How difficult is life for widowed women?

In today's society, there are many widowed women, and their lives are very difficult. The two are obviously not divorced, but they live like divorce. The woman put her whole life in this marriage, thinking that she would be happy, but she didn't think that this marriage was her own grave.

Women want to have a long-term marriage when they grow up, but many women will find that this marriage is not what they want after getting married. Especially in this marriage, the other party does not love him.

This marriage belongs to the kind of existence in name only, and in this marriage, two people have no love, which will make the woman feel very difficult. And many women feel that if this marriage breaks down, they will be happier, but this marriage still exists.

For those widowed women, their lives are very difficult. In the face of their husbands, there is no love, and many women feel that they are particularly tired in this marriage. Without this marriage, they would have lived a very easy life.

It is precisely because of this that many people are reluctant to get married.

In today's society, this phenomenon is common, and many people are married during the day and neighbors at night. There is no love between them, and women also feel that such a marriage is a burden for themselves.

Women especially desire to have a happy and long marriage, but for those widowed women, such a life is an ordeal. And they also want to divorce, but after the divorce, they will find that life is not as good as they imagined.

There will be a lot of gossip after the divorce, and you will be looked down upon. It is precisely because of this that many women would rather stay alive and widowed than divorce. This is a portrayal of many women's lives, so women must be cautious when choosing marriage.

After a woman is married to you, you must know how to take care of a woman, if you don't take care of it, your life will leave regrets, and your marriage will not be happy.

They face criticism from others, problems with their children's education, constant questions from parents and relatives, and the pressure of life. In addition to the material pressure, there is also the mental pressure, in short, it is very difficult.

For your husband, but there is no love at all, living in this marriage is very tiring, such a life is a kind of torment, there will be a lot of gossip, and you will be looked down upon, you would rather choose to be a widow than divorce.

They have to take on the responsibilities of men, they have to play two roles, they have to take care of the elderly and children, and they have to endure gossip.

How difficult is it for widowed women? Listen to what these two women have to say!

A woman's widowhood means that a woman has the title of a wife, but has no actual conjugal life, such as a married woman's husband who has been away for a long time and does not return, it is called a widow. Some areas also say that widows are left behind. Moreover, there are several modern explanations for widowhood, but whatever the reason for this, it means that the woman is not sexually active.

Notes:

Although they are husband and wife, they do not have a married life, and describe the woman as a widow; Another explanation is that the husband and wife do not have a common language, and they have different dreams in the same bed, which is also called widowhood, which means that they have lost the happiness and sweetness of marriage.

Ms. Wang, 35 years old

Although he and my husband live separately, he also has to be separated from us for the sake of the good of the family. So I spend the rest of my time taking care of my family. From the physical health of the children to eating and dressing, as well as studying, I am taking care of them alone.

Even though I'm at home, it's no easier than he is outside.

Laundry, cooking and housework occupy most of my energy, not to mention tutoring the child with homework, which is the most headache part, patiently teaching him one question at a time, coaxing him to sleep at night, and sometimes arguing for me to take him out to play. I played the role of a mother and a father for my husband, so I was one person for two people. I will also try to do my best, because the child is already lacking in love and companionship, and I have to double down to make up for him.

The rest of the time has to take care of the elderly, although they are still healthy. But you also need to check it out every week in case there are any surprises. My husband and I are separated from each other, and if there is a choice, who wouldn't want to stay at home with their family?

He works outside to make money, and I try to take care of the family, all for this family, and I have no complaints.

Everyone knows what the word widowhood means, that is, the husband dies and the woman lives alone with her children. In modern times, a widow is a woman who has a husband, but cannot be with her husband for various reasons, or the husband ignores the family and has little married life, so what is the experience of being a widow? See what women who have experienced it have to say!

1.Ms. Liu was very entangled and wanted to divorce but did not dare to make a decision

I'm a widow now, because my husband doesn't love me, and although he has a high salary and is very handsome, he treats me badly, and I have a very hard time.

At the beginning, I was with him mainly because the family recommended him, and I felt that he was very good in all aspects, but in fact he didn't love me, and this was something that the family didn't care about, and after we got married, I found that this kind of life was very painful, and I really wanted to divorce, but my parents would be angry, and I was 33 years old, and I felt that it was not easy for me to find a man with better conditions.

2.Ms. Zhao: I had no choice but to endure it silently

There is no way to stay alive and widowed, so you can only endure it silently. My husband was promoted to the headquarters because he worked very hard, and then he had to live separately from me, what can I do?

I can't say what he's doing badly, he's also for this family, but I can't adapt to this kind of life, I can only wait for him to gain a foothold over there, and then I can go over, but during this time, I can only suffer in silence.

3.Ms. Niu It's not a big deal to be widowed, it's good for a woman to be independent

It's not a big deal to be a widow, as long as a woman is independent, not only materially independent, but also spiritually independent, don't rely on men, you can live well on your own.

I once had a failed marriage, he didn't love me, and he was only with me because of family pressure, and after getting married, he ignored me, I felt that this was not the life I wanted, and resolutely chose to divorce.

At the beginning of the divorce, I was not happy, and I was looked down upon because of the divorce, but after a long time, I thought clearly, people have to adapt to the environment after all, I have to live for myself, my goal is no longer on marriage, but to improve myself, I became very independent, and slowly came out.

Conclusion: It is understandable that women have a very bad experience of being widowed, but in the face of the situation of widowhood, women's reactions are also different, which one do you support more?

The life of a widowed woman is terrible, so it is better to give up this marriage as soon as possible and restore the freedom of your life.

It is hard for women to take care of children, and it is also hard for men to make money to support their families, so that a small day is beautiful and meaningful.

Boys must work hard for their daughters-in-law, and girls must keep to themselves, which is the least respect for each other! vaguely remembered; When I met you that day, my youth began to be restless and self-conscious. There are ** waves in the four seasons, encountering all kinds of miracles, and I keep to myself and do not regret harvesting a you.

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