hasn t started yet, how to get the relationship between mother in law and daughter in law?

My mother-in-law said she wouldn't let you do the housework.

Maybe it's a polite remark.

You can be more persistent.

Some things can be directly helped.

For example, when eating, filling meals, setting dishes, washing dishes, sweeping the floor, and taking out the garbage.

Talk to your mother-in-law more.

Let's go grocery shopping or something.

See if you can bring a small gift next time.

I still want it.

It's a little bit to do housework or something.

The key is to understand what is going on in her heart.

Sometimes you can also communicate your ideas to her more.

The key is to do what you want.

What kind of daughter-in-law does she want to have?

You just try to be a daughter-in-law like that.

Hehe. There will be friction in dealing with people.

If you're really good.

Your mother-in-law will see your good.

Ha ha. I wish you to be a good daughter-in-law in the eyes of your mother-in-law!

Then you have to fight for something.

Even if she really doesn't have to do it with you, you can't really leave and go to the living room to be idle. You can play on the side and chat with you or something.

You should be humble. Directly say, you don't know anything, there are still a lot of places to learn from your aunt, and if you don't let you do it, you just follow and say that you have to learn how to do it, saying that you don't understand.

Be discerning Not everything is done by their family members. For example, everybody's busy looking at the dirty floor, and you're sweeping the floor or something. All your actions are seen by your family.

Your mother-in-law may not let you do housework out of politeness, since you are a mother, then you treat her like your own mother, people's hearts are long, after a long time, she will naturally know, and having thoughts about you at the beginning may be the reason why she doesn't know you very well. So go for it and I wish you happiness.

The power of love is endless. For his sake, I must also develop the habit of labor.

The trick of dealing with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is: pay attention to the distance between each other, be clear about each other's relationship, learn to use "bridges", learn to empathize, and not accept and cover up the husband in front of the mother-in-law.

1. Pay attention to the distance between each other

The saying that distance produces beauty is not only applicable to the relationship between men and women, in fact, it can also be applied to the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. You can take weekends off, or go home with your husband to accompany them during the holidays, but you don't have to live together every day.

2. Be clear about the relationship between each other

There is a saying: The way to get along between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is to care for each other as oneself and treat each other with respect. It is important for mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to be clear about their relationship in the family.

3. Learn to use "bridges".

The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are like two parallel lines, which have no intersection in themselves, and because of the boy, the two have a connection. So the bridge here refers to the man. If there is a problem with my mother-in-law, tell the man and let him solve it, which will be much better than if we take the initiative.

4. Learn to empathize

It is normal for the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to have problems, after all, we will still have conflicts with our own parents and parents, let alone with a person who is not related by blood. Many times, many things, as long as two people are willing to think from each other's point of view, some problems will be solved.

5. Don't count down your husband in front of your mother-in-law

No matter how old her husband is, she is a child in the eyes of her mother-in-law, and she must be uncomfortable when she counts her husband down in front of her mother-in-law. She Dongfeng will feel that her son is unhappy and angry every day, so she will definitely feel bad in her heart.

Hello, dear. Tips for dealing with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law: 1

In front of your in-laws, you must accept the fact that after the previous love and marriage process, your husband recognizes you, but it takes a process to make the rest of the family recognize you. After all, the daughter-in-law is an outsider, blood is thicker than water, and the mother-in-law feels sorry for her son after all, and it is human nature to blame the daughter-in-law first if there is a problem. Could it be that the mother-in-law will stand in the position of her daughter-in-law and have trouble with her son?

It is even more unreasonable and unreasonable to have this kind of mother. Therefore, a smart daughter-in-law will not compete with her mother-in-law for Mr. How to get your in-laws to accept you quickly?

It's very simple, in front of your in-laws, you should put your husband first. Otherwise, the most unhappy is the mother-in-law. Because the mother-in-law always felt that her son was very aggrieved when she married such a daughter-in-law.

As long as a person feels a change, the whole cavity of the potato worm changes. If it is not pleasing to the eye, the more you look at it, the more unpleasant it will be; As long as it is pleasing to the eye, the more you look at it, the more pleasing it is to the eye. The relationship between people is either getting better or worse, and it is impossible to stop there.

Therefore, as a daughter-in-law, in front of her in-laws, she must save face for her husband, even if she goes home and asks him to kneel on the washboard. In doing so, their family will soon accept you, what you say will be easily accepted, and the gentleman will like you more. Otherwise, no matter how good your heart is, no matter how good your other performances are, it will be difficult for them to accept them.

2.One mountain does not tolerate two tigers, and the material argument of letting three points be a daughter-in-law must understand a concept, that is, one mountain cannot tolerate two tigers. If there are two tigers on a mountain, the two tigers will fight fiercely.

Under the same roof, in fact, it is not allowed to have two women in charge. Otherwise, even if there is such a thing as eating at night, the mother-in-law will be unhappy, and the daughter-in-law will be unhappy. Hence there is ethics, and ethics is not inequality, but reasonable inequality.

People cannot be equal, how can they be equal? Only Westerners say that "all men are created equal", and the Chinese will not believe these things. What we are looking for is reasonable inequality, and we should not go too far.

In fact, only reasonable inequality is equality.

Long pain is better than short pain, don't let them come, otherwise your peaceful life will come to an end.

1.Rent one on the same floor for your parents to live in 2Communicate with your wife and mother to get their understanding, your wife loves you and will not make it too difficult for you, your mother will be considerate of you, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is already very difficult, only those two women can make concessions to each other for you, it is best to stand on your wife's side when there is a quarrel, after all, the closest person he married is only you.

Hello landlord!

The first Yincha wishes you a happy new year and all the best

I have some suggestions for dealing with family relationships:

1. Be humble, don't be a needle to each other about everything, give each other more opportunities to talk, think more about each other, avoid unnecessary conflicts, and family affection is priceless.

2. A surprise creates a dramatic effect, and often many contradictions disappear in jokes.

3. Take responsibility, assume your own responsibilities and obligations, do more for the family, and think less for yourself.

4. A point of communication, many conflicts are due to the lack of communication between family members, which exacerbates the contradictions.

5. Be open-minded, life is short, we should create a harmonious society and a harmonious family, think about everything, don't worry about everything, don't intrigue, don't be greedy, be open-minded, and be grateful to live a relaxed and happy life.

Hope it helps

Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are natural enemies. What can someone else do to solve it. Only you can figure it out yourself.