What can I do to brighten my future?

From your language, you don't want to work in the railway, you want to go to a junior college, and your weakness is that you don't like to talk, you are not good at expressing yourself, then you should go to a junior college to train yourself In today's society, you have to be good at selling yourself Plus you don't like working on the railroad Even if you go and have a stable job income, then imagine that you will be happy?

Go to a junior college and pursue what you love, so that you can make yourself happy, don't you?

Although you go to college will make your job not. But how can you see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain?

I think the attitude towards the ideal should be:

Love it - love it - pursue it - have it - make it happen.

Go to a junior college A person's life is not destined, it is in their own hands, and only struggle can rewrite their own life.

Don't let your ideals give way to a dull life!

A college degree can enable you to get exercise, customer service weaknesses, knowledge and wisdom With these, are you still worried about work?

The important thing is that it is something you love and that you don't give up even when you are disappointed.

And if you go to the railroad, and if it doesn't go well, and you don't like it, then you're going to get frustrated and even give up.

Go to the junior college, I bless you.

I wish you a bright future.

In my opinion, you should listen to your family's opinion.

Because it's too difficult to change your personality, it's not that you think that by studying this major, you can change your own non-talkative personality. Introverts are generally not very good for sales.

I feel that life is full of uncertainties. What it will look like in a few years who knows. So it's better to do what you like than anything else.

I am a living example of this. I don't like to study medicine, my family told me to study medicine, I studied for 5 years, worked for 5 years and found that I still don't like it, 10 years is not a small number. There are several 10 years in life.

I really regret that I didn't do what I wanted to do. I quit my job last year. That's the price, the price of not respecting yourself.

Do you understand? You believe in yourself!

The person who has the most say should be yourself, I think whether a person can succeed or not depends on whether he can overcome himself, you yourself think that you are an introvert, not good at words, if you think you can overcome this, then I think you will be able to succeed.

Go wherever you want to go, don't worry about anything more.

But do good deeds, don't ask about the future." This sentence sums it up so well. If you really want to have a good future, you have to "do good things, don't ask about the future".

But "doing good deeds" is the guarantee of a good future, and everyone knows and understands this. If you don't do anything, lie there, and you won't be able to lie down in a good future.

Don't ask about the future", it is also very important for ordinary people.

There is always a limit to people's ability and energy. If you ask about the future, it will definitely take up your time to do good deeds. More importantly, you go to ask about the future, if it affects your mood, it affects your mood, it affects your mood, it is even more troublesome.

You are excited when the future is good, and you are miserable when the future is bad, which is not good.

Emotions are part of the subconscious. The priority of the subconscious mind is inherently higher than that of the conscious mind, and if you are not careful, it will cause the interruption of the conscious mind.

As soon as emotions come up, they need to consume a lot of energy, and the body is forced to give priority to ensuring the energy supply of the emotional brain. There is even less energy available for you to activate consciousness.

On the one hand, without the protection of the conscious mind, only the subconscious mind is working, which is very dangerous. For example, when you are driving, what is your first reaction when a person suddenly pops out? If you are a novice, the subconscious will definitely go to the steering wheel.

Think about the consequences. On the one hand, how can you do good deeds without conscious and active work? When you're in a mess, you can't do anything.

A good future will become "water without a source, a tree without roots".

In fact, this requires us to focus only on the process and direction, and never on the result.

Therefore, Confucius said, "Don't look at incivility, don't listen to incivility, don't speak incivility, don't move incivility", and Mencius said, "Do something and don't do something". This question about the future is one of "indecency" and "inaction".

Taking a step back, in daily work and life, proactive people should focus on doing what they can and gradually expand their circle of competence. Passive people will pay attention to the things and problems that they don't want to participate in and can't solve, and grasp those things that are beyond their personal ability, and as a result, they complain and blindly push themselves into the position of victims, and finally cause their own energy and Zen rubber circle to become smaller and smaller.

We must always use our conscious awareness to control our thinking and behavior, think more about what we can do, and take more actions, regardless of those objective reasons, and do our best first what we can do. People who are accustomed to this kind of thinking will slowly find that their circle of competence usually runs outside the circle of attention.

The mediocre person always pays attention to things that have nothing to do with him at all, or problems that he can't solve. The reason for this is because he doesn't want to do something about himself in the first place.

This is the gap between people.

Build core competitiveness. Develop a skill, and keep learning, and improve to an irreplaceable level, and the future is naturally bright.

I think this requires me to keep improving my ability, so that I can lay a solid foundation, which is very good and a very appropriate thing.