Tips for communicating with new people 30

Oh, you're so interesting. Since you're not good at words, you still want to communicate with strangers, it seems that you still want to talk, and your personality is still more extroverted, in that case, I think you're still learning slowly, and you're sure to do it, don't worry Hehe......

If you want to find things around you with strangers, or problems that you find together, you can ask people according to the questions you don't understand, right, you are only 20 years old, study well in society, won't you go to school, 20 years old, don't worry, you will definitely do it in the future.

Also, you just need to read more books, go to the bookstore to buy some books, books about interpersonal communication, read more, don't worry too much about your own communication, rely on more study, and slowly there will be more topics ...... in the future

Hehe, what kind of work do you do?

You can read more books on eloquence and speech. Do you have any hobbies?

For example: playing ball, playing games, what to pull, what friends are talking about, you can listen to more, and then in the process of speaking, you can express your suggestions at the appropriate time. If you're still studying, there are a lot of activities, so you can participate in more and talk to them.

You say no.

I just don't like to talk, but I'm doing sales work now, which gives me a lot of exercise, you don't talk to understand the needs of others, how do you sell products to others.

Right, you can communicate more.

Just say something, find a common topic, and it's easy to pull

1. Take the initiative to say hello, don't wait for the other party to come to you, you have to take the initiative to find him, so that he will recognize you, feel that you are a good dating partner, and will continue to associate with you, if he ignores you, quietly or ignores you, you don't want to go to him, he doesn't like you, no matter what you do, he will not accept you. 2. Take the initiative to talk to him, chat with him, don't wait for him to ask you, you can talk to him at the main limb source. 3. Go out with him, go to dinner with him, go to the movies together, sing together, travel together, etc.

4. Take the initiative to help him, and take the initiative to help him when he needs your help. This is one of the manifestations of a good dating partner. 5. Take the initiative to care for him, take the initiative to care for him when he is sick, and take the initiative to help him when he is in trouble.

6. Take the initiative to help him solve the problem, and when he encounters trouble, you should take the initiative to help him, so that he can trust you.

When this happens, I will definitely reflect on myself and find a more correct and respectful way to communicate with my good friends. In this way, our friendship will become stronger, and at the same time, we can really fight for mutual understanding and mutual respect, and life will become better. 1.

It is important to be humble and polite when communicating and not to be emotional, as being emotional may make communication stuck halfway and unable to communicate, and even lead to abandonment and failure of communication. If you feel particularly irritable and restless in the process of communication because of your emotions, you will have to stop communicating and dig up scum and wait for a period of time to calm down before you can continue to communicate, which will actually make all parties in the communication unhappy. 2.

Communication: Learn to respect the other party's unnecessary self-esteem and pride, which will only become a stumbling block to communication, so at least you should give up your so-called self-esteem when communicating. Don't say things like "my self-esteem doesn't allow me, it will just keep the communication going." 3.

Communication should be frank and serious, in the process of communication, it is very important to be honest with each other, do not have concealment, honesty is an important step for you to deepen the cooperative relationship through communication. First of all, you can make the other party believe in yourself through your own honesty, and then drive the other party to be honest with you, and then promote the smooth and happy communication. 4.

Clearly express the opinions of the communication judgment Yan quietly No matter what the problem is, why, how, what the reasons are, etc., you must fully explain to the other party, even if there is no reason to act, you must also inform the other party of your own considerations and ideas, and get the other party's understanding and support in action is of good help to the development of communication and the next development of events. 5.Try to express yourself and seek the opinions of others.

If you're not sure how to solve this problem, you can try to show your opinion and see what the people around you think of you. Sometimes, friends are misunderstood due to some narrow ideas. You can ask other friends to see if you really have any bad behavior, and then use this as a way to improve.

When people reach old age, they are comfortable and happy, and enjoying their old age is the greatest happiness.

Therefore, we should communicate more with our friends, and we can also plant flowers and drink tea together in our old age, which is also a very happy way of life in our later years.

1. Respond in a timely manner when talking.

First of all, we must know how to respond, if others are very interested in saying a lot of content, and you don't have any expression, it will make people feel very embarrassed or uninteresting, so that the light words can only end hastily, and it will not help your language to communicate with you, so you usually have to respond to others in a timely manner when talking to the don't guess the banquet debater.

2. Communicate attitude and respect each other.

The attitude when communicating is also very important, you should communicate with each other modestly and friendly, and respect each other when talking, and focus on listening to the affirmation of facts and praise each other in the process of conversation, so that the effect of communication will be more ideal.

3. Know how to listen when talking.

Listening is also a point to pay attention to in communication, when talking to others, we should take into account the feelings of others, but also listen to what the other party expresses, so that we can better communicate in language, otherwise the communication will not achieve the effect at all, and it is easy to misunderstand.

4. Don't always be self-centered.

When talking, we should also pay attention to an important point, don't always think that what you say and do is very important, always take yourself as the center, and other people's is not important, this situation is to be eliminated, which can easily cause others to be disgusted, and will also leave a bad impression on others.

The most memorable thing I experienced during this year's Spring Festival was eating and chatting with friends I hadn't seen for a long time.

Although it is a relatively ordinary thing, it is a good way to enhance friendship, let us feel the warmth and beauty of friendship, learn to better cherish the manuscript chain friendship, and make the future life more pleasant, so it is very important to learn to communicate with friends.

1. Learn to listen patiently.

Listening more will allow you to receive more information that is easy to ignore, when to say more, and it is better to listen more and talk less, which will reduce the chance of making mistakes, and also make yourself appear more meaningful and deep.

2. Communicate with a humble attitude.

When speaking, you should put yourself in a humble perspective, not too confident, and not arrogant, otherwise it will affect your interpersonal relationships and work efficiency at work at any time. When encountering things, it is best to discuss them with others, and do not insist on going their own way.

3. Talk to be concise and concise.

The expression of ideas and ideas should be concise and to the point, concise and effective description can better complete the communication of the work, which is the performance of the ability to work, and accurate expression can reduce the working time by more than half.

4. Be considerate of each other when talking.

Listening is also a point to pay attention to in communication, when talking to others, we should take into account the feelings of others, and also listen to the other party's expression, so that we can better communicate in language, otherwise communication will not achieve the effect at all, and it is easy to misunderstand.

5. Don't always be self-centered.

When talking, we should also pay attention to an important point, don't always think that what you say and do is very important, always take yourself as the center, and other people's is not important, this situation is to be eliminated, which can easily cause others to be disgusted, and will also leave a bad impression on others.