What should I do when I meet a debtor boyfriend who doesn t let me break up with Huabei?

In love, two people are financially independent of each other at the very least, and you can choose not to break up, but you must do a property notarization. And whether it's two million or two hundred, you have to know that this is caused by you, this is not your joint debt, even if he is your boyfriend, you have no obligation to repay. Originally, I thought that it was difficult for outsiders to interfere in this kind of thing, so I didn't think much about it.

But when I saw you say, "If he only owes hundreds of thousands, I can pay back the money with him." "I think it's still necessary to remind you that financial independence is a two-way street, not just for girls.

Don't talk about so much money, even two dollars shouldn't be paid back. This has nothing to do with more money and less money, it is a matter of bottom line and principle.

It's up to you, if you really love him and really want to be with him, you will tolerate everything he has and bear everything with him, maybe you feel that this kind of life is too bitter, but if you really love him and suffer with him, it is also sweet. If you just want a stable home, you can also be with him and pay off the debt with him, the days may be long, but after paying off the debt, he will know that you are good to him, then he will be doubly good to you (unless he has no conscience), maybe the day of repaying the debt will be very bitter, but it will be sweet later! You can also choose to break up and find a stable home, which may be too cruel to him, but the fault he made is not you, why should you bear it with him, you can choose an ordinary but can give you a sense of security and a happy and stable home.

If the lover offers to carry it with me at this time, of course I will be grateful, but this is my own business, I thank the other party for their dedication, and I will not really let the other party fulfill this kind of responsible commitment. But most of the time, human nature is very realistic, and we are still friends now, and we will not complain about each other's choices at that time.

There is nothing wrong with making such a choice, and I don't need to blame myself. On the contrary, choosing to continue to bear it together is a difficult and impractical task, and it is likely to consume one's own life as well. If your personality is not so strong, and the man you choose is not so trustworthy, then don't give him that hope.

Because the illusion created will be exposed one day.

In fact, you should also listen to some opinions of the other party, do not use Huabei, or choose to explain the situation to the other party to indicate your current economic situation.

When you meet such a person, you should try to stay away, break up with him, and cut off relations with such a person.

Choosing to break up, a man like this has no responsibility and responsibility at all, and just wants you to bear some of his debts, so you should choose to end decisively.

I think it's better to break up, this kind of man is not worth your memorial.

Then it's okay, such a man is not worth nostalgia.

I think it's better for this kind of man to leave him as soon as possible.

Then break up, it doesn't feel worth being with him.