Should I be happy or sad about such a boy?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-20
31 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    After reading what you said, the key point is: I talked to a buddy of his a few days ago about this, and his buddy didn't speak for a few minutes, and then said ......

    Those words that make you tangled up are all from his buddies? What kind of buddy is this buddy? Is what he says credible?

    Assuming it is believable, now you should test your boyfriend, the perfect man who has been with you for years.

    You're a woman, you have the initiative, you can be coquettish and ask him, when are we going to get married, or will your parents like me (I don't know if I met my parents?). It means to question him with the assumption that you will be together, to see how he reacts, and if he is struggling, you have to be careful, and then you can ask him every once in a while, and if it's all about spitting, you have something to say, why are the words flickering?

    If he is very fluent and indicates that he wants to be with you, and he wants to continue to see his performance, you can bring up "that" and see his reaction, the same as above, if he does not agree, you must ask for clarification.

    Of course, I remind you that if he agrees, I think it's best for you not to, especially if you are a woman, this kind of thing is very important to you, and it must be under the premise of marriage, otherwise a misstep will turn into a thousand hatreds. At least be a woman with chastity!! Remember to be sure to get married!

    The benefits to you are great!

    I think you should figure out what is going on with the person he really loves, after all, you have been for so long, you won't know it, this matter must be made clear, depending on what he means, you must not be sloppy, because the inner feelings cannot be changed, and you can't force it.

    Finally, I hope you can keep a good attitude, no matter what, things are broken, you have to understand that you are still young and the future will be good. It's all right, that's fine, but don't forget about me when it's time to do it.

    May God bless you!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Happy to leave him. First, he doesn't love you. Second, he doesn't hurt you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Are there no more men in the world? Foolish!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Persuade the landlord to give him a chance to pursue his own happiness, if he implicates you just because of his guilt, is it too cruel to all three of you? If you let go of him, you also let go of yourself, and if his friend hadn't told you those words, maybe you could go on like this. But now that you know, you worry every day that one day such happiness will slip away, and you might as well bring it up yourself.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I can't keep it, and now I am obedient to you just because I feel guilty in my heart, even if you get married, you can't be happy. Whoever loves hurts.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Feeling that he doesn't love you is just guilt or a character issue.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Love still has to decide for yourself = =

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Disperse, so you won't be happy.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    All I can say is that he cares about you and loves you. Respect you. With him, your life is worth it... I don't lie to you, you should be happy.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Thinking too much is sometimes not a good thing.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think the boy's expression is a sad expression.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's a bit boring but face-loving!

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    On one side ** scenery. While thinking.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's deep, I always think it's funny.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    "Wool, it's just pretending to be deep, and thinking too much.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It feels relaxing and quietly feeling the breath of nature.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    There is also the fact that the eyes are blank after the glasses are removed.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Is it really good for you to publish him on it like this?

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's a mixture of joy and sorrow, and you'll feel happy that you've become better, but this boy will sometimes pester you and feel annoyed (personal experience).

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Look at what this man is like, can you not be sad about a bad man? That's fake.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you love him, you will be happy, and if you don't love him, you will be sad.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Be happy and prove that you still have someone to ask for.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I'm glad that it's a good thing for you.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Ask clearly, provided that he tells the truth.

    Because women can only ask men this question once. (Men will find it annoying if there are too many times, except in special circumstances).

    If he says he's so nice to you because he's sorry for you, set him free.

    If he says it's because he likes you, then you're a happy girl.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Ask him directly if you will marry me. See his answer. But if you think this kind of man is reliable, try to keep him.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    There is a lack of honest communication between you, you have been in a passive role, he can do whatever he wants, you should mainly take this thing out and say it clearly, understand his true thoughts, what his friend says is not necessarily what he thinks, if he really doesn't love you, it is better to have a long pain than a short pain, the more the relationship is delayed, the more tormented, when you adapt to the days without him, maybe you will find another feeling!!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I read it, it's so sad, then you have to be tough, you can't rely too much, you have to let him know that you can actually exist independently, it's useless, he thinks you're still a child, it's not as perfect as the person he really loves, you have to let him know that you're very important to him, it's generally like this, in fact, people have a cheap mentality, what you can't get is always the best, a perfect man won't be like this, and he will say this in front of your buddies on a good side, don't be sad, he's just your dependence, maybe it's just a lack of security in your heart He just gives you a sense of security, come on!!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It's that you can't get rid of, it's not that you can't keep it.

    If you love him, be the best version of yourself and let him be reluctant to you.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    When the sky is still so vast and the white clouds are still so chic, then don't cry, because the departure of the other party has not taken away your world.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It should be happy, this expression should be out of the mind to think of something happy.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    There is no joy and no sadness.

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