Why do we need to learn to endure in the world?

Marriage is a complex course, and it cannot be managed by simply "forbearance" and "change".

Even if you forbear, you must be willing, and your heart will rise and endure with joy; Even if it changes, it is natural and the heart approves of the change.

How to endure, how to change, how to do your own behavior, are all sincere and need to be learned.

Blindly tolerating and unprincipledly pleasing you will not get you the married life you want.

In married life, two people are supposed to treat each other as equals, but in real life, many couples are always fighting for control. This is what we often say, the person in the family who "has the final say" is in charge.

This "finalist" party hopes that the other party will absolutely obey him, and there can be no opposing voices, even if there are different opinions, they are reserved, so that this side has been in a state of tolerance, otherwise life cannot continue.

This kind of way of wanting to show one's superiority by controlling the other party is actually not really treating the other party as a member of the family, let alone treating the other party as the person you love. Because people who really love each other will not want to live with each other in this way, let alone let each other blindly tolerate it.

chose to blindly tolerate one party, and did not exchange the other party's peace of mind because of his own compromise, but often in exchange for intensification. Because they have become accustomed to your forbearance, they still regard your forbearance as respect and authority.

How can someone with such a strong sense of control change their face because of your forbearance? That's your optimistic imagination.

Some people may think that it is normal for two people to have contradictions and conflicts together, and they can't get divorced because of some quarrels, right? It doesn't hurt to bear with the other party.

I agree with this point of view, but when you encounter a problem, you have to tolerate it, and you have to endure it all the time, then it is not right. Unless you are willing to endure it all the time, then it is your own choice, and others have no right to interfere.

However, if you don't accept the state of being tolerant all the time, then you need to change yourself. Because only if you change yourself can you change this unequal state of life.

The beginning of change can start with no longer tolerating.

It may make you scared and even be violently acted upon, but you have to remember that if you still blindly put up with it, the consequences will be worse than this. So change now.

If the other party fights because you no longer tolerate it, call the police immediately to protect yourself.

Only when you are truly strong can the status quo change.

Remember, blindly forbearance will not get you the married life you want.

Because if you don't persevere, if you don't bear it, things will become uncontrollable and lead to a more serious wrong situation. Perseverance and patience, although it is very uncomfortable, may be more beneficial for you later in life after a while.

Be patient.

Good timing doesn't happen every day, and when the opportunity comes is random and uncontrollable. Writer Yang Daxia Yang Ke expressed that opportunities will only appear in patience.

Learning to endure is the inexhaustible benefit of your life, small forbearance is chaos This is the ancient precept, and it is also applicable now, many people just can't swallow a breath, can't listen to a word, bring unnecessary trouble to themselves, affect their own lives, and also bring pain to those who care about themselves, we must learn to be patient, so that we will let ourselves in life, at ease.

Those who seem to have big hearts are just able to endure it. When interacting with people, we must keep our attitude, I must treat each other sincerely and live up to it, and I will not say more about it if I smile if it is not worth it. Writer Yang Daxia Yang Ke described that you will have strength only if you endure.

In life, we really should learn to be patientPatience is an excellent qualityPeople who want to do great things must learn to be patient, and patience is needed everywhere in life. <>

Patience is the process of keeping painful feelings or inner feelings from being expressed. Going through hardship or hardship. Patience is a kind of persistence, and patience is a kind of cultivation.

As the saying goes, "take a step back and open the sky", maybe if you bear with it, the misunderstanding will be eliminated. At the same time, patience can also exercise your will and build up our wisdom. Patience teaches you to be tolerant.

There are often many setbacks and difficulties in a person's life, and no matter what kind of person is difficult, our best choice is to endure it for the time being. Forbearance is a traditional virtue. Learning to endure is a must in life.

Many times, the difference between a successful and a loser is not talent and opportunity. There is no shortage of hard work and wisdom on the part of the losers. They may have simply been defeated by that little bit of perseverance and patience.

Sometimes, you may encounter some difficulties or be unsatisfactory. Some people may not be able to bear it, so they will not be able to succeed. And some people have great ambitions and know that they need to be patient, and perhaps as long as they endure for a while, success will come.

When there is a conflict or conflict with others, as long as you can endure it for a while, you will find that it is not a big deal, and everything will pass. Patience is a lifelong practice. The process is painful, and the result is wonderful; Whether it is adversity or good times, you must endure, the stomach can tolerate things, goodwill will be resolved, and the rain will pass the sun.

Patience is a kind of survival wisdom that takes retreat as advance. But patience is not weakness, nor is it evasion, but a kind of self-transcendence. So-calledSuffering losses can cultivate morality, and patience can cultivate the heart

Patience is not only applicable to life, but also to interpersonal interactions. Of course, patience is not unconditional surrender and confession, but forgiving and forgiving, which is a kind of atmosphere with a bottom line and principles. Don't worry about the gains and losses in your dealings with people, don't argue with unworthy people, give in one step on some innocuous issues, endure for a while, don't be too emotional, and be an atmospheric person.

In addition to the principled bottom line issue, which must be fought on the basis of reason, some other small issues, why should he be taken to heart, don't take it seriously, and just endure it. <

Patience is a beauty, a beauty that each of us needs to adorn our hearts. Patience is a kind of wisdomWisdom, humility is a pattern, learn to endure, in order to grow, learn to be humble, life can be mature. In contemporary society, each of us needs to learn to be patient, everyone can take a step back, and the society will be more harmonious.

Yes, if we learn to be patient when things happen, then things will go the other way, and if we don't control ourselves well, it will make things bad.

We need to learn. It is through patience that we are able to motivate ourselves. Let's be better in the future. Patience can also make us valued by our leaders.

Yes, in life, in society, there are many things that we can't do, and if we don't endure it, there is no way.