When people reach middle age but are burdened with huge debts, is there no hope in life?

Updated on society 2024-07-04
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    In the real society, the most test of a person is to be in debt! There is huge pressure from the outside world, as well as internal torture and suffering, which is indeed not something that ordinary people can bear, many people will become sluggish, and once you have withstood the test, you will meet a stronger self. Life will not be hopeless, as long as you don't give up, everything will be fine.

    Whether there is any hope depends on the situation of repaying the huge debt, if the debt can be paid off in a short time. It shows that you have the ability to do business, and the strength proves that you can turn losses into profits, which shows a common sense problem in business, the business law is that there are revenues and losses, each accounting for different proportions. In general, if you make more money and lose less, then the business as a whole is profitable.

    In the same way, middle-aged people have huge debts, and of course this is a kind of crisis that brings some negative emotions, frustration, loss, disappointment, and feeling like they are about to collapse. In the case of debt, there will be a dark moment, it will be difficult to move an inch, it will be difficult to walk, and you will have to get through it even if you grit your teeth. It is estimated that at this time, everything that happens is worth your serious thinking and self-reflection.

    Is it your fault? Why is there so much debt.

    A mature middle-aged person, no matter how much debt he faces, must first of all not panic in his heart. When debt is pressed, the first thing to do is to prioritize and do what must be done first. For example, you can list the balance sheet of your own liability items, you can use the form to manage it, you can see at a glance how many debts there are?

    Which one pays first? And after that? So, you can prioritize.

    To solve the debt problem, it is necessary to solve the urgent and important problems first, and then the secondary and secondary problems. This way, the work will be in order. There are middle-aged people in society who are overwhelmed once they are in debt.

    They grab the eyebrows and beards. The more urgent, the more chaotic, the more urgent, which is not conducive to the settlement of their debts.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    No, although people are middle-aged, there is still hope in life, and life is also very beautiful, to find some shining points in life.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Of course not, you must not give up at this time, I hope that sometimes you should pay attention to adjust your mentality and not be too negative.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Business failure, debt, especially you have to be strong to face, even if you pretend to be strong, you have to pretend to be completely fearless, even if you are seen through by others at a glance, even if it is just a huge irony, you have to pretend to be strong, this is a strong bottom line, you must not lose it!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You can't stop studying, you can't rest well, you can't eat enough, you can't make new attempts without spending money, and you can't be afraid of starting a business.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Don't "lose" your image.

    In life, everyone has an impression of others, and when you form a good impression in the circle of friends or in the business group, let others remember you and believe in you. Since there is cooperation, it will be easy to achieve, when a person is in debt, he will break the jar and fall, feel that he can't pay it back anyway, let others say it, a person facing difficulties, without a good attitude, can not leave a good impression on others.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Don't lose yourself money, don't treat yourself badly when eating, don't treat yourself emotionally.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Some people spend money and live in debt. And debt has not improved his quality of life much, but has decreased. Then, the life of debt is also very uncomfortable, it is a life of poverty.

    In addition to the old lai, most of those who are in debt are poor, and the reason why they are in debt is because they want to overdraft the future, and from now on, they must accumulate capital to invest in a happier life in the future, or invest in order to cure diseases and prolong their lives. There are those who have borrowed money from relatives and friends and do not pay it back, there are those who have borrowed money from investment companies and have not repaid it, and there are even those who have borrowed money from banks and have not repaid it. However, when some people borrow money, they want to repay it on time, and they also promise to the person who lent them money, the company, or the bank, so whether they can repay it at that time has become another matter, and the pursuit of debt collection is also very complicated.

    People in debt are overdrawn not only on their bank cards, but also on their own lives and the lives of others. The property market is high, young people in order to buy a house to overdraft their future, but also to overdraft their parents, grandparents, grandparents, in the days of work do not dare to have any living thoughts, always have a monthly mortgage, although living in a big city, but still do not dare to high consumption, encounter something to be careful and pick the touch to live. In fact, they are all poor people in the city, and they may become the middle class of the city or the rich in the future, but the current life of debt is very difficult, and it is also disliked by many people.

    When you are in debt, you can't spend lavishly, except for those who want to take someone else's money. Most of the people in debt are struggling at the bottom of their lives, and they have a lot of wages every month, but after paying off their housing debts, paying water and electricity bills, and buying and buying food, there is not much left. When they have children, life becomes difficult all of a sudden, and it costs more to hire a babysitter.

    When the elderly are sick, not only do they have to serve, but they also have to pay for medical treatment, if they don't serve, they have to spend money to hire someone to serve, on the one hand, they have to spend money, and on the other hand, they have to give their own time. Both need to be put into the money, to catch up with the parents' minor illness and pain, or to die of a violent illness, the cost is not too much, if you catch up with chronic diseases, long-term hospitalization, people living in debt in the city can encounter a big problem in life.

    If you don't have debt, you see more than a thousand clothes, and you like it, so you buy it, but what if you are in debt? You have to think about whether there is a replacement at home, if there is, even if you like it, you can't buy it, because you have to pay a monthly loan for the building, and you also need a certain amount of living expenses. As a result, life has become very harsh, and after careful planning, the small life is a little stretched, not very rich, and sometimes even very shabby, but who is to blame for this?

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The life of debt is not free, it is poor, the people in debt are like living in a shackle, carrying a heavy load, and every minute of the current effort is to repay the debt, and life is also stagnant.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Not necessarily, if you are carrying a mortgage and car loan, this does not mean that you are a poor life, but can prove that you live a normal life, after all, in this society, which adult does not have one or two loans.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I don't think so, because debts are only temporary, not to mention that most people are in debt now, such as mortgages, car loans, etc., but I think that people who can go into debt have a certain ability.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Yes. People who are in debt are always paying back their money, have no money to spare, and live a poor life.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Heartless and powerless, there are a few middle-aged people in this life who don't have to pay it back, for children like this.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    One is love debt, because he has reached middle age, he doesn't have too much energy to manage love debt; The other is the debt of favors, because middle-aged people can no longer afford to repay favors.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    First, love debt. If you also have a lot of love debts, then you don't have to pay them back after middle age, because you already have your own family. Second, the dream debt of childhood.

    This is actually a kind of debt, the wish you made in your childhood has not been fulfilled, and you don't have to pay it back when you reach middle age, because you are already stable. The third is the emotional debt between friends. Friends can have one or two in their lifetime.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Try not to repay children's debts, at this age, children have a lot of things to see very lightly, and then those personal debts, there are many times when they are also powerless, and it is better to see it lightly.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    There is a weak heart, in this life. There are several types of middle-aged people who do not need to repay, such as middle-aged Chinese love debts are not necessary to repay.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you have a weak heart, what kind of debts will be paid back in this life, as long as you have debts, no matter what debts you have, whether it is middle-aged people, the elderly are not in debt.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    What kinds of debts do middle-aged people have to repay? For example, the first love will not forget your love, and the expectations of your elders will not be enough.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    There are new benefits. If you don't have the ability to do it, you have to do what you have to do. Regardless of age.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you are powerless, you don't have to pay it back if you take a few middle-aged people in this life, and I don't think there is any need to help them pay off their children's debts.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Middle-aged people should be particularly tired, so this phenomenon is also a phenomenon of the public.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Middle-aged people don't need to repay anything except for the mortgage and car loan.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Personally, I feel that no matter to what extent, I should repay my debts, and since I have borrowed it, I need to think that I must be honest, which is also my obligation.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    In fact, I think that any kind of debt should go to Shanghuan, as long as it is a debt you owe at that time, then whether you are weak or powerless, or you have to find a way to repay it.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Love debts don't have to be repaid, because love debts can't be repaid.

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