I can t have children from birth, and his family doesn t agree, what should I do? 10

Hehe. If it were me, I wouldn't have been able to accept my boyfriend having an affair with another woman. You have to trust a woman's intuition, you also said that you feel that the feelings are not as strong as before, in fact, from your words, you can see that you have subconsciously felt that he is starting to leave you, maybe it is just that you have been together for a long time and are used to it.

A long-distance relationship is the most testing couple.、Just separated from the two places to play ambiguous with other people (in fact, I think men、Or a man with a girlfriend、Playing ambiguous with others is the most unforgivable.、Even if he's not serious.,But it also proves that he's not a credible man anymore)。。 Hehe. Let's put aside the fact that you can't have children, even if you get married to him, just a long-distance relationship and let him start playing ambiguous, can you still stand the test of time after marriage?

When it is broken, it is broken. Yes、It's hard to be separated after being together for a long time、I know、I understand。 But what about after a year of separation?

And two years from now? Maybe you've taken the hand of a man who really treats you and invites him to your wedding. Think about it.

He doesn't deserve it.

Emotional things can't be forced, although you have been in true love, but after all, the reality is cruel, let go when it's time to let go. I believe that you will find your own happiness, and I sincerely wish you a new mindset to embrace tomorrow!

Sometimes people are involuntary, going with the flow may be the best choice, just strive for it, maybe better is waiting for you ahead, I hope you can go on together, and I hope you can be happy.

It depends on whether you have any feelings for him. It's better to think clearly, it's up to you, and no one else can help you make decisions. Final blessings to you.

I sympathize with you and want to open a little. If you can't do it, don't hang yourself from a tree!

There are quite few girls like you, I don't recommend that you continue, think about it a little, why love a flower, why bother.

Do you think his heart is still with you? I think it's a matter of time before you break up, and the long pain is better than the short one. It's going to torture you crazy.

If two people love each other, it doesn't matter whether they can have children or not.

It's difficult, children are the bond between husband and wife, and it's rare to get without children.

Now there are people doing artificial insemination, and we have people doing it, and it only takes more than 20,000.

There is less bad luck.

Strong. A long-distance relationship is basically hopeless.

Legal basis: "Law of the People's Republic of China on the Protection of Women's Rights and Interests" Article 51: Women have the right to have children in accordance with relevant state provisions, and also have the freedom not to have children. Husbands and wives of childbearing age shall follow the relevant provisions of the State in family planning, and the relevant departments shall provide safe and effective contraceptives and technology to ensure the health and safety of women undergoing birth control operations.

The State implements a system of premarital health care and maternal health care, and develops maternal and infant health care. People at all levels shall take measures to ensure that women enjoy family planning technical services and improve women's reproductive health.

I think first of all, you two should make the following points clear in your own hearts:

1.Procreation is a right, not an obligation.

It is entirely up to us whether or not to exercise this right.

2.Procreation is our own right, and it has nothing to do with our parents.

Parents have and have exercised their own reproductive rights, and so our parents have given birth to us.

3.The decision not to have children has been carefully considered and agreed upon by both parties.

So my choice not to have children is exactly the same as his choice not to have children.

In the hearts of both parties, there is no such thing as not having children who listens to whom.

The following personal experience is based on the consensus of both parties on the above three points.

1.When we were asked by our parents about our family plans after marriage, they directly said that they had discussed whether to have children.

Whether my parents understood or not, what attitude or opinion I had no effect on either of us.

At most, when their expectations were too high, Sakuraeda took the initiative to reduce their interactions, so as not to let this trivial matter that had nothing to do with them block the two sides.

2.Whoever is the parent will be the one who will speak.

Face my parents, it's up to me to say:

I decided not to have children, and he did as I pleased.

In the face of his parents, it is up to him to say:

He decided not to have children, and I did what he wanted.

This is a necessary strategy when facing parents.

Never take the anger of your parents out on your spouse over childbearing.

Never let a parent have.

My girl (son) must have wanted to have children, but she was spoiled by the other party! Thoughts.

3.If you feel that you can't withstand the pressure of your parents, then just give birth!!

As a dink, here's what you can do when facing your parents:

1.Communicate openly. First of all, you should be frank with your parents about your Dink thoughts and reasons, so that parents can understand that this is a reasonable choice after thinking independently. Avoid being emotional when communicating, and express your thoughts calmly and confidently.

2.Explain why. Clearly inform parents of the reasons and considerations for Dink, such as independent outlook on life, career psychology has not yet reached the level of having children, and environmental considerations. This can show parents that this is a rational decision that you have seriously thought about.

3.Indicates understanding. Tell your parents that you understand your position and concerns as a parent, but that as an adult child, you have the right to choose your own path in life and will take responsibility for your choices.

This can reassure parents that you have such judgment skills.

4.There is no emphasis on "permanent". It's okay not to tell your parents directly that this is a "permanent" decision, after all, life is fickle and circumstances will always change.

You are only making such plans and choices at this stage, and all kinds of changes in your life in the future are still inevitable. This is good for alleviating the emotional shock of parents.

5.Show filial piety. Keep expressing your gratitude and filial piety to your parents, so that they feel that you have not alienated your family because of your choices. Keeping in close contact with your parents on a regular basis and taking the initiative to share your life and mood can make up for the regret of not being able to give your grandchildren a good year.

6.Give time to adapt. As a parent, it takes time to accept and adapt to this new idea, and as a child, you also need to give your parents this process of adaptation. Over time, when your parents see that you are doing well, they will gradually understand and accept your choice.

As a dink, it's key to communicate openly with your parents. Give parents time to understand and adapt to their choices, and stabilize their emotions by expressing gratitude and responsibility. I believe that as long as you stick to a sincere attitude, your parents will eventually support your way of pursuing happiness.