Can someone who has hurt me be forgiven

For my part, I will not forgive those who have hurt me by apologizing to me.

Because of the hurt suffered in the past, it will not be made up for because of a few words of apology written lightly today, although accepting other people's apologies can also make me feel more comfortable, but the past facts are the same as iron buckets, and they can't be changed at all, if there is no hurt at that time, my life may be better now, and my personality may become more cheerful, precisely because the impact of those injuries on me has continued to this day. So it's hard for me to forgive someone who has hurt me.

Therefore, I think that a person who apologizes to others should show his sincerity, and it is best to use some money or some material compensation to the people who have hurt. Otherwise, it is simply impossible to perfunctory the other party with a few understatements, and it is also more dangerous for those who have hurt others, if the person who was apologized at this time is already developed, or there is a possibility of revenge. It is possible that the injured person will use various means to hurt the person who has hurt him.

There are some people who are not relatives who are not forgivable compared to strangers, but it is still possible for me to forgive the hurt of my parents or elders. Because the harm from relatives may be caused by unclear information, for example, the harm of parents may be the harm caused by the better life of their children, and the harm caused by their ignorance has brought great harm. However, those strangers are simply trying to hurt on purpose, so this kind of hurt is unforgivable.

As time and age slowly increase, the past things will slowly fade away, but the shadow in my heart is still there, there is no way to forget, I don't forgive myself, or stay away, hurt once, or there may be a second or third time, and there is no need to become an enemy, just less contact and less intersection.

How to say, it's you who forgives or doesn't forgive.

Measure the problem yourself, you self.

It's time to make a decision.

When you apologize to a friend who has hurt and hurt you, I don't think you should be easily forgiven. Because people respect and love themselves, they can get the respect of others for us. For those who have hurt and harmed us, even if we want to forgive him, we must make your tolerance and generosity weighty and valuable.

In this way, others will learn a lesson, change themselves, and take you seriously. If I choose to forgive him, it means that I am relieved of this incident, and it can no longer affect my mood or aspect. When he apologized to me, it may not be clear that he is really awake, and my choice to forgive him can just show that I don't care about this matter anymore.

In life, there are always a lot of unsatisfactory, if you want to hold a grudge against each of you, then in fact, life is quite bad and unhappy, so treat some things if yes, people want to be happy, be happy and strive to look forward. In fact, everyone will encounter those things that they feel are particularly unforgivable in the process of growing up, but people may feel that these things are particularly indifferent. Everyone has their own things to worry about, and some people like to joke about you about things that you care about, and then if you get angry, they will think that you are so stingy.

I'm really annoying this kind of person, you don't know what other people's suffering is, so don't talk nonsense there. In fact, we all know that forgiving someone is actually a way to yourself, because you let yourself go, and at the same time, you let others live in their hearts, and they no longer feel guilty. Of course, in real life, there will always be a lot of injuries, harms, there are deep and shallow, if these injuries, the harm is not particularly deep, and can not bring you a huge loss, or cause a huge impact on you, then for such injuries, harm, we can choose to forgive the other party, there is no need to hold on.

There is a good saying, what others do to you is what you do to others. For those who know gratitude, he can also perceive your tolerance and generosity, and for those who have no heart and lungs, he will only think that you are easy to talk and bully, and even laugh at you in his heart and cowardly. For your kindness and your generosity, such people will not care, and will hurt you with greater hurts, hurts, and harms you.

If someone who has hurt me in the past will sincerely realize that what he did before is wrong and sincerely apologize to me, I will forgive him.

Everyone will have their own shortcomings, and there will be times when they make mistakes. This is true even between friends and colleagues. Maybe one sentence or one thing will hurt the other party. This harm is sometimes unintentional and sometimes intentional.

There is a saying that if a person is not a sage, he can do no wrong. It's okay to hurt someone else. Especially if it hurts unintentionally, it is even more forgivable.

If you hurt others, you can take the initiative to be aware of it. And sincerely find the other party to communicate. Eliminate estrangement and resentment between each other.

The two will also reconcile and resume their previous relationship.

We also have to be good at giving people a step. As long as he knows his mistake and sincerely repents it. Not only in words, but more importantly in deeds. If you show remorse and apology for a friend you have hurt, you must choose to forgive.

Choosing Yan Dadu is also a kind of generosity and forbearance, and it is the behavior of a frank and unrestrained gentleman. It is a good moral character and cultivation. I think each of us needs this kind of character and cultivation.