Is it so hard to find someone to love? Why is it so hard to find someone to love each other?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-21
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    If I am not mistaken, you are an underground worker of our party, or a spy or a spy, you must not hide it.

    Hide your true identity and live with a mask, sometimes you can't even meet the protagonist of a love. More.

    It's not about having love.

    However, opportunities are given to those who are prepared, and when you meet the person you like one day, you can guarantee her.

    Like you? So before you meet your lover, you have to carefully prepare for this encounter and attract it.

    She has such a saying, women are those who please themselves. Then you're preparing now. You meet people.

    No matter how few opportunities there are, you will meet a good girl, the problem is that you don't always complain that you can't meet it, but make one first.

    Career comes. If you really feel lonely, then I hope it's just before going to bed, and I hope you don't come all day.

    Think about good things late, then you will be too useless, remember, love is not the most important thing for men.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Love must be to meet the right person at the right time, do you think you have both factors now?

    Don't worry, God will prepare a suitable other half for everyone. Maybe all you lack now is waiting for your chance.

    All the pain and unhappiness of the past will be the cornerstone of your future happiness.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    In fact, loneliness does not care about a few people, but about one's own feelings!!

    Also, waiting is a kind of happiness in itself, because you still have the hope of meeting someone you love, not despairing.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It is precisely because it is so hard to find that true love is so precious ......Don't deliberately look for it, leave it to fate......Those who are destined will surely meet.

    good luckļ¼

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    The world is big, others can find you, and you are no less than others.

    It's just that the fate hasn't come yet.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Fate has not yet arrived, everything is fate.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Some things are predestined. There is no need to force and rush.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    What love needs is fate, but the time has not yet come.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I wish I could have a beautiful encounter with him in my life.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

    When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ......Or because he loves you.

    There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

    They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

    In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

    If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......

    Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

    In this world, everyone has someone they want to find, and once they miss it, they won't come back.

    If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound.

    Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's easy to love and be loved, it's rare to love each other, just like a cat always wants to be close to a fish, but a fish never thinks so.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    When I was a child, I often had a question about why it was so difficult to study, but now that I have grown up, I realize that I didn't study hard in the first place, and I have been wasting my time and complaining. Later, I met a child who worked very hard to learn the piano and practiced for a long time every day, but her performance level was not satisfactory. So I knew, it's not that she doesn't work hard enough, but that her talent and her advantages are not **.

    In the same way, you ask why it is so difficult to find someone to love each other, in fact, the reason is similar. It's not for everyone that it's hard to find someone to fall in love with. If you find it difficult, it may be because you are not actively looking for it, you are not trying to act, you are just passively waiting, just like when I was a child, I didn't study hard; Of course, there is also the possibility that you do not have certain advantages in finding the person you love, such as you do not have a stunning appearance, and you do not have a face that makes people fall in love at first sight.

    That is to say, it is difficult to find a person to love, and the reason for this is that there are external factors and internal conditions. When you find it difficult to find someone to love each other, please analyze what the reason is. Then try to improve, try to advance.

    I'm a girl with no good looks, I was 28 years old when I met my husband, and I had boyfriends before I met him, but they weren't very much in love. In fact, whether they are in love or not, this takes time to decide. Time is the thing that can test people's feelings the most, and it is also the thing that can best prove whether an emotion is sincere.

    If you find someone who feels good, if you have a crush on each other, you might as well give each other a chance to be together and spend some time together. See if you are really suitable for each other, and see if you are each other's right match, time can test whether you are truly in love.

    Why is it so hard to find someone to love each other? The reason is also that we are too impetuous, and we are not willing to spend too much time testing our emotions.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Think about it carefully, have we lost a lot of "love" in the past ten or twenty years? In fact, many times, there is only a thin line between friendship and love. Therefore, we can boldly pursue the person we love, don't be shy, afraid of taking the initiative, we must know that love is to be pursued by ourselves, if we just blindly wait, it is difficult for the god of love to come to us.

    Therefore, we must grasp the opportunity, create the opportunity if there is no opportunity, and pursue it with our hearts. After a long time, your beloved will understand your heart sooner or later.

    The most important thing is to believe in love, and don't lose faith in love just because you can't find someone you love for a long time. Even if love has not come yet, we can take advantage of this "opportunity" to change ourselves and improve ourselves. You can exercise more, exercise more, and give yourself a strong physique; Eat healthy food, drink plenty of water, and give yourself a healthy body; Read more, study more, and make yourself a knowledgeable person......When we slowly change, a person who will love you in the future will slowly come to your side.

    So, you have to believe in love and try to find someone who belongs to you!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It is easy for two people to really love each other, but there are many complex external factors in modern society, many people no longer believe in love and no longer believe that they can really find the other half of their lives, many people say that it is not easy to find a person who loves each other, but why is it so difficult to find a person who wants to love now, I think there are several reasons.

    The first reason is that people are becoming more and more realistic. This reason is the inevitable trend of social development, many people are becoming more and more realistic, people's lives are getting better and better, people are not only limited to their own food and drink, but also the pursuit of high-quality life, so people care more about status.

    If a man is very poor, then he must be single, even if it is not easy to find someone to marry, few women don't care that the person has no money, no job or other things, it is not easy to find a suitable woman, let alone a person who wants to love, it is even more difficult.

    The second reason is that if a man has no money, a house, and a car, he will not have a relationship with the opposite sex. It is said that women are very materialistic, but if a woman does not pursue materialism, she is cruel to herself, and no woman likes to live in the basement and eat chaff, so don't talk about women's materialism, it's just that you haven't experienced what women have experienced.

    If a man has no money, a house and a car, there is nothing that attracts the opposite sex, so he must not find the person he loves, if he wants to find a person he loves, he will work hard to earn money, so that you may have more choices in life.

    The third reason is that various social pressures make it impossible for people to find someone to love. Many seniors after graduation say that they regret that they didn't find a girlfriend in college, and after graduating and entering the society, all kinds of pressure are coming, and there is no way to fall in love, let alone accompany their girlfriends, which are some things that cannot be talked about. So that's the reason why you can't find someone you love, and if you haven't graduated yet, hurry up and find someone you love at school.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's not that it's so difficult to find someone who loves each other, but it's especially difficult to find someone who is right for us. Because we always feel that finding our other half in life is really difficult sometimes.

    Many people in life tell me that my other half doesn't have any requirements, in fact, no requirements are the biggest requirements. Maybe you will have a lot of demands in your heart, but in your mouth you feel that there are no more requirements. Therefore, you feel that it is difficult to compare with you, so you lower your requirements, or keep telling yourself not to have requirements.

    Since there are really many girls and boys in society now, it is really difficult for many boys to find girlfriends. Therefore, parents are particularly worried about them.

    But as a boy now, if you really work hard, and you have a good temper enough, if you want to be better with girls, you will definitely find a girlfriend. Nowadays, many girls don't care much about your family background, and they do care about your ability. It is actually much better for an motivated person to struggle with himself than to find a rich second generation.

    Therefore, as boys, you have to work hard to find your right partner. Because our love needs to be found by ourselves. Only by working hard to make ourselves better can we meet the forbearance that is particularly important to us, because we must strive for it in the face of love.

    Only in this way can our love be happier. Don't worry so much, try to find the person you love.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    In the vast sea of people, how can it be so easy to find a person who has a similar personality and loves each other, if it is easy to find a person who loves each other, then how can there be so many single young people in society?

    Therefore, it is not so easy to find a love that is in love. Everyone is a stranger and starts to get along, and slowly becomes a chat friend, and then further becomes a boyfriend and girlfriend, I think boyfriend and girlfriend are everywhere, both parties go through things together, grow together, and then become people who love each other. As the saying goes, love has to go through a seven-year itch, in fact, I think this is mainly to emphasize that couples have to go through the grind of life.

    Otherwise, it is difficult for both parties to easily understand each other's living habits and personalities.

    If some of the habits of one of the parties are unbearable in the eyes of the other party, then I think that even if I love each other again, it will be broken by reality. At the beginning, find a love that you love him, and he loves is very rare, how can people who love each other meet so much? I think the work of the old man is still relatively hard, if it is so easy to let the people who love each other together, then what is the meaning of life?

    Life is so strange that it can turn strangers into lovers and love at first sight into strangers. Life is the best tool to experience feelings, and the feelings that grow in life are tougher than the feelings that are protected in the greenhouse, and we sometimes have to bow to life.

    Therefore, it is difficult to understand a person, and it is even more difficult to fall in love with a person, since you are in love, you should try your best to protect this love, after all, you have to invest more time and energy to find someone who loves each other.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Because in addition to relatives, no two people in the world are in love with each other.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Look for the opposite sex. Like-sex repels each other, and opposite-sex attracts. Physics should be studied hard.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    People who want too much will be distressed.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's too demanding, huh.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    There are 7.5 billion people in the world, and you will meet 29.2 million in your life, the probability of you and him knowing him is 5 in 10 million, the probability of knowing each other is 3 in 1 billion, and the probability of falling in love is minus 21, so it is not easy for two people to be together, love him and cherish him.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Less than one On the way to find love, everyone longs to find the true love that "will not settle", but the world is bustling, people come and go, how difficult is it to find the true love? Do you keep looking for it, or do you compromise with reality and find someone you don't like so much to live an ordinary life? Tonight's short film "Less Than One" is about the difficulty of finding love.

    But how low is the probability of meeting true love? There are 800,000 people living in this city, and what is the end result of meeting a love partner who is satisfied with each other? "After some calculations, the results are amazing.

    Of the 800,000 people in the city of Nuo, the number of true love is actually less than one...

    So my dear, if you meet someone you like, cherish it, how lucky is it for you to meet and fall in love?

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