What changes have you made since joining the workforce?

It wasn't until I actually started my first job, my first real step into society, that I realized that my campus life was over, my student life was over. The first time I worked, in fact, my heart was full of excitement and timidity, like, I suddenly remembered that when I was idle in the dormitory when I was studying, I yelled with my seniors all day long to go out to work early, at that time, I felt that it was a waste of time and a waste of time in school, it was better to go out to see the world, meet a lot of people, and learn a lot of social experience. But when I was actually working, I really wanted to go back to campus, hoping to go back to my student days, and regretted that I didn't make good use of my good time when I was a student.

After participating in the work, I know that colleagues and friends are actually two different concepts, and many times, friends can be trusted but colleagues cannot. A friend is a friend, a colleague is a colleague, the things in life belong to life, and the things in work are work, these things cannot be confused. Later, I understood that when you go to work, you must say and do more, many things, may be you inadvertently said, but it will change the flavor when it comes and goes, it will be a different scene, and there is no one to help you at work, you can only complete it independently, your work is stagnant, if it leads to the progress of other people's work, then the problem appears to you, then it is all your fault, so many things, you can not directly have a relationship with your colleagues, But some things at work may be related to him, so it is your responsibility, so no matter what, you must do your own thing first, so that others have nothing to say.

I think it's a good change to become not afraid of making a fool of yourself. When I first graduated, I was always embarrassed to ask questions whether I was in the office or on the construction site, because my inner thought was: I want to show that I understand, but I can't let others think that I don't know anything.

Even if you don't understand, you have to pretend to understand it very well, otherwise you will feel ugly. Now that I've seen it, it's normal to not understand, especially when I go to the construction site in Changheng, who sits in the office and calculates drawings, it's normal to not understand. Ask what you should ask, even the most mentally retarded questions, no one will laugh, no one will report to the superiors:

Hey, that guy in your cost department doesn't know anything! "I used to think too much, in fact, the people on the construction site are almost the best group to communicate, as long as you ask, whether it is an old construction worker, or a young formwork worker, they all know everything to tell you, and you don't understand the words for a while, he will tell you in detail, and even take the trouble to run down the foundation pit full of silt, climb up the dangerous platform to point and tell you what is going on. I've never seen a look of contempt and contempt on their faces, they're a huge knowledge base, and of course, you're being polite...A comrade who smokes a cigarette or something is better than reading half a book.

Face and accept your own shortcomings, instead of trying to change yourself and pretend to be someone else in pursuit of a goal. There is a lot less pomp than before, and life is getting more and more real. Understand the difference between being a good brother and being ambitious.

I have a deeper understanding of people than before, and I no longer care too much about them, or ignore them completely. Got it"Career isn't everything"In this way, a happy life is the result of a balance of many aspects. Stop being superstitious about authority and try to think for yourself.

Realize that all conflicts are conflicts of interest or misunderstandings. Therefore, learn to seek common ground while reserving differences and be tolerant to others.

Let's take a look at the uncontroversial changes that are obvious to all! As far as I'm concerned, I've been working for a few years, so maybe my personality has changed. I still remember very clearly that in junior high school, high school, and college, I had a quarrel with my friends who had a better relationship, and at that time my sexual training style at school was relatively popular, and if there was anything unsatisfactory, it must have to break out, and I wouldn't say that I had to scare about anything.

I was a bit more self-centered at the time, and thankfully, my emotional outbursts and lack of scruples didn't cost me my friends and the people I cared about. They are still considerate of me, still tolerant of me, and still by my side until now, and I need to solemnly thank them for their company.

When I was in college, my life couldn't be said to be extravagant or particularly good, but it was still very nourishing, and it was a very normal life to go shopping and go out for a big meal. After working for a few years, I found that my life was getting worse and worse, and I had made money, but it was not as good as the life of the school, and I used to have my parents' money and I didn't worry about what to do if the money ran out, and now I don't have any money left in my life except for monthly rent, water, electricity, transportation, and food.

I have become more thoughtful, and I used to only think about things, but now I think not only about things but also about who I am facing.

Many students are doing internships or just starting out in work, and they feel that the difference between their work and their expectations is not uncommon.

I came to work with enthusiasm, but the leader arranged all the repetitive work, I felt that I was going to be wasted, and I felt that my talent was not reused, and I was very sad.

Let's talk about my impressions after a few years of work.

1. Education is very important, at least when you just graduate, people with high education are easier to find jobs than people with low education.

2. Money and ability are saved, and some people work for one year and some people work for three years for the same job, and there are some differences between the two.

3. Learn to cooperate, there is no one person in the workplace who can complete a big project, the more challenging things you think, the more you must know how to work with colleagues.

4. Don't be unprincipled to please others, especially in the workplace, some people just don't understand, it's not that he's good to help him, but just hello.

5. The more skills, the easier it will be to work, such as a person who can do a good job of PS, at least he is not bad in aesthetics, can add points to the report, and has smooth and clear eloquence.

6. Never believe in the big cake drawn by the boss, even if you have that appetite, you may not be able to wait for the day you eat it, even if you wait until the day you eat it, the cake is already left with dregs.

7. Learning lessons from the mistakes made by colleagues is the fastest growth, besides, making the same mistake, the boss is going to be mad, the boss is not allowed to make the same mistake or not, different people are not allowed to make the same mistake.

8. Don't think that you can get the boss's knowledge by working hard, these are what you should do in the eyes of the boss, so you must let the boss know while doing results for the company, otherwise, no one will remember that you have paid in a few days.

9. The degree of trouble in getting every penny in the world is the same, everyone wants to make money quickly, but where does the money come from, and the leeks come from the **Qingdong ridge, so there is no profit to create value. Logic is the same as robbery.

10. The messy workbench is not as difficult to clean up as you think, and when you move, you will find that the most difficult thing is the moment when you are determined to clean up.