Have you ever felt like you re going to die alone?

I've always been lonely, but I never felt like I'd be lonely, I was just a little bit unlucky, and otherwise fine.

I feel that way sometimes. For example, now, after talking seriously a few times, the more I feel that the relationship is unreliable. Once asked myself a question after a breakup:

If I have been in a car accident, will she come to visit me? The more I thought about it, the more scared I became, because she probably wouldn't even know about it, let alone visiting. Don't you think that's scary?

Once countless days and nights together, the future that was once intertwined in expectations, and the other half that was once recognized by each other, is no match for an instant separation. Feelings are fragile and want the dust in the air, the light and shadow under the sun are everywhere, but they are scattered like that with a light blow.

When someone around me goes to class with me, but I feel that he is a waste of time, and it is better to be alone, I think I am probably suitable for loneliness.

Loneliness is an illusion! Loneliness stems from attachment to "me", referred to as "self-grasping". Selfless, selfless, and selfless people will not feel lonely and old, on the contrary, selfless, selfless, and selfless people will think that everything in the universe is one, and there is no such thing as loneliness at all.

To put it mildly, the best ones are waiting for you not far away. Also, loneliness is the norm of life, marriage does not mean that you will say goodbye to loneliness, people are often lonely, because the heart is not rich enough. Love, marriage, etc. are just a part of life, you need to take the time to have a hobby that can accompany you for life, so that your life will not be as barren as a dry desert.

I have always felt that I will be lonely and grow old, but sometimes I think that it is nothing, life is dull and walk slowly, as long as you have your own feelings, work hard to make money when you are young, and have capital when you are old, you will raise flowers and fish, and a few friends who don't mind your own are enough, if you have no money or your health is not good that day, you can leave this world quickly.

Yes, after a person has been living for 32 years, he can't move furniture, household appliances, large bags and small bags, can't open blocked sewer pipes, can't install new programs, no one sends umbrellas on rainy days, no one worries about returning at night, no one picks up and drops off on business trips, and countless moments that are difficult to support will be spent like this in this life.

It's probably the week. I never felt like I would be left alone to this point. I have been insecure and afraid of being alone since I was a child, and from last weekend to today, I have experienced what it means to be in love and friendship in one breath.

I had just experienced being planted in the Hulunbuir prairie, and the only friends around me didn't know why they suddenly became extremely disgusted with me overnight. You know how sad I am when I listen to the nasty girl triumphantly shouting her name and her enthusiastic response. In the last few days, I haven't eaten properly, not only because I'm not in the mood, but I'm also afraid that eating alone looks too pitiful.

In my consciousness, the lifelong feeling of being lonely is not instantaneous, but has been in my mind for a long time. Soul solitude is a beautiful artistic conception, free and easy, leisurely. You don't have to worry about everything, live your own life, and have no quarrels with the world.

23 years old, it was raining heavily, I couldn't go back to my home, I called a friend to ask him to pick me up, he refused me, everyone around me left, only I was alone in the heavy rain, confused, I didn't know what to do, and then I took a taxi to the hotel by myself. From then on, I felt that I didn't need anyone else, and that I could be alone.

It depends on what kind of character you live with in the future, and you would rather be lonely with people who don't have three views and have nothing to say.

I feel that way a lot of the time.

I've liked you for a long time! ”

Sorry, I'm bent. ”

No one wants to die alone in the end, and would rather go through some hardships in life and hope to have someone to accompany them in the end. Because loneliness is really terrible for a person, and loneliness is a symbol of having no relatives like this. When a person lives to the end, he doesn't even have a loved one.

In fact, for a person's life, it is very sad. When a person reaches a certain age, he sees that his neighbors are full of children and grandchildren, but he is alone, and the sadness in his heart will explode all at once.

In my mind, loneliness is not so terrible, but not having money is the most terrible thing. Because if I was really lonely and I had money by my side, I could go to a good nursing home.

Growing old alone is a really scary thing. It's hard to imagine how I could live such a life if I were alone. I was afraid of loneliness, I was afraid of the dark. Fear of being lonely and growing old.

Of course, it's terrible, what people are most afraid of is not difficulties but loneliness, when you are old, if you don't have a loved one by your side, you will feel very lonely.

Of course it's not scary, everyone has their own way of life. You think that having the company of a lover means not being lonely, and some people think that having the company of a job or hobby is the real happiness.

It's terrible, I'm very afraid of getting old, and I'm the only one around.

My husband was.

DAO asked me, what would you do if I let me go first and leave you alone when the two of you are old.

My first thought at that time was that I would go too, probably because I was married far away, far away from my parents, and the closest person around me was my husband, so I was very scared and scared, and I would be left alone when I was old.

I think it's okay, the main reason for being lonely is what it is, if it's because you don't have children, but you have your own pursuits, then it's not necessarily very lonely.

It's terrible, one gets old, one dies. There is no one to accompany and no one to rely on.

Text|Don't stop.

There is a passage on Zhihu that says this:

After taking a hot shower at night, close the door and sink into the soft bed. There is only one floor lamp left in the room, and you can pick a movie that interests you, new or old. Enjoy that feeling of undivided concentration yet lazy.

A cup of warm milk and a teaspoon of honey at the bedside will always bring back the sense of security you felt as a child. Just watched the hatred and obsession of the characters on the screen. Then he turned off the lights and fell into a deep sleep.

Noise is the world.

Silence is also the world.

There is a kind of girl who has a good personality on the surface and seems to be very accessible. It's very polite to people, but it makes people inexplicably feel distanced.

This kind of girl has a rich heart. It's not all because she reads a lot of books and experiences a lot, but because she is very sensitive.

I like to think about what I have done, whether it is ** incomplete, and because I think too much and want to be perfect, I am more cautious in my relationship with others, especially girls, and I don't want to trouble. If it's troublesome, others will go crazy diss themselves when they do something wrong. If you think too much and don't say it, you will have a mysterious feeling.

She may have a good chat with you, but at some point you may see melancholy in his eyes. He has his own rich world, obsessed with a certain sentence in **, obsessed with the shape of a certain cloud, obsessed with the afternoon sunshine in the playground, and the lush trees like a fairy tale world, and she doesn't say these because she thinks no one can understand.

To be alone is to be with the darkness, so she especially likes to be alone, dancing on the edge of a lonely cliff.