Parents prefer sons over daughters, why has the grace of parenting become a debt that daughters can

Because Chinese parents think like this, they think that their daughters belong to someone else's family, and if they raise their daughters, their daughters should be filial to their parents, and parents should pay as much as they want for their sons, and they should not pay for their daughters.

Because the daughter has no status in the eyes of her parents, if the daughter wants to prove herself and please her parents, she needs to keep paying.

Because it doesn't matter whether your parents are patriarchal in the family or not, but you do receive the favor of your parents, and your parents raised you and gave birth to you, so you will marry into someone else's family in the future, so you will have less time to be filial to your parents.

Because the grace of nurturing is greater than heaven, parents make great sacrifices for their children, so there is nothing for their children to reciprocate.

I think that in the face of such parents, my daughter should not contact such parents after repaying her parents' kindness to her, because such parents will only make you suffer more harm in the future.

1. Talk to your parents, if your parents are patriarchal, you should find an opportunity to talk to your parents and tell you about the depression in your heart, if your parents can hear their daughter's voice and change, your situation will be better.

2. Make yourself better, if your parents are patriarchal and make yourself very unhappy, you have to make yourself better, better, more promising than your brothers, and you will find the advantages of your daughter in your eyes.

3. Be kind to yourself, if your parents are patriarchal, don't complain too much about your parents, as long as you are not an only child, your parents are partial, rather than waiting for others to love yourself, it is better to treat yourself well and make yourself happy.

4. If the parents can't communicate, they must recognize the reality, the interests of the son are paramount, and the parents will sacrifice the interests, happiness and even life of their daughters for their sons, no matter how the woman pleases, the parents will not change, so give up illusions, don't try to beg for that little bit of maternal love and father's love through their own efforts.

5. Finally, if you can, leave the location of the original family as much as possible, the distance produces beauty, and living in a different place may still maintain surface harmony. Most importantly, reduce as much as possible the chances of parents disturbing their own lives and well-being.

They are not ashamed, because their thinking is so ingrained that there is no way to change things and people in general.

I don't think so, because their patriarchal thinking is deeply ingrained, and they don't belong to this family anymore when their daughters marry and go out, even if they raise them in their old age, they feel that this is the right thing to do, and they will not change this thinking.

They will not feel guilty in their later years, after all, the idea of patriarchy has been deeply reflected in their minds, and they feel that this is the right thing to do.

Absolutely. Because patriarchal parents often have a bowl of water uneven, they will let their daughters suffer a lot of grievances, and when they are old, they will feel guilty and regret their actions.

Perhaps, but such parents generally have a traditional deep-rooted feudal mentality, and they should not feel guilty even in their old age.

Times are changing, and many families have gotten rid of the idea of preference for sons, but there are still families who are still troubled by the idea of preference for sons. Although some women are very diligent and sensible since childhood, it is difficult to get the approval of their parents, and they may not be happy in their marriage after marriage, so they may deeply hate their parents' patriarchal thinking. If you are a daughter and your parents usually prefer sons over daughters, will you provide for them when they are old?

1. I won't provide for my parents, because I have never been treated.

In the eyes of some women, it is sad that they live in a patriarchal family, and their parents may not treat them well since they were young, and they are quite partial to their younger brothers, and if they do something wrong, they may reprimand or even scold them loudly. In the long run, there may be such an idea, since the parents are so unkind to themselves, then when the parents are old, they will let their younger brother provide for them, and they will not take care of it.

In the eyes of some women, because their parents' patriarchal thinking has had a great impact on their growth, and even left a shadow on themselves for a lifetime, they will not provide for their patriarchal parents in the future.

2. Will provide for his parents, just to repay the kindness of parenting, not because of filial piety.

In the eyes of some women, their parents have been patriarchal since childhood, so they have to experience all kinds of grievances when they are young, which leads to no deep feelings between them and their parents. But when the parents are old, they will provide for them, but not because of their filial piety, but just to repay their parents' nurturing kindness.

After all, his life is given by his parents, and it is not easy to raise himself, even if his parents are not good to him, but he will not abandon himself. Therefore, when the parents are old, they will provide for their old age, just as a reward for the kindness of nurturing, and filial piety will be forgotten, because after all, the parents did not give themselves a lot of love, and they just did this to make their hearts more comfortable in the future.