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Chinese-style houses, most of which are independent courtyard houses, independent courtyards, large mixed villages, and small family gatherings. This kind of enclosed architectural form, which is not as good as a single-row building, adapts well to the environment. Generally, the courtyard house, the best is the north room, the lighting is good, the transparency is good, the room is also very spacious, followed by the west room, the east room and the south room are the worst.
If you have money, you don't live in the southeast room, and you don't come to warm it in winter and it's not cool in summer", because the east room and the south room have a long time of direct sunlight in summer, and the ventilation effect is not good, resulting in a stuffy room; In winter, the cold wind drives straight in, and the room is poorly insulated. However, the north house is different from the west, the effect of warm winter and cool summer is much better than that of the east and south houses, so the rich people generally live in the north or west houses, and rarely live in the east and south houses.
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Not living in the southeast room means that the house in this direction will be hotter in summer and cooler in winter, so try not to choose a house in this direction and not borrow money from your mother's family, because it will easily lead to family estrangement.
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It means that after the daughter gets married, she will set up a new family alone, and the parents have worked hard all their lives, and it is time to rest, and many things need to be faced by the daughter independently, and don't let the mother's family help at every turn.
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As the saying goes: "If you have a lot of money, you don't live in the East Wing, and if you don't have money, you can't be busy with your mother's family." So, what does this phrase mean? What is the ancestor trying to tell us?
"Money doesn't live in the East Wing", first of all, let's take a look at the first half of the sentence, first from his literal meaning, which means that if you have money, it is best not to live in the East Wing. The ancients believed that if the house was in the east wing, the door would generally face west, and in the morning, the sun would rise from the east, but it could not shine into the room, so the whole room looked very shady and unvibrant, so it was not suitable for habitation.
In the afternoon, the sun will shine directly on the east wing, so the temperature in the room will rise sharply. If it's summer, you'll feel like you're living in a big furnace, and you can imagine how it is. If this goes on for a long time, it will naturally have a great impact on our entire body, so in the cognition of the ancients, the houses in this direction were generally inhabited by people of low status.
In fact, there is also this sentence that says that after people have money, they should not live in the East Wing, and they will feel very uncomfortable in it. People don't always send people under the fence, that's a sign of spinelessness.
In short, the door faces west so that you can't see the morning sun, and there will be a very dark feeling in the house, so such a house is not suitable for living, so many people will avoid living in such a room as much as possible. It can be seen that no matter what season it is, the East Wing is indeed uninhabitable, and this statement is also applicable today.
Therefore, if she is a sensible girl, no matter how hard her life is, she is not willing to embarrass her parents, but will only bear and solve it silently.
The ancestors told future generations a truth, the first half of the sentence is between brothers, when they have a certain strength, they should live separately, and they can't always live a life under the fence; The second half of the sentence instructs married women to know how to be filial to their parents, so as not to cause trouble to them, this is the least truth of life.
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In the past, in rural areas, when a girl got married, it meant that there was only a family relationship with her mother's family, and she could not inherit the inheritance left by them after the death of her parents. After getting married, even if you don't have money, you can't ask your mother's family for help, otherwise it will only bring a lot of trouble to your parents. They are all their own children, and their parents will naturally feel distressed when they see them, but if they help, they will make their younger sister-in-law or sister-in-law complain, and then the parents will be difficult to behave in it, leading to family disputes.
If the girl is sensible, she will not watch her parents suffer, and even if she is poor, she will not go to her parents' house for help.
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This means that if your financial strength does not reach that level, don't run back to your parents' house to help your mother's family, because although you are kind, in fact, when you go back to your mother's family, you will feel that you are unproductive.
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Even in the former countryside, when a daughter marries out, it is just a family relationship, and when the daughter and her husband have no money or what, they can't go to their parents' family for help. Because after helping, there will be complaints from brothers-in-law or sisters-in-law, which is very difficult for the mother's family to get along.
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The implication of this sentence is that the girl who marries out, the water that spills out, if the conditions of the husband's family you marry are not good, it is better to go back to your parents' house less, otherwise you will be neglected in your parents' family.
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The first layer is that if you are not wealthy, then you will have less contact with your mother's family, and from another point of view, if you are a sensible child, you should not worry about your parents.
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What does the saying "If you have a lot of money, you don't live in the East Wing, and if you don't have money, you won't be busy with your mother's family"? Does that make sense.
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"If you don't have money, you won't be busy with your mother's house" literally, this sentence means that if you don't have money, don't go to your mother's house.
For the ancients, after a woman got married, it was like water spilled out, and it had almost nothing to do with the family. And at such a time, if you often ask your mother's family for help after you get married, you will be disliked by your brothers, especially your brother-in-law or sister-in-law. When your parents are old, they still need to be taken care of by their families, and if you ask for help, your parents will feel sad if they don't help.
In the long run, family disputes will arise, and your parents will be in a dilemma among you, and it will be difficult to be a person. Therefore, if she is a sensible daughter, no matter how hard her life is, she is not willing to embarrass her parents. The younger brother and daughter-in-law will mumble to the in-laws:
How did you raise such an uncompetitive daughter", if it is heavy, it will cause family discord.
People are raising your biological parents, and you don't go to help, but you come to dismantle the right, which shows that your daughter is very ignorant and a manifestation of unfilial piety. A sensible daughter, knowing that she feels sorry for her parents, should be considerate of the difficulties of getting old.
Reason:
It is the ancestors who told the descendants that the first half of the sentence is that the brothers return to the cautious room, and when they have a certain strength, they should live separately, and they can't always live a life under the fence; The second half of the sentence instructs married women to know how to be filial to their parents, so as not to cause trouble to them, this is the least truth of life.
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In rural areas, there is an old saying, I don't know if you have heard it, that is, "if you have money, you don't live in the east wing", and many friends may not know what this means. If you take it literally, it mainly means that if you have money, it is better not to live in the East Wing. Because in ancient times, people believed that if they lived in the east wing, under normal circumstances, the direction of the door would be towards the west, as we all know, the sun generally rises from the east, so at this time the sunlight cannot reach the east wing.
As a result, the whole room looks very cold and unsuitable.
There is a certain reason why people don't like to live in the east wing, because the east wing is located in the east facing west from the point of view, and it is also located in the direction of the east side in the courtyard. In many people's homes, it is also a courtyard structure, from the direction, the east wing is backed by the west wing, it is generally difficult to see the sun in the morning, only in the afternoon or evening, when the sun is about to set, it can be illuminated by the sun's rays.
We all know that the days in winter are relatively short compared to summer, and the sun will set quickly, so when the sunlight is strongest in winter, it will not shine in the east wing, and it will become very cold after a long time. Especially when the weather is bad and the northwest wind blows, the east wing will bear the brunt. Many people here may also think that the east wing is very cold in winter, and will it become cooler in summer?
In fact, this is not the case, in the summer, the east wing not only does not get cooler, but may become hotter.
Because the sun shines longer in the summer and the sun sets later, the east wing is illuminated by the sun throughout the afternoon to the evening, so it will naturally become very hot. That's why people say "you don't have money to live in the East Wing".
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This means that the environment of the east wing is not particularly good, and it is not sunny, so it may not be particularly good to live in this room.
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It's because the location of the east wing is not good, it's not warm in winter, it's not cool in summer, and I feel uncomfortable living in it.
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This sentence means that if the family has the conditions to live in other rooms, you must not choose the east wing. The reason why I say this is because the humidity in the east wing is relatively large, and living in the east wing for a long time is not conducive to human health.
First, the humidity in the east wing is relatively large.
The reason why rural people are reluctant to live in the east wing is mainly because the light time of the east wing is relatively shortTherefore, the humidity of the east wing is relatively large。If you live in the East Wing for a long time, you are prone to back pain and leg pain, and if the elderly live in the East Wing area, their health will not be very good. Therefore, rural talents are reluctant to live in the East Wing.
However, this phenomenon only occurs in rural areas, because most of the houses in the city are buildings, and the sunlight time of the buildings is relatively sufficient, so there is no problem of high moisture.
Second, the North House is the most suitable place for people to live.
Compared to the damp East Wing, the North House is the most suitable for people to live inBecause the north house has more light hours, especially in the northern area, the light hours can reach more than 10 hours a day. Therefore, the North House is warmer and drier, and the elderly with rheumatism can live in the North House for a long time, which can prevent old diseases**.
In addition, there is another very important reason why rural people like to live in the North House, that is, rural people think that the location of the North House is better. According to the habit of rural people to build houses, the north house is opposite to the gate of the courtyard. Rural people think that this layout structure is very good, so rural people are willing to live in the north house.
Thirdly, what is my opinion?
I think that the phrase "if you have money, you don't live in the East Wing", you shouldn't believe it allBut there is also some truthAlthough rural people are more persistent about the location of the house, whether they want to live in the east wing depends on the temperature and light time of their home. For example, most of the people in the northwest region live in caves, and the temperature in the caves is about the same, so it doesn't matter whether the east wing or the north house is located.
Summary: The reason why rural people say "if you have money, you can't live in the east wing" is mainly because the east wing is generally humid and the temperature will be relatively low.
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The specific meaning is that when you have money, you must not live in the east wing, because the east wing is generally east and west, it is very cold in winter, and the light time is very short.
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The specific meaning is that rich people must not live in the east wing, because this kind of house is prepared for the son, in ancient times, it was important to sit in the north and face south, this kind of house is sitting in the east and facing west, and the lighting is not good.
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Because the east wing is relatively humid and easy to get sick, there is this saying, and most families will not choose to live here.
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Because the location of the east wing is not particularly good, this house is relatively cold in winter, and it is particularly hot and humid in summer, and there is no way to receive sunlight in winter, and it is generally used to store goods.
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