Everyone commented on my boyfriend, depressed

Poor child! Shanghai men are so shrewd! How could you not see it!

Your boyfriend is more than shrewd when you say that! Or stingy and stingy! He doesn't have any friends because sometimes he has to hang out or use money for something! And he emphasizes money in everything! Don't you think that's not the attitude a family should have at all!

Marrying someone like this will only increase your burden!

To sum up, your boyfriend is indeed stingy and too calculating. I don't know what your boyfriend's family's economic conditions are?Whether you can continue to date depends on the relationship between you, and he should have many advantages to attract you.

Think more about his advantages, whether you can learn from each other's strengths, it's not easy to find a good man now, hehe, thrifty and thrifty, it's not a big bad habit, the key is to be good to you, but you can't be too stingy with you. It's hard to say about feelings, but don't make do with it, otherwise it'll be too late to find that you can't stand it when you get married together.

I think it's okay for such a person to live at home after getting married, at least not a person who spends money indiscriminately. But when you fall in love, it will only make people feel uncomfortable and awkward. No matter what kind of woman she is, she wants her sweetheart to be a perfect person.

I don't have time to read the article!!

Don't live with this man. My neighbor is, most of her life has passed, her daughter graduated from college, and she still complains to my mother about her husband's stinginess, refuses to give out the family, hides the money, and all the expenses are her, and she doesn't need a penny from her husband.

Behold, can you live this day? The people in the past were conservative and unwilling to divorce, but how hard did their lives be? The cost of her daughter's college is all saved by her picking up work after work, and if the food she buys is not good, she will be scolded.

A lesson from the past...

Your boyfriend is very fine, but I think with your character. He is not suitable for you, you should be brave enough to talk to him, and you will live a lifetime. In order to find like-minded people, although there is love between you, but it is not permanent, I suggest you go and find your permanent love!

First of all, make sure to ask you whether you love him in your heart, and whether you feel that he really loves you Although I would rather teach people to beat boys, I don't think he is reliable, take me for example If the person I like is willing, I can't wait to marry her right away Maybe it's not certain to drag it out to find a better one. Maybe it's a habit you've developed since childhood, and the final choice is still up to you. Marriage is an important event in life and should be carefully considered.

He's so unconfident. If it is for people outside the family, it can be understood. Even his lover is so calculating--- hehe. To put it bluntly, spending money on your lover is not about staying in your own home.

Lacks a sense of boldness, small calculations.

Of course, five strokes are faster, but the premise is that you can play, really five strokes to play out is really incredible, and I was really shocked when I saw someone else play five strokes for the first time, and we are now using five strokes to play It feels like the fastest I have ever seen But I will also learn something else.

I'm about 100 words in 1 minute, hehe, many years of skillful core computer experience cover judgment. -

I use Sogou Pinyin.,It's good.,There's also a memory function.。

Hehe. Do you believe in past lives? In your previous life, your boyfriend owed his parents and brother, and you owed him.

Wouldn't that make you feel more comfortable? Your boyfriend is a nice guy. When two people are together, it is actually a matter of two families.

Harmony is precious, be tolerant and generous, and God will not treat you badly. People are good and do not deceive. I wish you all happiness.

He has a good character and is dedicated to you, so did you choose him to be your future husband based on these two points? One of the more important things he lacks is a sense of responsibility. Maybe you'll say he does!

Whatever his parents wanted, he would say yes. The promise shows that he is just a good face, and it is not good to lose face in front of his parents. It is true in front of you now, and I am afraid that you will suffer it later.

He needs someone who can control him, and if you can control him and control him, I think you will be very harmonious! Wishing you happiness!

Your conditions are relatively good, don't you know that there are many poor people in China? What a greenhouse flower! Men socialize, it's really needed!

China, this humane society, and your boyfriend is a civil servant, you must build a good relationship between the top and bottom! How dark ZG is, everyone is obvious to all! Also, you'd better leave their family's affairs alone, there are some things that you can't change, and it will affect your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship!

You think there's such a thing as elopement! And your boyfriend is in such good condition! Learn to be calm!

Don't worry about it! Be modest! After you get married, you live together, not with your boyfriend's brother, your boyfriend is silent, don't make a sound!

It's one thing to take care of these things after getting married, and it's another thing to care about these things when you're not married, and the difference is very big!

The above is purely a personal opinion!

That's a lot in days.

Don't dare to look at the eye pain.

There's nothing wrong with you not relying on your parents, but it's still your money after all. Could it be that they donate naked? ·· Use it... It's nothing to rely on your parents!

How do you feel like my dad is the same type, a family man. benefits, not afraid of changing minds, stable life. Otherwise, if you have a conflict with their family, he won't help you, and I know that...As for getting along, you have to learn to balance yourself.

What's the loss? Since it was voluntary to be together in the first place, what is there to lose, you have been together for so long. I'm sure I used to be happier. Besides, he doesn't necessarily have to do that kind of thing when he goes. Why don't you worry about her? ，。

Thank you for the trouble to adopt!

Believe in yourself, but also in your boyfriend. Give him some personal space so you can get to know him better.

He's not a man, so you're a woman, call him out and talk, see what's wrong, be suspicious of each other, waste time, torture each other.

I still have to talk to him After all, feelings are not something that can be put down.

There are multiple meanings, and there is a sense of wanting to let go.

He's wondering if he's going to reconcile with you or break up with you.

It's a rhythm to figure it out on your own!

In fact, sometimes, it's because you think too much, and when you become more and more suspicious of something, it becomes more and more real in your heart. You feel that he has betrayed you, and once this idea exists in your heart, no matter what he says or does in the future, there will be a hint in your heart that he is perfunctory to you, at least, subjectively, your thoughts are already biased towards yourself.

Of course, it's possible that your suspicions are correct, and I don't want that to be true, but the reality is sometimes brutal. Women's feelings are indeed very keen, the change of men's attitudes, it is difficult to escape the eyes of women, you should find a time to talk to him about your future, if he has a sense of responsibility for you, he will plan your future and take action for it. If he doesn't like you anymore, he'll find reasons to shirk those futures.

There is a bad thing in the middle, if you are sure that during your breakup, he had a girlfriend, but did not admit it, this deception is really difficult to accept. A man, there is nothing bad about admitting this, if you really like him, I think you will also accept his past, after all, whoever he was with in the past is in the past, and the most important thing is that you are together now.

If you still love him now, make good use of the time and talk to him about your future, which is the most important thing. After all, they're not children anymore.

In the end, I hope the landlord can get his own happiness. . .

I think, first of all, he wants to live with you in the future, but he can't give up the previous ambiguous relationship. If it were me, I would never tolerate such an attitude, either love each other well, or don't come to hurt me. Since you have wronged him and said that you are suspicious, then let him prove his sincerity first.

There is nothing to hide between the two, and if you hide it, you have something in your heart. It's better if you don't say it just because you're afraid you'll be angry, and you only fight because you care about the other person. Don't regret it because you're in a hurry to get married, I think it's better to be clear about your feelings...

I have a friend who has a similar experience to you, and this is a complicated matter, and it is a psychological effect. Maybe he loves you, but he also likes to chat with other women, he is afraid that you will think about it, so he doesn't tell you, because you are more suspicious of this, and he doubts him when he is working, so he is a little angry, and he also doubts him when he chats, maybe he feels guilty and really loves you, so he says these words of love for you, because of this, you are more suspicious, so that the contradiction is even more escalated, and explained to him that your doubts, maybe things will not get worse anymore, I hope you can be happy.

Hehe, the boy has a good face, some things can't be said to death, you can forgive him, it's all in the past, even if he admits it, what can he do? Make it clear to him, tell him what you think in your heart, if she does it again, the long pain is better than the short pain, and break up directly. It's the same as what I experienced, but I'm the male lead, hehe......But I haven't committed it.

It's been painfully changed....Now I have a good relationship with my girlfriend, I haven't quarreled for two years, and I don't know what it's like to quarrel. Hahahahaha......

Because you suspect that he has another woman, so you think it's normal for him to be abnormal...

Love is built on the basis of trust, suspicion is absolutely not allowed, trust, care, considerate, and more importantly, learn to communicate, not to ask the teacher for guilt, so that there is no distance between two people

Wishing you happiness!

Men just keep saying they want us to believe them. Suspicion is a big problem! We believed them, but in the end the facts deceived us.

Ignore her, she's doing it to disgust you. It's clearly angry with you. If you still have her in your heart, you must be uncomfortable in your heart, and think about it the other way, if you don't love her anymore in your heart, then let her be.

It is advisable for you to start your own life, since it is an ex-girlfriend, that is, you have broken up. Then her life should not have anything to do with you. Pay less attention to her. If you can't be friends, then treat them as strangers.

Girls' minds, boys don't understand! Maybe that's what she's hinting at! But, anyway, it means that she is not happy with you

Anyone who feels sick to their stomachs

She's just going to disgust you.

How deep the love is, how big the hatred is, when you can let go, you will smile slightly, and say to yourself in your heart, my choice is right.

How did you do that? There's always a reason for that....

You still go to watch it after you break up?

Besides, how do people write about your hairy business!

Oh, office romance, this is normal, after being together for a long time, it is inevitable that there will be feelings. But it's better not to do that, you have a boyfriend, and then go to find another love, don't you feel very tired.

Since your boyfriend is very good to you, you have to continue this relationship, and you just give up halfway, can you guarantee that your colleague will be better than your boyfriend?

Don't betray love and don't regret your decision.

Don't easily develop a relationship with a man ...

Be responsible for your boyfriend ...

Because you're excellent. So someone appreciates. This is normal.

But learn to guard your own heart. Must be single-minded.

Since you're friends with this boy, let's keep being friends.。。

A little longer can you see a person more clearly...

Cherish your current boyfriend, the ideal is not necessarily good.

If you really can't choose, take a coin and let God decide, and when I can't choose, it all depends on coins.

People who come here will say, girl, find someone who likes you.

The girl said, "I want to find something I like."

Reality and ideals.

I would choose reality.

As for you, as long as you don't do things that you feel like you'll regret later.

Because one move now will change your life.

It doesn't matter if it's good or it will.

If you're in a bigger city, I advise you not to talk to your colleagues, but to your current boyfriend. If not, it's up to you how you feel.

Ideal love

In life, you always have to pursue something

Spend time with your boyfriend and don't worry about other people, or you'll regret it.

You first have to make sure that he is not your ideal love. Don't let the momentary novelty or anything else affect your judgment. After all, it's already work, and a lot of things are hating reality, and there is basically no hate, pure love, and that's a game in school.

Think it out for yourself ...