Why does it become more painful to confess to a boy?

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Most of the time boys are embarrassed to refuse so they simply don't answer, but there are other possibilities, I think you should ask again, if people really don't like you, you don't think about him, there are so many good boys in the world, you won't be single for life because you miss one; But learning is your own, the future is your own, and if you miss the time, it will be really slim.

It has always been a woman chasing a man, and those who are across the mountain, especially those who don't like you, will be even more painful.

Actually, let it go, it's nothing. If you like it, you like the north. Otherwise, it is also painful to hold back, but you should not have thought that it would be more sad to say it and not get a response.

A lot of times, a lot of love, we feel deep, deep, it makes us very painful and painful; However, after a period of time, we will feel that this love is very shallow, very shallow, and just leave ourselves a smile.

Don't look for him anymore, because if you look for him again, you won't have results, if he really likes you, he will take the initiative to find you, and besides, you are so young now, you are still studying, don't let yourself get hurt Study hard!

Don't think about it, just say it, you can't change it now, how you should live or how you live.

Don't think too much, do everything with peace of mind, it's yours, you can't run, it's not yours, you can't stay.

Oh, that's just because you want to know the answer and are eager, so just let the guy tell you quickly, and you won't be irritated anymore.

It doesn't matter if you refuse, at least seriously.

No regrets.

Then you can confess to me, I will not refuse you.

I'm sorry, or I don't like you at all.

No! What is the pain after confessing to a girl?

Because you're afraid he'll reject you? Have faith in yourself.

Don't think about it, just read the book and think about what to do so much.

This is because this boy has liked you for a long, long time, and you have been waiting for too long, but when this boy suddenly confesses to you, you are no longer the kind of sudden surprise, and your whole reaction is a little sluggish, so this boy who has liked you for a long time, when he suddenly confesses to you, it brings you not the kind of excess, joy and a lot of happiness, but begins to have some sadness, maybe this sadness is not the sadness we usually define as sad, Maybe it's more complicated, a little happy sadness!

I think it's still a happier thing, because the guy who likes you finally confesses, and you like her too, don't you? What a happy thing it is for two people to admire each other. Cherish this boy!

Emotions will recover slowly, don't be too anxious, in fact, sometimes when others confess, you are sad emotions, this experience is different from others, maybe you will never forget.

Maybe you just like it, just like pursuing something you like, get it, but find that you just like it, just pursue something you don't know about, maybe this thing is good, you instinctively want it, but in the end, two people want to really get along, they have to give love, but they find that they don't love him but like him.

Then I don't understand, since you have liked him for a long time, and he suddenly confessed to you, then you don't just accept it, maybe because you feel that it has been too long, and you have lost the original feelings, maybe you think that he has thousands of choices, and he did not choose the good ones to accept you, if you think so, of course you will be sad.

It may be that you have been secretly in love with each other for a long time, and you have long lost that feeling, because you know that this kind of unrequited love is fruitless, so that feeling is no longer there, and the other party is now confessing to you, but you have already done it to him? So I feel sad. It can only show that the fate of the two of you is shallow.

Is it excited and sad, or can't believe it? If you don't expect it, you will be sad, feel that it came a little suddenly, and you don't have time to plan the scene.

1. Maybe I am not confident enough in this relationship, so I choose to secretly like it, when I am confessed, I feel overwhelmed, and I am afraid that I will lose it after I get it, and I am sad about it.

2. It may also be that you have been looking forward to this relationship for too long, and when you are confessed, you are excited and sad.

This is the reason why a boy who has liked you for a long time suddenly confesses to you, but you are sad.

The wrong time, the wrong place, falling in love with the right person.

He confessed when you already had a boyfriend.

Because the love he expresses is not the love you imagine.

You have a boyfriend, and he confesses.

Confession is usually what a boy does to a girl, but as girls become more masculine, more and more girls begin to confess to boys.

So what would the boy think if he was told the truth?

01.Is it true that she likes me?

Many boys' first reaction to confession is is is that is true? Many boys rarely have the opportunity to be confessed, unless you are at the school level, the handsome scumbag kind.

So, is the boy's first reaction real? This is probably the real reaction of the boy who was confessed.

02.Do I like her?

When you accept the fact that you have indeed been confessed, you have to think about what to do, so do I like this girl?

If you like it, then it may be to be together, fall in love, and then develop a story with a long plot, if you don't like it, you should consider the third step.

03.How to refuse

The defendant has only two choices, he likes to be together and he doesn't like to refuse, so how to refuse is a difficult point, after all, it is a girl who wants to refuse, or a girl who likes you.

When you decide to refuse, you have to be neat, don't drag the mud and water, give the girl a thought and finally disappoint the girl, which is a very cruel thing.

Then you must pay attention to the way, if you refuse directly, it will make the girl very faceless and her self-esteem frustrated, at this time, it is particularly important to be able to speak.

Looking for the right opportunity, using the right method, and making it clear to the confessing girl is the best solution.

Of course, if the boy is confessed, then the girl will naturally muster up 120,000 points of courage, so it is cruel to refuse no matter what.

Boys should be gentlemanly, personable, considerate and connotative at all times and places.

It must be happy, of course someone will be very happy if someone likes themselves, just like after a girl is confessed, she will think that she can also be liked by others, which must be a good thing. But the person who confesses it, if he likes it, will definitely be very happy, because the person he likes confesses to him, he must be very happy!

But if the person you confess to yourself is not someone you like, then you will feel that there is nothing to be happy about, and then you will feel, so what should I do? The relationship will be so embarrassing in the future, how to refuse her, think about something else, in fact, if you are a boy, the idea is quite simple, because the boy theirs, the brain nerve may be relatively straight, that is, the girl who confessed to herself, if she doesn't hate it, she should want to agree, and then get along for a while!

If it's really not the type you like, then you will directly say that you don't like her, just say I'm sorry, and then the relationship may be a little awkward. If you are a particularly good friend of hers, or a friend who he thinks is like a buddy to confess to him, you will definitely think that this person should have lost in the game of truth or dare, or is it April Fool's Day when the sun hits the west today? Would think so!

People who are too familiar with themselves will have a feeling of joking, but if it is the kind of relationship with themselves that is more like a boyfriend and girlfriend, if a boy is confessed by this kind of girl, he will think about himself, whether to accept her or reject her, or say nothing and not respond, continue to be ambiguous, this is also quite difficult to say.

If this boy is at the school grass level, he is often confessed by girls, and he will feel that it doesn't matter, anyway, that kind of girl doesn't like it herself. If this boy is not the kind of boy that many people like, and then no one confesses to him, the boy should be more shy, and then more happy!

Looking back on the past 20 years, I have still been confessed. Thinking about that experience, it is still full of memories. Although I was still young at that time, it was also a beautiful experience, at least it showed that I was still a good person.

Although I don't have much contact with that girl now, I know that she is doing well, and I bless her.

I was in junior high school at the time, and I was sitting at the same table with her, and she told me that everyone in the class bullied her, but I was the only one who was bullied by her. So she has a unique crush on me. She's a bit weird-tempered, but she's still a nice person.

I'm not the kind of person who is bullied casually, just because she's a girl, so I let her go. Later, she confessed to me, and I was still very happy in my heart at the time, because there was someone who affirmed to you, and that is not something you can pretend. But at that time, I really didn't have the idea of falling in love, so I refused.

It's quite euphemistic anyway. Later, I went to high school, and I happened to go to the same high school, but it wasn't in the same class, and one day when I came home from school, she asked me to go with me, and I also refused to confess in disguise. It's not that I hate her, it's that I don't really have those thoughts.

Although it feels hurtful, the long pain is not as pleasant as the short pain.

There is joy in being confessed by others, but there is also pressure. Don't promise someone easily, because you can't afford to live up to someone who loves you so much.

Maybe many people will feel proud, and then feel that they are finally appreciated by others, and many people will choose to show off, because boys are comparative, love to show off, and then love to show off! I remember my boyfriend used to be like this, running to show off our chat history with all his friends, and it felt like he had the whole world.