Your boyfriend wants you to give you a makeover, why?

No, not too much!!

A guy likes you and you should like you now, is it that when you talk about it, he wants you to change this and that, is it like, since you like it so much, why don't you find the kind he asks for you at that time, or he is looking for the shadow of his ex-girlfriend in you? You are you, he doesn't like you to wear short skirts, shorts are this because he cares about you, but it would be too much to ask you to change your hairstyle and look like his ex-girlfriend.

Just ignore you because of this, how much do you think he likes you, girls should be coaxed, and besides, it's not your fault.

But if you really like him, then you have to put up with it.

For such a man, it actually depends on what you think, are you happy with him?If he really likes you, he doesn't care what you wear, "provided it's not too revealing" and what hairstyle you have. He showed you the ** of his former girlfriend and wanted you to dress up like that, the intention is obvious, he still can't forget his former girlfriend, you are just a replacement for her previous girlfriend.

This is purely a personal opinion, the real decision is still in your hands, since you want to love, you will be brave to love, regardless of the consequences, boldly try, even if the result is a failure, but also try. If you don't love it, then it's better to break up as soon as possible, because it's not good for anyone to go on like this. Personally, I think it's right for you to change your number, and if he really loves you, he'll come to you wherever you are.

The above is purely my own opinion, you have to think it out for yourself, I don't want to break up with you because of what I said, hehe.

It's normal for him to make demands on you because he likes you the way you are (whether he likes that type or has a crush on his former girlfriend). ）

It's also normal that you're willing or unwilling to change. Change is to love him and be willing to change for him. It's not wrong that you insist on yourself!

If you don't want to change, and he can't accept that you don't change, separate, it means that you are not suitable.

Of course, you have to communicate first to see if you can find a compromise, after all, it's not easy for two people to be together......

The previous one is understandable, although he always wants you to dress up the way he does, but the behavior in the back, sending his ex-girlfriend's **, making you get the same hairstyle as her, you should ask him face to face, what does he think, you are you, you are his current girlfriend, you are the person he loves now, and he also mentions his ex-girlfriend, doesn't it hurt your heart?

You stopped contacting him, but he never looked for you again? It's all his fault, why say it's your own fault.

It's clear that he's still thinking about his former girlfriend and trying to find his old feelings.

He's just thinking about his ex-girlfriend, you just let him, and in a few days, he'll be fine.

You're going to really like him. Just ignore him for now. Calm down, everybody. Think about how you feel about each other.

Don't look for him first, he will not cherish you even more.

If he doesn't look for you, you can't even ask for him, it's not worth it.

So you just have to wait now, it's going to be tough, you have to hold back.

Or just like that hairstyle.

Or just can't forget his predecessor.

Your boyfriend is really crazy this time, I guess he can't bear it anymore. Girlfriends are lazy, don't look for serious jobs, and have a bad temper and always do it, which man can stand it. His own economic income is not high, if you get married in the future, you can imagine how much financial pressure he will have, he is bound to be afraid of the future, think about it is better to have a long pain than a short pain.

Since he chose to break up, he felt that there was no need to think about many things, so he chose to solve them completely.

The above is a psychological analysis of your boyfriend, as for you, I want to advise you, if you really love your boyfriend and want to have a better future with him, then you have to completely change your face, at least find a job first, no matter how much the salary is, at least you can support yourself. The most terrible thing is that your concept itself is wrong, what is it natural for a woman to rely on a man to raise, how can you still have that outdated feudal concept as a woman born in the new era, the meaning of a person living in the world is to be independent and not dependent on anyone. If you can afford to find a large amount of money to support you without you working, that is your ability, and no one else can control it, but obviously your boyfriend's income and family situation do not allow you to be a part of it.

And you said that you have a bad temper, of course, everyone has a personality, but it doesn't mean that you indulge your willfulness, so whether you fall in love or run a marriage, you have to pay, you have to consider the problem from the other party's point of view, care more and be more tolerant.

Whether you want to get back or break up completely is not about not returning the things, but whether you are really willing to change. Even if the initiative is not in your hands now, it doesn't matter, you have improved and excelled, and you are not afraid that there will be no man who loves you.

Go for it and be an independent and attractive woman!

I look down on the gnawing old people the most, it is natural for men to raise women, but you also have to see what kind of man you find, if he really can't make you a full-time wife, do you have to wait at home for him to give you the money? I can say for sure that your parents' money is not your money, it is your parents' hard work, what have you done for the family? Is it just a matter of shouting to your parents?

If you marry him, will you still ask your family for money, don't you think it's ashamed to ask for money from your family when you are such an adult? It's not that you don't have your own ability, you have hands and feet to support yourself, if you love him and you have to make changes, a slap can't make a sound, he doesn't have the ability to give you enough, then you have to work together, hard work is happiness, my family is in business, but I found a good girlfriend after graduation, the two of us worked together, and now everything is gone, we also cherish everything that we work hard for, and the relationship is also very good, and finally please remember the sentence "home is to give, not to take", It's the same with love, if he wants to give you something back, the decision is up to you, good luck!

May I ask you: which law says that "it is natural for a woman to be supported by her husband" No man will be with a woman like you.

Return all the things that were given to him and leave some dignity as a human being.

Women should learn to be financially independent, and only when they are financially independent can they take a bold step. Young, we should sell our pace more gorgeously.

Also, at least leave him a dignified and chic back, so that he is even more stingy and ashamed.

As a boy, I don't judge, I hope you're better.

If it were me, I would break up with you, that's it, as for not returning the things, whatever you want, what you give you belongs to you, and you have the right to control!

You yourself have something wrong, don't worry about it, you will remember the beauty of this paragraph in the future!

You don't have to. It's not pleasing to the eye. I lost it. I didn't keep it. Avoid being an eyesore. Annoying you. That's not good.

You say that my youth, if you give it back to me, I will give it back to you, and he will be speechless.

You should work too, you are afraid.

Basically, I can see that you love him very much, and you are very dependent, very trusting, so trusting that you can remove all your pretense and expose everything about you. But you get one thing wrong, the boy is not as smart as you think, will understand how much you love him, they actually have a low IQ in terms of emotion, and your kindness to him is not as good as being silent behind his back, sometimes it is not as good as just talking and not practicing... I don't know how many years you've been together, but it can be seen that your boyfriend has a good grasp of your personality, he basically knows you very well, and as for the breakup, I think it's more that he is tired of you.

Not because of your willfulness, but because he knows you too well ... It's thinking, it's you, facing a person who looks like he's about to vomit, even if he does more now, you still want to vomit... You now have three ways, as I told you, indulge your behavior, what do you think you can do to keep him, suicide, self-harm, kneeling, crying, making trouble, looking for his friends, relatives and family, or from now on clean up your character, be a virtuous woman, serve him from the beginning, and be at his mercy.

Maybe he is happy to serve, and he doesn't break up. The second way is to change your face, from the hairstyle, from the dress, from the taste, start to do, girls can not have no sense of mystery, can not have no privacy, can not have no moderation, if you are scheming enough, enough endurance, then what to do happily every day, bury this pain in your heart, don't write everything on your face, don't ask him why, don't remind him once, don't be coquettish, don't be willful, respect him like a guest, don't spend a lot of your time on him, keep a distance, space, have time to go out to find friends (don't let him follow, don't tell him too carefully what kind of friend he is, if he asks, tell him that he may know some friends he may know and some friends he doesn't know, it is inconvenient for him to go), but remember that no matter if you are crying with your friends, drinking, going crazy, hanging or not, don't show clues in front of him... It's okay to hold the book in a daze when you're together.,Don't deliberately talk to him.,What you need now is to be unusual.,To show him in front of him is an elegant.,Reasonable person.。。。

You have to make him curious about you, that you have something to hide from him... You can also find something that you were interested in before, but you don't have time to do hobbies with him, hobbies or something, such as painting, playing tennis, reading famous books, in short, he didn't know about your good love... Let him have a sense of mystery, make him curious about you, and even have doubts and questions about you, as long as he holds back and asks you first, for example, he suddenly asks you "Why have you started to like ** recently."", or so he said it dismissively.

Men say break up, two scenarios.

One, I really can't stand women. But he doesn't have a next goal yet, he just wants to end this relationship as soon as possible. This breakup is generally irreversible.

Second, a man has a goal, in this case, even if a woman is a fairy, he will break up, because the ghost is written for men.

Stabilize the boy first, try to know why he broke up, if you change for him, he still insists on breaking up, then the second possibility is the greatest.

In short, break up if you break up, you are not bad, don't delay yourself. Also, if you really want to break up, you have to beg him to break up if he wants to die or live. This is how to relieve hatred. Ha ha.

I wish you happiness.

Don't think badly, maybe he's really troubled! Try to make the best of this time!

If he really wants to break up, he can't help it! That's because he doesn't know how to cherish you...

What you can do now is try to be kind to yourself and give him a little time. You can talk to him about it, find out the reason, see if it is your own problem or his problem or other reasons, only then can you solve the problem!

Ask her what was the reason for the breakup? The person who really loves you will not say to break up, if he insists on breaking up, it is really irretrievable, then forget it, I know you don't want to, I know you love him, but he broke up with you, which means that he doesn't love you. It doesn't work either.

You're talking to him, calm down. Also, now that you are playing friends, you have to think about the future, can the two of you be together for the rest of your life? This is the best choice for love.

First, look at the reasons. Try to keep it, if the other party doesn't love you anymore, just let it go You won't be happy together, and.

For women, it will be very happy to find someone who likes them a little more, and the mentality is good to strengthen yourself and I wish you to be strong.

How to get back after the boyfriend mentions the breakup.

Cold salad Both sides calm down, the tighter you chase the man, the faster you run.

No one will cherish what is at his fingertips, cut off all contact with him, and stop seeing it for two days.

Some people you can't keep, forget it, and if a man wants to break up, he is basically decisive.

If he doesn't love you, then it's okay to split up, and if you don't love it, the love that is barely together will not be happy.

Have a good talk with him! Calm down and think about what happened!

It's okay to break up, since he mentioned it, he definitely doesn't want to talk about it, and dragging it out is not good for you.

Let him! Better in front of his eyes.

Find out why you broke up first, and then analyze.

If one party is tired, then divide it.

Hello, you can buy him new clothes and wish him a new beginning.

You can buy it, I hope he will change his face and be a new person!

Yes, change your mind and be a new person.

Don't be prickly in your words and learn to listen to each other.

Hey, I'm a boy, I used to be like this, boys may be like this, once you decide to break up, I'm afraid it's hard to recover, but as long as you have patience, there is still a great chance, don't try to save twice and give up, or wait a few weeks and months, two people calm down, and then redeem, the chance will be much greater.