Why can poor children see it at a glance? Not only in terms of clothing, but what can t be hidden?

What can't be hidden is childish temperament.

Although some children buy clothes from well-known brands, they are afraid to walk and meet people, revealing a very unconfident look. This kind of child seems to have a very wealthy family, but the family conditions are average, which will cause the child to be cowardly when dealing with the outside. Some children dress in general, but when they communicate with others, they are generous, not shy, and more confident.

The richer the family, the less they care about clothing, and they demand a lot of comfort. Then the same is true for children, who don't care whether the child is wearing a well-known brand, but pay more attention to the shaping of the spiritual essence. Therefore, his children will read more and travel more to shape their temperament.

It's like the sentence in the film "Casablanca": in every person's temperament, there are books that have been read along the way.

What can't be hidden is the concept of money.

Children with average family economic standards will also have a stronger idea of money, and they will also be more frugal. But sometimes it's easy to have a good habit of over-saving. For example, sometimes there is a thing that is expensive, but the service life and cost performance, and there is a thing that is cost-effective, but the application time is short, and the whole process of use is quite unsatisfactory.

Children from such ordinary families tend to choose the cheapest ones due to the incorrect definition of money, but in fact, they are not worth it.

Therefore, I hope that in the future, parents will pay attention to it, and don't want their children to be poor and extravagant because of their own family conditions. Don't ask your children to choose the cheapest one because the family conditions are not very good, and establish a correct sense of money for your children.

What can't be hidden is the child's behavior.

Sometimes it has to be said that families with good financial strength will pay more attention to shaping their children's personal behavior, so they will look more civilized and polite. Families with poor economic strength are exposed to limited economic development conditions, and of course they are not interested in shaping their children's behavior, so they will gain a lot of bad habits.

The most terrifying thing about the restraint of economic strength is not on the surface, because after there is a level, these aspects of dressing and matching will be improved. The horror is that there is a poor concept, low knowledge, and a small pattern. But for all of the above, families with poor economic development cannot hide.

Children from poor family conditions. Sometimes I will develop some low self-esteem personality, I may not be very confident in doing things, and I am not very generous in communicating with others. There is also the knowledge that money is not easy to come by, and a large part of the population is very frugal.

In fact, it is because poor children have very strong self-esteem, and they may be more introverted, and they also have a feeling of inferiority. And he is very sophisticated in everything.

I have some inferiority complex in my heart. I feel that I am not as good as others, I have no self-confidence in the group, I can't hold my head up, and I will be a little submissive in my personality. Conversational temperament . Children from poor families are not as knowledgeable as children from good families.

Children from poor families have lower self-esteem, and children from poor families are affected by economic conditions and are less confident than children from ordinary families.

The children of poor families wear relatively simple clothes, and they don't like to talk much, and the clothes and shoes they wear are not famous brands.

It is said that the children of poor families are in charge of the house early, and the children of poor families will have some temperament from their bodies, have their own unique opinions, and their hands-on ability is also very strong, and they are very serious about everything.

Generally speaking, the reason why poor children can be recognized at a glance is because they do not have these three characteristics that cannot be hidden. The first children of poor families were in charge of the family early, and they were very diligent and frugal. The second child of a poor family.

They are honest and simple in comparison. The third is that poor children have their own strong self-esteem.

For example, when these children look at many things, their horizons will be very small; At the same time, the dressing style is also very good, and then the people around him are also very small; And in the face of many things, self-esteem will be very strong, and it is very important to win or fail.

Low self-esteem, poor children's inferiority complex cannot be hidden, especially in contrast, it is easier to show a sense of restraint.

Shy, it's easier to be shy when communicating with people, and there is no character to talk eloquently.

Curiosity, children have less contact with faces, and are more likely to be curious about many things.

First of all, the vision is too small, and then when doing something or buying something, it will be stingy, and the self-esteem is very strong.

There is some inferiority complex in the heart, the poor family because of the limited economic ability, therefore, in many ways can not meet the material needs of the child, although the child is young, but also understands the concept of right and wrong, as the child grows older, the child knows that his family conditions are not as good as other children, they will feel inferior. In the long run, children will have low self-esteem, feel that they are inferior to others, and have no self-confidence in the group. Talking temperament, children from poor families are far-sighted, not as broad as children with good family conditions.

For example, children with good family conditions will have a wider horizon than the children of poor families if they travel by plane during the holidays and see different customs and sophistication, so in this regard, children from poor families generally have less conversational temperament than children from rich families. The difference between the rich and the poor has nothing to do with the child's clothing, but what really matters is the difference between the child in receiving and treating people. Children will unconsciously choose to associate with people who share their family conditions and consumption views.

Children from poor families often respond with enthusiasm and friendliness when they receive help from others, but children from rich families will distance themselves from the two with a "thank you". These manifestations cannot be hidden.

He will show unconfidence when getting along with his classmates, because of the influence of his family, his parents may often talk about poverty and money in front of him. Causing the child to be particularly sensitive.

1.The gap between rich and poor has nothing to do with what the children wear, but what really matters is the difference in how the children receive people and things. 2.

The concept of consumption itself 3Children also have different views on things, because they have different values, so they have different views on things.

1.You can buy what you like, and you don't have to twist and pinch the gear to touch 2In front of teachers and friends, they are generous and decent, and they are not timidGood character, gentle to others, not mean words.

The first point is that they are not too frugal and willing to share, "poor children" are generally reluctant to share their things with others next to them. The second point is self-confidence, when talking to others, you can talk in general, even if you have not heard of what others say, you will not have low self-esteem. The third point is to have a broad vision, to be able to take a long-term view, regardless of gains and losses.

Through his words and deeds, as well as his clothes, it can be seen that the family situation, the rich children in Shanchen have a broader horizon, and they will also see many things that Qingpi's other children don't know.

No, it can be seen in the conversation, because the children of poor families do not receive a good education, and their horizons will be narrower than those of urban children.

Yes. Because the children of poor families are dressed plainly, and the clothes have already been washed and whitened, it can be seen from the clothes.

I think it's one thing to dress badly, and on the other hand, it may be because of temperament, the children of rich families have a better temperament.

A mother in the community said:Even if there are more than 20 children in the class, you can see at a glance which children belong to poor families and which ones belong to rich families. Here's an example:

When time events are held, the children of rich families often stand in the middle, very confident and generous; On the other hand, those children from poor families often stand on the edge, are more introverted, and dare not show themselves generously.

Why, then, are children from "poor families" so easily recognized? Professor Li Meijin revealed three characteristics of children from "poor families" in a program:

Children from small "poor families" generally have few opportunities to travel around and see the vast world, and even the interest classes that many children are attending rarely have the opportunity to contact. ThusTheir experience is very limited, their horizons are limited to their own circles, and the natural pattern will be very small. Even when an opportunity is presented in front of them, they are unable to grasp it in time and thus miss the opportunity.

Inferiority complex Due to the limitations of family conditions, children from "poor families" cannot obtain better material conditions, and when they get along with other children, they will unconsciously compare themselves. When you see that you are not as good as others, you will have an inferiority complex.

This kind of small things in daily life, the accumulation of one by one, will cause a lot of psychological pressure on children. In turn, it will cause a kind of inferiority, feeling that they are inferior to others and inferior to others.

Lack of securityWe always say, "Adults feel safe with money", but to some extent, it is also for children. With money, people's sense of security will definitely increase greatly, but without money, children will have to worry a lot whether they are shopping or going out to play.

Because of the limited economic conditions of the family, the children of "poor families" cannot get what they want, and every time their parents give pocket money, they will also save money.

Parents themselves are limited by family factors, and their own vision and educational philosophy level is very low, and under the influence of this, children become "poor and sour". In fact, as long as parents can change their educational philosophy, even if they cannot "enrich" their children materially, they can still "enrich" their children spiritually and in terms of pattern, so that their children can become children of "rich families".

In fact, for children from "poor families", most of them will not complain about their parents or their fate, but it is inevitable that many unchangeable environmental factors will have an impact on the children's psychology to a greater or lesser extent.

As a parent, even if the family's financial conditions are limited, don't neglect to accompany and teach your children, as well as the cultivation of their children's self-confidence, because they are busy with their livelihoods.

It can be said that the children of the poor are generally very thrifty, and the children of the poor generally have an excessive sense of inferiority, feel that they are inferior to others everywhere, and are not confident in anything. The pattern is also relatively small, because this is a subtle and difficult change caused by my family environment since childhood.

Clothing, appearance, etc. Children from poor families dress practically, and their appearance is not too groomed, so they can be recognized at a glance.

I think it's because I have fewer circles, and then I don't have a sense of security, and I have a strong sense of inferiority.