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It doesn't mean that you are not important, it does not mean that you are really in the last place, but that you are in the fourth place in a certain situation and a certain link.
He can say that, but he's implying that you can understand him. I'll tell you about the scenarios and links he might have in mind.
Today is Mother's Day, of course, there is no doubt about the status of mothers, in fact, the importance of mothers and wives cannot be compared, just like when you write homework, pens and notebooks are indispensable, and mothers and wives are also indispensable for life. And his filial piety is more.
Men make money outside the home, and their careers depend on their friends and bosses, and the purpose of their careers is for the family, for their wives and children. He ranks the situation based on the overall situation, and running a family requires such consideration, because society itself has high requirements for men and great pressure, and he actually has a certain sense of responsibility in this kind of thinking.
Let's take the exam, I scored 98 points, you scored 97 points, I have more than you, aren't you too much? Learning is not for others to learn, life is not for others to live, his ranking does not mean that you are useless, you are a rotten radish and rotten cabbage.
He must know that telling his wife that his wife is not as important as his mother and his brother and boss will make his wife sad and angry, but why did he say that? He wants you to understand that what he is conveying to you is that he is now focusing on the big picture, taking the family as the unit, and you belong to the family, and his ranking is for you and your children.
I want you to ask him this question again when he retires, and maybe you can laugh at him then.
Hope to untie the knot in your heart.
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Oh, it shows that he values family affection and career, you can think so,
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If you can become a helper in her career, a bridge between brothers, and a guardian of family affection; You become the basis of everything else for him, and he will understand that if you lose you, you lose everything.
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I think he will treat them as more important than his own life, so his wife and mother are priceless, do you think it makes sense to ask this question, man, we must understand him, tolerate him more, in addition to encountering problems of right and wrong, don't worry about it, he still loves you in his heart.
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It's all important, but as a husband, I have to be a concoctor in it. Neither can be offended. Sometimes I still make it clear to my wife, Mom, after all, we are old, as we must always understand and let them.
Even if it's not our fault, you have to admit it. It is not easy for parents to live in their lives, as long as the family is honest with each other and tolerates everywhere, it is not a big deal.
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It's a tangled question. But I'm sure 99 percent of men say, "It's just as important."
Such an answer is perfunctory in the eyes of a woman. It can be said that whether a man is successful or not depends on whether he can make every woman around him happy, whether it is a wife, a mother, or a daughter.
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Hello friends, this question varies from person to person, and at the same time, his mother has the grace of nurturing him, and his wife is the person who accompanies him all his life, two kinds of love, two feelings are not the same, to say which is important, it depends on what kind of love he has in his heart
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Hehe, it's all important. The wife is love, and the mother is the pro.
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For this man, both are equally important, don't say who is more important than whom, don't deliberately compare, this man can not be less of the two, the person who asked this question did not have anything unpleasant with his mother-in-law, or think that when your husband deals with the problem, you feel that he cares more about his mother, don't think so much, don't affect the harmony of the family because of some trivial things, what ideas can be discussed with your husband, I hope you figure it out as soon as possible!
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Are you here to complain or are you looking for a solution to this problem?
And he listened to his mother very much"Very"What is the low line?
Is being obedient and hurting the relationship between you as a couple?
Or did it hurt you?
Or is he just more filial?
To solve a problem, you have to look at the problem from multiple angles, and if you look at it from a single perspective and deal with it, it is a bad thing.
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Normal, every mature man loves his mom.
In fact, you are still very important, because Chinese Confucian culture educated him, so he must"Filial piety", get it?
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It's normal, but I don't agree with this, I'm going to hit him and make him listen to you.
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He just wants you to have a good relationship with your grandmother
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How wrong is it for my mother to raise me and listen to my mother?
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Each has its own status.
Mom's nurturing grace.
Wife's feelings of distress.
Daughter's debt from a past life.
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The average man thinks he is the most important. Of course, you can only choose a wife here, hehe......
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He has a mother-in-law complex. You just do what you have to do, there's no need to get closer to his mother, if you learn the same, won't you lose yourself! You are who you are, nothing else!
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This proves that your husband is very filial, after all, your mother is bigger than the sky, and it is not easy to conceive for ten months, don't eat your mother-in-law's vinegar, you have to work hard to study your mother-in-law, and let your husband see your efforts.
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Prove that you don't care enough about your husband and should learn more from his mother; Check your own shortcomings.
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If it's not good, learn from your mother-in-law, treat your mother-in-law as your mother, try it, you will feel happy, and your husband will love you more.
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It's because his mother is his role model, and men usually do that!
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I have followed my mother since I was a child, and it must feel different, and it will change after a long time with you
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If the man is your son, the answer you want will be "Mommy matters", if the man is your husband, the answer you want will be "Wife matters, and if you love him, don't let him choose."
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I think as long as you are a real man, you will say that your mother is more important than your wife.
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There is no filial piety, and there is no filial piety.
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Look at what kind of man it looks like.
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Sister, love and affection.
Never put together to say, this I deep.
There is an experience, if he gives up his love and takes care of his family affection, this man is not a good husband, but a good son, depending on what angle you sit to think about this matter, a man who can't let go of family affection can be said to be not a good man, and there is no need to be sad for him, let alone nostalgia, such a man is cowardly.
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That's the woman who gave her life, how much do you love him, is there as selfless and great as your mother? There are no conditions and prerequisites for a mother's love, remember, if a man loves other women more than his mother, this man is unreliable.
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It may not be said who is more important, but the two should go hand in hand. are all equally important.
In the same way, girls also feel that their mother is the most important.
When you become a mother, you won't have any doubts about it.
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A man that my mother doesn't love.
Could I really love you?
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It's normal for boys to think that their mothers are more important than their girlfriends, and girls also think that their fathers are more important than their boyfriends. In a person's life, he may be able to love a few people, or he may not have one, but his parents only have one pair that cannot be missing and irreplaceable. It is a family affection where blood is thicker than water.
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Let that man know that in his heart his mother can be the first, you can be the second, and with such energy, this man will love you more.
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There is simply no comparison
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It's normal, the wife can be changed, but there is only one mother, and the mother has been with the kid for at least 18 years longer than you. Don't care, if your man attaches importance to his mother, it at least proves that he is a person who values family affection, and you should be happy.
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