I was depressed and angry for my boyfriend .

Updated on psychology 2024-07-20
58 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    I think you are here to say, why don't you find a time to communicate with him about your dissatisfaction, and different people have different chemistry together, who to live with has troubles, and you find a boyfriend who is richer than you and doesn't necessarily want to give you marriage.

    It is recommended that you communicate more and don't keep it in your heart.

    Whether he loves you or not, you have to judge by usual, he only said that he didn't buy it because he had the heart but didn't know how to manage money, which led to a push and push, and you gave him the feeling that you didn't want it very much. If you want to, tell him that he's not a roundworm in your stomach. If he buys it for you, will you be really happy, thinking that you will be unhappy because of the comparison psychology mutated into the conclusion that he doesn't love you.

    Since you are considering getting engaged, it is recommended that you discuss financial matters after marriage, don't feel complicated, and when communicating with him, pay attention to the attitude and tone of your speech Communication is to solve conflicts and not create contradictions, because questioning a man's ability (income) is very hurtful to their self-esteem And don't go out to spend in the future to make him think that you are generous and it doesn't matter, If you don't have enough money, you propose not to spend, don't rush to your pockets Your money is spent together, You can set up a shared account and each of you can set aside some money each month to save for weddings or travel

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Love is realistic, a person's experience A person's age group has different opinions on love, I don't know how old you are, I'm 20 years old this year I haven't had a girlfriend Maybe I don't have a problem with you, but I want to help you, In my eyes Love and wedding banquet are two different things Love is just a process of two people going through a process and moving towards marriage together So it doesn't need to be so realistic The important thing is to leave a good memory of youth, money is a good thing I also like money Both men and women like money But you have to know that the love of two people should be balanced, don't blindly pay, love is to have a desire to conquer and a sense of mystery, the appropriate relationship, the right greeting, the right date, and money is a small scaffold of love, some people are very realistic money worship men and gold worship women are very much, but most of them don't have that life, the heart is higher than the sky, life is thinner than paper In short, you have to look at the open Since you have it, cherish it if you lose it, don't look at it, that's just an experience, marriage is a realistic thing The relationship between two people is much more important than money, but I think that the man's house should be ironclad, and if not, don't marry! Another is that men's sense of responsibility is also very important, if you are rich, if you have a car, you have no sense of responsibility, and when you are old and Zhuhuang throws you away, and then you are self-motivated, which is also very important Men are not motivated and are destined to be poor gods

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Seeing this, I was also depressed and angry. . .

    Does such a guy not love you enough, or is he more material and rich?

    Test him again, be cautious in marriage, don't entrust yourself to a person who is okay. I feel that LZ can find a better, more considerate boy who loves you more... Or wait until he knows how to be better, more considerate and love you more before getting engaged to him.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    In fact, you are already very dissatisfied with this love now.

    This dissatisfaction will only get worse if it continues, and sooner or later they will break up.

    In fact, there is a saying that you are not right, boys like to spend money for the people they like, but girls don't like the money of the people they like, but they will be happy to spend money for themselves, but they will also feel sorry for him, and they feel too wasteful.

    This is true love.

    Let's break up, the accumulated dissatisfaction is already too much, and if it continues, it will make this rift even worse, and it will not end well.

    Unless you make everything clear, see what he does.

    If you change, forgive him, and break up if you don't come to your senses.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    After reading your words, I also remembered the matter of Wohuo, when I used to be with my boyfriend, almost all of my money was spent. His family background is not as good as mine, and he is still in school, so he didn't bother with him, and he said that he would compensate me when he worked. But he didn't buy me anything after he worked, and he actually took the money to another woman to open a shop.

    Not long ago, the woman dumped him and got engaged to someone else, and he died and came back to me, and I was so angry. I was the one who shared his hardships at the beginning, but the person who enjoyed happiness with him was another woman, and when she was unhappy and came back to me, he could only think of me when he was sad and sad

    I kicked it, I don't care, I don't plan to get everything he owes me back, but the more you will lose if you continue to follow him, although love is to pay, but you can't pay it alone.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    His career. Very good? This kind of eyesight is also okay.

    Inferior to you? To what extent? His family belongs to the family who can only buy discounts when buying things? If that's the case. You still don't blame him. Habits developed from childhood.

    I always think you don't want any answers when you write questions. Just write it out and let others see it. Or. You give me the points, and I'll help you scold him a few more words?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Sister, it is better for you to leave him. If he truly loves you, he will be responsible for what he promised. His failure to keep his promises only means that he is not good. Unreliable态As a boy I despise him q q

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    He is the quintessential love to show off! Stingy God of Wealth has a good face! Do you love him? If you don't love him, don't get engaged to him!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Such a man is not worth it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It doesn't matter if others say it can or not, the key is what you think? It's been four years, it's really not a short time, are you willing to do it? If you can tolerate his problem with a woman on the outside forever, I don't think there's a problem, but the problem is that a woman with a normal brain is unlikely to not care, right?

    I think you yourself should understand what to do, that is, reluctantly, girl, long pain is better than short pain, you should be with the person who cherishes you. That guy isn't necessarily bad, but he's not a good boyfriend for you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you really get married, you will be angry for a lifetime, men love you will care about your mood and feelings, what do you think you can get from a man who is not very good, women are used to hurt, as if you can't get married, why listen to him say that he looks at it, and it will be divided, the two-legged frog is not easy to find, there are not many men, there are more than him, find the right one for yourself, don't be impulsive and delay yourself for a lifetime, break up as soon as possible, even if you have feelings, it is not long-term, Because didn't you also find out that he was looking for a woman outside twice, can you really put this sand in your eyes, think about it, I advise you!

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If I were you, I would definitely break up with him. What's the use of having feelings, he obviously has no sense of responsibility, and he is still married after being like this?

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think you should think about it.

    Men should give women a cup of care and love, and know some ways to adjust the atmosphere, so that the married life can be harmonious.

    Think about it so you don't regret it...

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Forget it, I'm looking for one that's good for you.

    Find a man who is a little more dedicated.

    After all, marriage is a lifelong affair and it takes a long time.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I'll be honest.

    This relationship is considered to be married.

    It won't be true for long.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Maybe it's time that kills everything.

    Feelings are like that.

    Fade slowly. Alas, the road knows the horsepower, and the people will see it for a long time.

    Forget it, this relationship has deteriorated.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    He thinks you're going to follow him, so he won't be afraid of you leaving.

    You have to think clearly for yourself, will you be happy with him like this?

    Don't regret getting divorced later.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I'm not married yet, so I'm doing this to you, what are you talking about with him?

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    A man who has a woman outside can't ask for anything...

    Otherwise, it's too painful.

    This kind of man! 1. Oh not good.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Such a man must not be wanted!

    It's better to break up early!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    In the 21st century, is it good to have the freedom to marry?

    Chong's mother knows that she will not be a good mother-in-law in the future.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you are willing to leave him for this, it means that you don't love him enough, if his mother doesn't like you, then break up early, if you are reluctant, then what's the point of asking this, persevere to the end, your happiness, let you choose.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you are willing to leave, you will simply leave.

    Don't drag mud and water.

    As the saying goes:

    Love, just turn back.

    Don't love, never force.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you feel that you don't get happiness and break up quickly, the age of women is unforgiving, don't drag it out. It's nothing to change your boyfriend, it's definitely even more difficult to change your boyfriend's mother, and you will suffer after marriage. But if you say you love your boyfriend and can't live without him, then you should be happy.

    You have to make sure that you both love each other deeply, so you will get married, and then ease the relationship with your mother-in-law after marriage. If I were your boyfriend, I would have turned against my mother, and it wasn't for my girlfriend, it was a matter of principle in my heart. In that case, the old lady won't blame you.

    The weaker your boyfriend is, the more you lose. But don't keep nagging your boyfriend about this, if he quarrels with that immoral mother, his mother will definitely blame you. Parents do not have the right to interfere with their children's marriages, which is very immoral.

    You have to be strong. My point of view is that there are many young men in the world, and there are many good mothers-in-law, and long pain is better than short pain.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If I were your girlfriend and I would break up with you, how could there be this, you have to tell your sister, if your sister doesn't care, then there's no way, it's mainly up to you, the man who beats a woman is the most disgusting.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I can't understand. Men can't hit women for whatever reason.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You don't have any reason to find a girlfriend.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I don't understand why you don't make a move! Are you embarrassed to do it during the New Year? Your brother-in-law and boyfriend are embarrassed, what are you embarrassed about.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Girlfriend was beaten by her own sister and boyfriend. Are you all modern or primitive barbarians? Minorities?

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I always feel like you should help your girlfriend.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Did you swap things with each other?

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    You calmly walked up to him and said happily, isn't it good! Go on, I'm out playing!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    You're normal, he's feeling good about himself and the transition is showing off. If you love him, tell him that you don't like him like this.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Separate from him! Otherwise, he will be "incurable" after you!!

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Maybe they colluded, he didn't need to send it to you.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    You're not welcome: Your boyfriend is quite a scumbag.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    White lies, don't care about that, I have a friend who is like this, you have to learn to tolerate him, just talk.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Your boyfriend looks funny to others, but it's not fair to you! Someone who deliberately embarrassed you.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Now he still says that he likes you, loves you, and runs away if he hooks more.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    It's a good thing that people are jealous of you, don't pay attention to them. Just do your part.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Come to you, and show off.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    actually said that you are not as good as her in front of others, doesn't this give him hope, let that woman be a spare tire, you are so stupid, you should scold her.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    You lack communication, how to play psychological warfare.

  44. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Your boyfriend loves you very much when he says that.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    He is sick, he is not satisfied with your height and figure, and to show you is to tell you that you are not worthy of him.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Your boyfriend is a little brainless, right? . . The last polite sentence will be said and shown to you... I don't understand.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    I guess I want you to pay more attention to him.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    It's normal to be unhappy, and your boyfriend might tease you with this.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    It's boring, which means I'm in demand, you have to pay attention to me.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Your boyfriend means that no matter how beautiful and good your body is, I don't like you because he has his girlfriend in his heart.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Lies are ubiquitous in relationships, and you won't find anyone who has never lied to you. It's hard to be confused to learn to be a man, and sometimes, you pretend to be confused and things will pass. Don't try to expose other people's lies, especially men, as long as you know what to do.

    For example, if you look through your boyfriend's phone, you will see it. I had to confront him face to face, which made everyone unhappy. It's better to pretend not to know, you can't be too tough, hard things always lack toughness, for example, the steel of the knife edge is too hard, but it is easy to collapse out of the gap.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Everyone will be very disgusted by others snooping on or peeping into their privacy, especially for men who are very face-conscious. Therefore, your behavior of looking at his phone without permission is wrong, and you should apologize to him for this first.

    Then, tell him about his misconduct, although you found out through improper means, but after all, this matter exists objectively, and he has the obligation to explain it to you. You also have the right to consider and decide whether or not to forgive him.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    You look through his phone and find something he shouldn't have found, and of course he's disgusted by it! Kick it!

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    There is a private space for everyone. Are you shameless? Everyone will be disgusted.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Sometimes it's better not to be serious

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    I guess you're not going to be able to get any better.

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    You can't take everything too seriously, you have to learn to be smart.

  58. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    Don't hesitate if you betray you, long pain is better than short pain.

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