Why are leftover women so demanding? Why do older leftover women have higher requirements?

Everyone has very high requirements for their other half, not only older leftover women, but most of the current older leftover women are some high-quality women. Knowledgeable, educated, with a lot of income, and most of the conditions are better than the leftover men and single old dogs, so they are definitely not willing to marry a man who is not even as good as themselves! I am also an older man, but I have never lowered my requirements for the other half, the woman must be Bai Fumei, if the girl does not meet my requirements, I would rather not get married in this life!

Because most of them have their own unshakable life pursuits, requirements for the other half, and some of these requirements are not achievable by ordinary people, so they will eventually become leftover women, not because of leftover women to become demanding, which is related to everyone's living environment and personality.

With a high income and economic independence, leftover women can support their independent life, and they can survive in society without being dependent on men, and they can buy themselves brand-name bags and lipsticks. On the contrary, there are very few leftover women living in the countryside, which proves this, and they need to marry into their husband's family in order to get a long-term economy.

I have better conditions, and I want to find something better than myself, but I find it and I am left, and I pay too much attention to love. Hoping to fall in love with a TV plot, but it's often hard in real life.

There is an essential difference between leftover women and leftover men, most of the leftover women are left because they have huge requirements for the opposite sex and are unwilling to accommodate; And most of the remaining men are left because they are not qualified to make any demands on the opposite sex!

Some girls have become leftover girls because they are injured, and such girls have experienced serious trauma and have not healed, and they have a lot of rejection of their feelings, waiting for the right person to open it.

Bai Fumei leftover women, people are as their name suggests, in fact, there is no shortage of such girls (women) around them, male suitors, but among such girls, it is rare to find a man who can get their own identity, their ability, education level, and cultivation are far from being able to be guessed and captured by ordinary people.

It is said that beautiful women are the most confident, and leftover women are no exception, they feel that they are beautiful, and they can find a man with good looks and financial resources, but life is not Mary Sue, and there are not so many rich second-generation spare tires that they flock to.

Of course, there are also many leftover women who are dead, and their own conditions are obviously not very good, and they still look high. She is not Snow White herself, but she asks her to be Prince Charming, who has no princess's life, but has the princess's illness, and deserves to be left!

The leftover girl has always believed that she would rather be noble and single than go with the flow, although she is forced to marry by her parents and relatives, she still does not give in, and firmly believes that the person who is suitable for her will definitely appear, however, the dream is very plump, the reality is very skinny, and it will be cold when she waits, and she has changed from the city center to a suburban house.

Leftover women can control a person's life without pressure, they can change the light bulb alone, open the sewer, and screw the bottle cap by themselves, whether there is a other half has little impact on their lives, and they are not afraid of loneliness.

The first is that there is no very clear self-awareness, my friend's sister is 35 years old this year, and she is still unmarried, he has been on a blind date, and he has had a hundred times, but in the end he has no home of his own. In fact, the reason why she can't marry is very simple, that is, his requirements are too high, and his family's requirements are that there must be a villa in the south, a luxury car and a fixed bride price. In fact, he is just a woman from a normal family, he does not have very superior conditions, and he does not have a very high-end appearance, but his heart is higher than the sky.

In fact, first of all, women should recognize themselves, first give themselves a clear positioning, what kind of person you are, what kind of person you will attract. Cinderella meets Prince Charming is just a story in a fairy tale, people still have to be realistic in life, do you think self-awareness is important in front of the screen?

The second is to get used to your own life! In fact, there is another reason for the older leftover women, they are used to the current life, they are used to working and living every day, in their spare time, they may travel with friends, enjoy food, watch movies, etc., their lives have been accustomed, there is no love anymore, but they also live leisurely. Such a woman does not have a man, and he also lives a very wonderful life, they are not used to letting this opposite sex suddenly break their own regular life, and over time it is also the main reason why they become older leftover women.

The third is unwillingness to compromise. There is also a situation where they themselves are no longer willing to settle, because there is an impossible person in their hearts, or they have been hurt in this relationship, so they have a sense of fear of love in their hearts. They don't dare to fall in love, and they don't dare to accept the people around them who are good to them, because they are afraid of getting hurt again and don't have the courage to start a new relationship.

When they want to start a relationship, the right ones are not emotional, the ones who have feelings are not suitable, and finally, after being single for a long time, they don't want to fall in love more and more, let alone look forward to marriage!

In fact, age is not an absolute boundary, high-quality single, it is far better than low-quality marriage, rather than tormenting each other in marriage, it is better to live happily, no matter when you should not get married because you have reached the age of marriage, you have to believe that a good meal is not afraid of late, there is always someone who can understand all your stubbornness. Wait for all your desires to stop and compensate you for the love that has not been given to you in the past few years, you must wait!

Women with more ordinary ideas basically find a suitable man to marry at the marriageable age, and the vast majority of the remaining women have significantly higher expectations for marriage.

It is because they are unwilling to compromise that they can't solve their personal problems in their own ** marriage period, and the longer they are single, the more they will want to pursue a delicate married life, and their expectations for men will become extreme.

This kind of unmarried woman has never experienced love, let alone understands what a real marriage is like, and she will only make claims that she thinks are legitimate based on her own fantasies.

But the promise of this requirement is not so high, because the men who can provide all this are either already married, or they have a much wider range of partners to choose from.

Leftover women may not have an advantage in terms of age, appearance, and fertility, so there are not too many opportunities to solve personal problems.

But they are basically not willing to discount, so they can only continue to be single, hoping that maybe one day opportunities and good luck will come so suddenly.

Why do older leftover women have higher and higher requirements for men?

Speaking of which, leftover women generally belong to the group of women who have too high expectations for love and marriage, but there is no way to help them achieve this expectation in real life and choose the remaining group of women.

Their problem is that they are too faithful to their inner cognition, so they will not feel the call at all to the men who have the possibility of solving their marriage, and only want to find the type that is very clearly portrayed in their hearts.

In this way, the difficulty of solving marital problems increases infinitely.

In addition, the relationship between age has been increasing, and the range of opposite sex options has been shrinking, and it is precisely because of the further increase in age, experience, and their own conditions that the more leftover women know, the higher the requirements for the other half, resulting in further increase in difficulty, and finally this phenomenon of "high is not successful, low is not enough" has been formed.

It's not that the requirements are high when they're older, it's that the requirements themselves are high, so there is no match, but others may have a misunderstanding, thinking that they seem to be the higher the requirements the more they get to the back, in fact, their requirements are not low when they are in their 20s, especially the requirements at the spiritual level, it is impossible to be satisfied with the other party having a house and a car.

And objectively speaking, the level of men in China is indeed generally lower, so it is really difficult to match.

Older leftover women are generally better, and when they are younger, they don't make do, and when they are older, they know more clearly what they want, so they won't make do, and she is an excellent person, she is independent and confident, and has a certain economic foundation, and she wants to find something that matches her in all aspects, and she has to get along, so it seems that the requirements are high.

The reason why the requirements of some older leftover women are getting higher and higher is that I personally think that the most important thing is that they have not adjusted their mentality in time, and the reason why they can become what they are today is also directly related to their unrealistic requirements getting higher and higher, which has a great direct relationship, which has formed a vicious circle.

First, there are many singles in the countryside, and it is said that men are more than 30 million higher than women, mainly in the countryside, but the guys in the countryside happen to have no money, and the women in the countryside take advantage of the power of others and want to make a lot of money from the bride price at this time, but these young men can't come up with the money, but the result is that those girls are leftover, and they become older leftover women, and the more they are left, the more serious they are, and they have become a social problem.

Second, many rural women see that the opportunity is good, and they feel outdated like the old one, and they want to marry in the city, and ask the young men to buy a house in the city, and the housing in the city is so easy to buy? They can't even afford the down payment, let alone have to repay the loan, they don't have the ability to repay the loan, and their parents can't help it, so they can't come up with money to help, so forget it. But there were always a few who were bought, and it spread among the young women, so they had the idea of not marrying into the city, and as the days passed, they became leftover women.

Third, some young women are not smart, they haven't read much, they haven't seen much of the world, and they have few opportunities to contact the opposite sex, those matchmakers have taken a fancy to this, and take them on blind dates every day, what kind of blind date can rural matchmakers have, either older young people with leg problems or arm problems, in short, there is nothing good to look like, some young women have been on a blind date more than a dozen times and dozens of times and have not seen anything good, so they think that the countryside is like this, they are really too lazy to go, and they will be dragged into older leftover women, and no one wants it.

There is also a change in the concept of marriage and love, and there is another phenomenon that marriage is not as good as being single, this good refers to the quality of life, economic independence, should eat and play, live as you like, if you get married, find the object of economic conditions worse than yourself, pull down the living income, not to mention, after three or five years all the problems have come, the child is coming, the housing is tight, the income has not changed much, the continuous problems come out, after marriage has a lot of chicken feathers, slowly with the number of quarrels increases, There is the kind of strength that kills each other, so there are more single young people.

It's not that the requirements are too high, but I feel that I will live better alone, I don't have to worry about family disharmony, I want to play wherever I want, I can buy what I like without hesitation, don't worry about this, worry about that.

No, because many girls now want to find a soul mate, and it is not easy to find such a person.

Yes, the basic requirements of many girls nowadays are very high, and many girls have their own economy**, so they are relatively independent.

No, it's because women's sense of autonomy is gradually awakening, and they find that they live a better life without men.

It's not that the requirements are too high, but now many girls feel that marriage can't bring them anything, and they also want to live alone, so they don't want to find a partner.

Yes, today's girls have high requirements for mate selection, and they themselves are also very good, so they are also very picky when looking for a partner.

I think so, because the conditions of girls are getting better and better, so they will be a little more demanding.

Nowadays, many older leftover women in society are becoming more and more demandingThis is because the level of their circle of friends is getting higher and higher, which has changed their values, and the second is that they are living well now and don't want to discount their feelings, so the requirements for the other half will gradually become higher.

The level of friends around older leftover women is getting higher and higher, which makes their values change

The reason why there are fewer older leftover men is that boys with good conditions will not be left, and they will choose their love to marry very early. And the older leftover women have become more because of the girls with their own conditions, the quality of the people around them will not be bad, and the conditions are also very good, their circle of friends is relatively high, before the comparison, they will also change their original values and love concept, want to find a more suitable love to match, so in the process of looking for the leftover women, and the requirements are getting higher and higher.

My own conditions are good, and I don't want to discount my feelings

The so-called older leftover women must be in their own conditions are better, and some other ordinary girls must have a clear view of love, when they meet the right person to enter marriage, and the older leftover women are getting better and better with their working conditions, their own conditions are gradually improving, so they treat the other half of the requirements are also relatively high, at this time they don't want to settle, and they don't want to discount their feelings, so they would rather lack than abuse. Their work is also very good, so the life they live alone is also very exciting, and at this time their requirements for the other half will be relatively high, this is because their feelings do not want to be sold immediately, but want to find a person who matches them, so as to live up to this life.

Nowadays, there are very few older leftover men in society, but there are more older leftover women, which is also because boys do not have very high requirements for the other half of the mate, on the contrary, there are more girls, and as they get older, their social experience will increase, and their values will change, so there will be more and more requirements.