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I'm going to study in the UK for 5 years and my boyfriend can't come with me... His family couldn't afford to let him go...
First of all, immigration is not as simple as you think, economic immigration, skilled immigration, which one do you have? Or do you have relatives there who can help you?。。 If you don't have it, you can't move the people.
If you want to go to work, unless you are an employee of a large company, have a big company as a guarantee, or transfer you to a branch there... Or if you go to study, then you have to take the exam, and the tuition fee is also considerable...
Again, what are you going to do? Can you guarantee that you will get a job if you go? Can you guarantee to feed yourself and not drag her down? Can you guarantee that once there, you will not become a burden on her studies? Can you guarantee that you won't break up for 5 years?。。
You just do what you have to do in the country, and when she comes back, what is yours is yours, not yours, and it's useless for you to follow.
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No, you can have 10,000 of them if you do a year's work now, and then you can find it.
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It doesn't matter if the family can't afford it. As long as the relatives have that deposit, they can act as guarantors. Of course, it's best that their funds ** are clear.
If you really want to find help from your family, you can take it as a loan and pay it back later. After all, everything has a price.
Or you can find out if there is a need to work at home or abroad, or if there is, you can do it.
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Don't you still have a roommate?
The girlfriend is gone, and the roommate is still very good with you, talk to him.
And when I go abroad, there are many girls, and it's not bad to find a foreign girlfriend, straightforward and with a good personality.
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I'm studying psychology, and I hope it can help you. Three years of love is quite a long time, and I think either of you has given a lot. But if two people want to be together all the time, they need to make progress together, just like the scale, only when two people stand at the same height, there is a common language, and the state is balanced.
The current state is that she has gone out to study, and she is working hard for herself and improving, but what about you? No matter who you are, you have to be responsible for your future self. What kind of person you want to be depends on what you think, and what kind of person you can be depends on what you do.
So, take responsibility for yourself first, and everything will be solved. My advice to you about whether or not to let go is that it is not wise to dwell on it anyway. If you want to get back together, then first of all, you must make a good impression on her, but you have been texting and she ignores you, what do you think is the impression on her?
If you don't want to get back together, then there's no need to dwell on it. First love is not easy to forget, because it is the first time, and it is not perfect, but people grow up in blows and setbacks again and again. I hope you can calm down for a while, and you can think about whether you have done something wrong in this relationship, and try to avoid it next time.
Or don't contact her for a while and start your life slowly, whether she will come back to you, or you will have a better one, time will give you the answer. Best wishes.
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He ignores you anymore, why do you contact him so often? Even if you don't want to break up, it's already impossible to be together. made a decision immediately, and no longer had a dime relationship with him in the future, completely let go of him, and start a new life and love again.
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She must have decided to break up with you before going to study in Canada, and more likely, she just changed to a city you don't know, so you have nothing to worry about.
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Landlord, long-distance relationships are very hard to maintain, especially transnational relationships. Two people need to overcome loneliness, jet lag, and cognitive differences. And now that the woman has behaved like this, even if your infatuation saves her, there will be a lot of follow-up problems.
Long pain is better than short pain, be cruel to yourself. If there is fate, let's talk about it when I return home.
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Let it go! Your mind is too accomplished, she's realistic! I don't think you are the same kind of people anymore, this is the thinking of those foreign students now, I think that when I come back from the next country, I am awesome and shining, and I am superior!
There is no need for such people! Maximizing benefits is their purpose, and if she wants to come back to you, then I tell you that she doesn't love you and can't let go, but has interests in her! Pure love doesn't belong to these people!
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Say let it go, it's hard for you to forget, it's better to let it go, if he is like this, then please let it go decisively, because he is not worthy of you like this, the discomfort may accompany you for a while, it depends on yourself, if you decide to be determined.
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Let it go! I can't let you go!
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It's wise to let go, she says that studying is simply an excuse and that this kind of person is not worth it.
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Let it go, you can't break up in this situation.
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It's unconstitutional, but it's also perhaps, because as far as humanitarianism is concerned, people have the right to protect their daughter's safety, and ** will not accept it.
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There are many people who immigrate to Canada through business marriages. Canada** wants to find out the dao, but the heart is powerless. Manpower and dedicated funds are not sufficient.
If you are in a genuine relationship, after she immigrates to Canada, she can start preparing for divorce, and then return to China and marry you. Although it is a bit hasty to look at it this way, as long as the materials are well prepared, there is no problem.
At the very least, you need to get your girlfriend permanent resident status before you take the next step. Anyone who has ever been married knows that it is unkind to wait for a long time, so immigration officers can understand these issues. As long as the materials are made better, there will be no problem with success.
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It's a normal thing to say, it's not good to say that there are many cases in Canada. Your girlfriend's situation is okay It's a fake marriage, and many girls don't hesitate to spend their days every day for a green card"Pressed by ghosts"This.
Since your girlfriend didn't do anything to be sorry for you, you can actually forgive it, provided you really can't let go of her words.
Finally, I would like to add that since I am more resentful, if it were my girlfriend, I would simply cut off contact and lose the face of the Chinese. You know, a lot of foreigners here in Canada know about these behaviors, and when they deal with us Chinese, it's called a high-spirited person, who really thinks that Canada is a paradise, and China is an inferior place. How many times have I wanted to point to their noses and tell them that the GDP is not a notch higher than theirs.
A large part of the reason why we Chinese people are looked down upon on the outside is because there are too many people who behave like this in your girlfriend.
There is no grass at the end of the world, why bother looking for it in Canada, there are a lot of them around, not to mention that the quality is better.
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Landlord: All I can say is that you are too naïve.
There have been similar examples around me It should be said that the review of Canada is still relatively strict, two people exchange letters, **communication, etc., your girlfriend has been operating this for a day or two...
There is no grass at the end of the world.
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You're still fine.
Bai inquire, how did I hear Zhi say that a DAO person who immigrated to a Canadian even if he marries a foreigner after divorce, that foreigner will not get immigration status. Although I heard about it, I also have to pay attention to it, if that is possible, Canada will not be in chaos a long time ago, and even if it can, the immigration bureau is not stupid, you will know that it is not right when you look at this process, Canada has passed the time to attract immigrants like crazy, and now it is very strict.
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It seems that she has to wait until she gets the identity, then it will take at least 2 years to get the identity, the key is that your relationship can always be maintained?
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Be careful
Now the fake marriage immigration department is very strict and strict.
It is likely that the immigration authorities think that you are sham marriage this time.
It's best to ask your girlfriend to go to a lawyer in Toronto and ask.
They have experience in this area.
It's dangerous if you do it yourself.
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She can send a letter of introduction to visit relatives or work abroad.
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Either you have a real estate, or a driving license, a bank bill within half a year, and your work unit stamp, as well as a good record of a third-country visa that Canada fancies!
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