How to comfort others when they fall out of love?

1.Don't rush to comfort.

Many people panic when they see their lovelorn friends crying, so they immediately go to comfort each other, say don't cry, you don't have to be like this, or other big truths, in fact, at this time, more big truths, more comfort words are powerless, so don't be in a hurry to comfort at the first time.

2.Quietly accompany you.

When you see a lovelorn friend crying, you can sit quietly next to each other, don't talk or disturb, and let the other person cry as much as you want, but at this time, you need to prepare enough tissues, or lend shoulders to each other.

3.Guide the other party to cry out as much as they want.

If the other party sits there very uncomfortable, wants to cry but endures it, this is very bad, you can use language guidance to let the other party say what happened or the reason for the breakup, I believe that the other party will definitely cry or cry in the process of telling, at this time you can add fuel and vinegar, touch the other party's sore spot, so that the other party can cry to their heart's content, and after crying, they will be instantly happy.

4.You need to constantly affirm each other.

In the process of telling a lovelorn friend, you need to stand in the other party's perspective for the sake of the other party, and when the other party mentions specific things, give the other party affirmation and praise in a timely manner, recognize the other party, and at the same time appropriately belittle the other party's lover, so that the other party feels that you understand her He, at this time, the grievances and dissatisfaction in the heart will also be released to a certain extent.

Don't comfort a friend when he falls out of love, this will only remind him of the past and make him more uncomfortable.

The only thing you have to do is take him out for a walk, go shopping or something like that to distract him, and that's it.

The rest is up to him.

Sometimes it's best not to say anything, just look at him (her) quietly, be a quiet listener, when he (she) has finished talking about the depression and pain in his heart, and his heart is no longer so sad, pat him (her) on the shoulder, find a place to relax, and forget everything ......

In fact, when they are in love, two people's affairs, and breaking up is a person's business, because breaking up and being sad does not mean that he (she) is fragile, but he (she) is not strong enough, learning to forget is a good thing, but some things cannot be forgotten, it is better to find a new relationship, let the new lover use his (her) good, and cover up the memory that cannot be forgotten.

Say something to comfort him.

You will be separated, which means that there is something wrong with you, and there will be more worthy people to appear, there is no need to regret, there is no need to be melancholy, everything will go naturally. Believe that even if someone breaks your heart, there will still be someone willing to mend it.

Some boys are also very soft in their hearts, and they also need to be cared for.