I want to meet my online girlfriend in advance, but he wants me to go back in three years, why?

Updated on society 2024-07-17
32 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I didn't see a female netizen until three years later, and it was obvious that this female netizen was fake and deceived you.

    Most of the relationships in the network are virtual and mainly based on deception, so you must be careful.

    If you're serious about a relationship, you can see each other in three months.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    This kind of person can't be trusted, unless you're very young, and three years have changed too much.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It shows that she is not fully prepared, or she is not confident enough, and it is also possible that what you know about her is not real, there are false elements in it, online dating is not too reliable, it is best to thoroughly understand it before considering whether to continue to avoid being deceived.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If she wants to meet her online girlfriend in advance, she has to go back three years later, and there should be several reasons for this.

    He doesn't want to meet you now, and then, postponing it until three years later, he must have his own considerations, if this happens in the first class, one is that he doesn't want to meet you now, which proves that he is not in a hurry, or that there is something he doesn't want you to know, or that there is some other purpose, such as being afraid that you will find out something, he lied to you, and that's generally it.

    Secondly, she doesn't want to meet with you now, and then postpone it until after three o'clock, which proves that your relationship has not reached that point, or that she doesn't want to confirm a too clear relationship with you now, this should be to leave a way back for herself, so it will be like this.

    In the end, if the meeting time is postponed until three years later, this should be a kind of prevarication, or a perfunctory statement, or you should think about it yourself and be careful.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    For this kind of online dating and long-distance love, it is recommended not to break up in a hurry.

    After all, we've been talking for more than a year, and although we haven't met, how can we talk for so long if you don't like it, right? Therefore, it is recommended that both parties can meet below, so that they can really understand each other and understand their feelings.

    With the development of society and the rise of various social software, the phenomenon of online dating is becoming more and more common in our lives. For this matter of online dating, it is recommended that we first confirm whether the identity of our online dating partner is real, regardless of men and women, we all protect our property and personal safety. We can call** to confirm the identity of the other party, **chat, instead of just calling voice.

    For some boys and girls, they take love very seriously, and when they meet someone they like, they are easy to pay a lot for their objects.

    Secondly, chatting on the Internet, many of our friends are prone to have some inexplicable feelings for their netizens, at this time, we have to distinguish this kind of feelings, we have to know what kind of emotion we like for this netizen. Do I like to chat with this netizen because we have a lot of common topics, or do I like this way of chatting, or because I like this netizen so I like to chat with him. Because many friends will think that chatting often is like, is love, in fact, this is not right, in fact, we are just used to each other, we will always talk about habits and mistake them for likes, but this is not the case.

    Finally, we all know that long-distance relationships are very hard, not to mention online dating plus long-distance relationships, after all, online dating plus long-distance relationships, this kind of relationship is the most difficult to adhere to. If the two have been together for a long time, it is recommended that both parties can find a time to meet, after all, only when they have met can they know whether they are suitable for each other and whether the relationship should continue.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    There is no need to continue talking, because if two people continue to talk, nothing will come of it, and finding a girlfriend by your side is the best.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    There is no need, since there is no way for two people to meet, talking about it will only make two people consume some emotions, and there will be no results.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If the relationship between two people is relatively strong, and both parties are more trusting in the relationship, it is necessary to continue the conversation.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There is no need. Because a long-distance relationship doesn't lead to anything at all, both of you don't know each other, stop kidding yourself.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's been two years of online dating, and if you're sure you want to continue dating, then it's still recommended that you need to meet. You can just say it, or you can take this as a test to see what the other person thinks.

    1. Send ** before meeting.

    Some people say that online dating begins with three views and ends with five senses. Although the Internet will dilute people's imagination of appearance, and beauty software can also help us improve our appearance, before two people meet, it is best to give each other a real **.

    For both boys and girls, if the real person is far from what they imagined, they will definitely feel cheated. If it's not good, but the real person looks more comfortable, it will definitely deepen the goodwill.

    So even though the network is virtual, we should keep some of our authentic selves.

    2. Talk about common topics.

    In addition to the reason for appearance, the bigger reason is that two people can't find the familiarity of chatting online. Since you are in a relationship, there must be a lot of topics that the two of you have in common. If you can't find anything to say after you meet, and you don't look so handsome, then the girl will definitely be disappointed.

    3. Recall the moments you spent together.

    If the girls have a good impression of you after meeting, in addition to common topics, you can also talk about the process of getting to know each other, the games you usually like to play together, etc. We can continue to evoke good memories for a girl and deepen her affection for you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Just express your thoughts and you're fine.

    It's been two years, everything that should be understood is understood, and everything that should be talked about has been discussed.

    Everything you should know is also known, and from the point of view of meeting, there is no problem with the time.

    There is no need to talk about these things euphemistically, just ask the other party about the time.

    When you have time, you want to see each other. That's it.

    If the other party refuses, it depends on the reason for the refusal.

    If you don't refuse, just go to the meeting smoothly.

    If you say it directly, you will get the best results and results. Best wishes

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The boyfriend of online dating is too uncertain, some people chat well online, but they can't be connected in person, and they feel that online dating is unreliable or they have to meet as a last resort, let alone offer to meet.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The feeling that the other party gave himself has always been a mystery, and I have never met before, and I will definitely be a little nervous and apprehensive when I meet for the first time, and I am afraid that it will be different from what I imagined, and I will be disappointed.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I'm excited to finally be able to see each other and be able to interact with each other in reality.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I will be very nervous, I don't know if the other party is as perfect as I met on the Internet, and I am afraid that the other party will not meet my expectations.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I will feel very apprehensive, and I will have a little expectation, hoping that the other party will be more perfect than I imagined.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Emotions are incredibly complicated. I'm afraid that the other party is not good enough, and I am afraid that the other party is too good. I'm afraid that the other party won't come, and I'm afraid that the other party will mess around.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I am looking forward to it and anxious, I can't sit and lie down, I really want to see my chosen partner, but I am afraid that the other party will die of the light, and I am afraid that I will be disliked.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I will feel very excited, and I especially hope that the other party can be as perfect as the Internet in reality, and my life will be complete.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's a very exciting feeling. I feel that I will reap love immediately, so I am more excited in my heart.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It is a very exciting mood, after three years of online dating, the first meeting must be very grand and very happy.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Third, online dating is a bit deceptive, and it's best to look for your partner in real life. Love is not a trivial matter, we should not treat our love too perfunctory, although online dating is romantic, but full of risks, no one dares to guarantee that the other side of the network cable is a beauty or **. Therefore, it is best for us to meet our life partners in life, so that love can blossom and bear fruit.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Online dating is coming, and there will be a variety of meeting scenes and follow-ups. One is that the demeanor and personality that the other party shows you in daily life are very different from the actual meeting, so there is an embarrassing situation and you want to escape, and the other party thinks that you will be the same as when you are dating online. If you are reluctant to meet again because you are worried that the other party will be sad, it is better to be honest and say that you can be a pen pal and ordinary friends, otherwise the follow-up will be more embarrassing.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I think the best way to say goodbye is for you to tell him that your house is on fire. You're going to go home and put out the fire, so he understands what you're thinking. It's going to be fun, too.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Ask your friend to give you a **, and then you can say that there is something important to deal with at work, and you can leave politely.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Don't give it to him! I don't say he's fake, what I want to say is that love has changed a lot! There's no need to think that giving it to him is love. Give it better to the people you live with!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It can be seen that he is very unreliable! Because you are too kind to see this, I hope you can calm down and think about it, every step at the crossroads of life is very important. I think it's better to observe it carefully and then give it!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Girls must not give it out casually for the first time, a man will not be much better after he even shrinks his money to spend money on his girlfriend! Don't be stupid.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Online dating is unreliable, and besides, you are so far away. I think it's better not to give, knowing that there is no result, why let yourself regret it, when you meet someone in love in the future, what do you give him for the first time?

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I advise you not to do that, because your relationship is not stable, once there is a change, it is only you who will be hurt, and it will affect you for life!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Since you love it the most, just give it to him.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Don't give! Kill and don't give! Unless you get married!

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