How to stop yourself from being smart and self righteous

Learn to listen to other people's opinions, communicate and chat with others, I have a friend who is also a little like this, in fact, it is not all like this, maybe you think so, you are not necessarily like this, maybe you are very smart? Is it put?

This requires you not to be too proud when getting along with others, and don't pretend to understand, don't know how to ask for more advice, don't be self-centered, sometimes too much display will also make others think that you are self-righteous, don't use other people's shortcomings to elevate your advantages, don't always think that without you, your friends can't live!

Don't be the first to speak, don't be the first to do things, look at what others do, and then think about how you do it.

Learn to be humble....Do what you do and listen to the opinions of bystanders, don't go your own way, and you'll be fine slowly.

Talk less nonsense, see more how smart people do things, learn a little, be less careful, and be tolerant.

Do not rush to the front in any way. Don't be at the back of the line either.

Be open-minded, keep a low profile in everything, think more before doing things, and don't act recklessly!

When you have to make a decision, think more about what you are doing, whether you are self-righteous again, and slowly observe yourself in this way.

Learn to be humble and calm!

See more, talk less. Remember, woe comes from the mouth!

Communicate with others and listen to their opinions.

Be a low-key person and do things in a high-profile manner!

As long as you talk less and do more, it won't be like this.

Read more books on philosophy and life!

You've got this realization, yes.

What should you do or how to do small things, it is better to discuss big things with someone.

1. Learn to think and observe. Whenever you feel good, you must reflect on yourself, the best way is to let yourself jump out of your body, assume, the soul is in the air, and then, take a comprehensive look at what is happening around you, see what you are really like, don't just imagine to affirm yourself.

2. Learn to admonish yourself. There are many times, when you feel that you are very good, you look at those who are better than you, and then9 warn yourself that you are still far from being a good person, and you can't look at them. Learn to be humble....

3. Learn to see your own shortcomings. Whenever someone praises you, or when others show appreciative eyes, the first thing that comes to mind is not how good you are, but that you still have a lot of shortcomings.

4. Learn to communicate with others. Whether it's emotional or work. Communication is very important, most self-righteous people feel that they are very good, and they should be the center of others, but in fact, others have not paid attention to them at all, so it will form a great contrast, so you must learn to communicate, you will know yourself.

5. We must continue to cultivate and improve ourselves. If it is indeed excellent, it is indeed the object of envy and pursuit of others. It is also important to remember that people should continue to improve their cultivation and become a better version of themselves. If you are satisfied and do not seek progress, then you will inevitably be self-righteous!

Summary. Hello dear!What is the reason for a person to be smart?

It should be 01 overly spoiled family education, and the first source of a person's conceit is family education. Because for teenagers, their self-evaluation depends first and foremost on what the people around them think of him. The family is the first frame of reference for their self-evaluation, that is, the "evaluation" of their parents, grandparents, grandparents or other elders.

Those who are particularly "spoiled" in the family environment of children, the evaluation of children is often "not very objective", and almost all of the children's behaviors will be evaluated by parents and elders with "pampering, praise, praise" and other "nice words". As a result, this kind of evaluation will make the child feel that he is "quite remarkable". As the so-called "loving mothers have many defeated children", this is actually the truth.

Hello dear!What is the reason for a person to be smart?It should be 01 overly spoiled family education, and the first source of a person's conceit is family education.

Because for teenagers, their self-evaluation depends first and foremost on what the people around them think of him. The family is the first frame of reference for their self-evaluation, that is, the "evaluation" of their parents, grandparents, grandparents or other elders. Those who are particularly "spoiled" in the family environment of children, the evaluation of children is often "not very polite and sensitive", and almost all of the children's behaviors will be evaluated by parents and elders with "pampering, praising and praising sentences" and other "nice words".

As a result, this kind of evaluation will make the child feel that he is "quite remarkable". As the so-called "loving mothers have many defeated children", this is actually the truth.

Is there any other reason?

Are you talking about a child or an adult?

There are a lot of subtle reasons for this.

Kids are in the fourth grade.

It may be that he is too young and has suffered fewer setbacks, or it may be that he usually lacks communication and trust with others, and he is used to making decisions on his own. It is better to persuade more and not to go crookedly. That person is smart and seems to be disobedient, I feel that it should be caused by his personal character, as well as some factors of his original family are all possible personal cultivation problems.

Thank you, I got it. Good.