesn't sleep at night and sells chicken feathers affects the relationship between the two.

    Sell it, sell it, why don't you deliver takeaway, so it's all barbecue sellers who cause trouble, you go to him now, tell him that it's not good to sell barbecue, and as your boyfriend, he should go with you to find a barbecue seller.

    Eat him hard, skim him a few bamboo sticks, and let the barbecue seller know that you are not easy to provoke.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Mutual understanding is not the fault of one party. It is reasonable for boys to be tired and not want to go out, and girls also feel that it is natural for their boyfriends to accompany them to eat, and they feel very aggrieved by being hung **. Small contradictions in love, I can't tell whose responsibility it is, it is important to understand each other and consider it from the other party's standpoint.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Actually, you're all at fault.

    The so-called slap does not make a sound.

    Your fault is that you are not considerate of him.

    His fault is that he shouldn't be angry with you, no matter when.

    You blocked him, you also made a mistake and acted more impulsively.

    His fault is that his girlfriend is used to coax, not to sunbathe, in fact, what you want is not anyone's fault, but how to break the Cold War, let him take the initiative to take care of you, and you will not lose face.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Both of them are at fault, you know that he has been on the train for so long, and you have to let him accompany you to eat barbecue, I am not happy, but his reaction is also a little bigger, and the two of them should take a step back.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    You and him are both at fault, your fault is: he came back from the field in the middle of the night, you know that he is very tired, you are still ignorant to let him accompany you to have supper, what he wants that minute is that you can understand him, because the train is really tiring, his fault is: you asked him to go out to eat supper with you, he should not be so cold to you, should tell you well, have the patience to give you a good talk, instead of being angry with you,

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I feel that this man doesn't love you at all,**Ah, what an uncomfortable thing for a woman, he doesn't know how to feel sorry for you at this time, and he can still sleep, my God, you can't be happy with a man like this, he is not willing to sacrifice for you at all, even if it is that little bit of sleep, from one thing to see how deeply a person loves you, do you understand? I advise you to give up this man who is not a man, and find a good man who really loves you and loves you, bless you.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    On the face of it, it's your boyfriend's fault.

    But you have to analyze his stress, for example, whether there is any pressure at work, and whether he has been behaving abnormally lately. In fact, men have a lot of troubles, and sometimes he is reluctant to confide in his girlfriend. If a man has something to worry about, he may not care enough about you.

    If he doesn't have any troubles, as you said above, then he is not a competent man, and you feel that if you break up and are not willing to operate on him, if you don't break up, he may bring you more harm in the future.

    Anyway, you definitely know your boyfriend better than I do, and you have to think about it yourself.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It's his fault, you did it because of his fault, he doesn't take care of you, and he thinks he's right, don't want this kind of man!

    He must not love you.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    You are repeatedly patronizing restaurants with poor service quality. Since you want to break up, why not? He doesn't love you at all, and even if you have a miscarriage for him, he doesn't take it very seriously.

    You have given a lot and sacrificed a lot for him, but he doesn't care and thinks you deserve it. He also said that he already cares about you, do you believe it? Women just like to deceive themselves, and they still have a glimmer of hope for the other party, remember, it's a wolf, don't want it not to eat meat.

    Have you ever been loved? Careful care, meticulous care, has anyone worried about your business day and night? I really hate you because iron doesn't make steel.

    Really, what else do you want such a man to do, continuing will only deepen the damage. When the judgment is constantly suffering, it is chaotic! Think again!

    Break up and give yourself a chance to find happiness again. He doesn't take your business seriously at all, and he doesn't even bother to get up to accompany you when you have an abortion, what illusions do you still have about him? is unwilling to abort for him, this time you just forget it, next time you will be unwilling.

    People like you, I really should educate you well! What's the use of just crying? Can it solve the problem?

    Bad things must be resolutely discarded. Remember, women must not be soft-hearted, this is your weakness!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Men are always like this, if you still love him and he loves you, you don't have to care, maybe he is really tired and busy. If you still love him, be considerate of him!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    This kind of man is looked down upon, if he really cares about you in his heart, he should go with you, after all, you are pregnant with his baby is made for him**, such an irresponsible man, it is useless to want, he will change the calendar in the future, you see for yourself, the first continue to communicate, communicate with him more, if he still does not change, he will be separated, this kind of man is not worth your efforts for him, why bother to abandon the whole forest for this rotten tree. You will meet a man who really knows how to love you, I wish you happiness!

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