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Quite possibly, sisters are not the same as they used to be. The current sisters, family affection is not, there are really not a lot. It's not like the sisters in the past, they take care of each other.

If you have money, you are sisters, and you don't have money. Maybe not even an ordinary friend. There are even more people who invite relatives and harm friends.

For example, like the people in the pyramid scheme that I used to say, I am all relatives and parents. Pit brothers and sisters. There are many such people.

As you said, it is better to believe in others than to believe in yourself, and it is better to rely on yourself than to rely on others. By water, the water will dry up. Only by yourself is the most real.

Listening to others. When you do something, you have to ask a few whys. How likely is it and how authentic is it?

The most important point is that people cannot be greedy. You can't be greedy. If people are greedy, they are easily deceived.

Have a clear understanding of yourself. Do what you can do. There's a saying that you can never do it, and I wish you money beyond your cognition.

Thinking about it, this sentence does say the truth of making money. For example, if you don't know anything about **, you have to go**. Ten people, ten people will pay.

Of course, there may be that kind of nouveau riche. For example, when buying a lottery ticket, some people buy a lottery ticket and win a jackpot. Such things are very rare and cannot be relied upon.

You can't rely on such a good thing as pie falling from the sky, what falls is generally a pit, that's what you said. Another situation in the big pit is that you believe that person, maybe he is also a victim. Maybe he was kind at the beginning.

I really want to help you, but because he doesn't know, he's also a victim. So pulled you out of the water. There is also the possibility of passing on the loss, his loss.

Maybe it's because after pitting you in, you were compensated. In a word, when you believe in others, you should have a clear understanding. Be careful.

Then the chances of being deceived are much smaller. The last thing to say is to help your brothers and sisters within your own ability. Beyond that, you'll feel like he's lying to you.

And this is the case. Let's take another example. He borrows 10,000 dollars from you.

You don't have that ability. Then don't lend it to him. You can give him 1,000 yuan, give it for free, and don't want it later.

So that the other party can accept it, and you can accept it. It is also a better way to do things in this way.

That's right, relying on the landslide, relying on the flow of water, you can only rely on yourself.

This statement is a bit paranoid, don't be led astray by someone or something, sisterhood is like brotherhood, you will help me in case of trouble, I will help you. If you only rely on yourself in trouble, there will inevitably be situations where you are single and weak, and it is difficult to settle things alone, at this time, you will feel that it is better to have more sisters.

Yes, if you are ruthless, you have to break up with your own sisters, and everyone is independent, and it is better to rely on who you are.

This is just a few, it can only be said that you haven't met a good sister, you can be vigilant outside, but don't treat everyone as a bad person.

It's not that everyone is like this, even those who are pit by their own sister won't have any friends, this kind of person has to stay away.

What about people?Driven by interests, that is, brothers, and sisters will have a lot of entanglements and entanglements, so we really have to believe in ourselves, and we can only rely on ourselves for everything, and we can't count on others.

It's just in the minority, but there are still some. Unless there is hatred from childhood to adulthood. Or when I was young, I was very good, and the care number grew up and slowly got old, and there were some relationships in the middle.

Is it even my own sister who will be pitted?Now it is better to believe in no one than in yourself. Even their own sisters will pit such people. Don't call me. Not worth socializing. It is better to believe in whom you believe than in yourself.

The current society is indeed a bit sick, but not everyone is untrustworthy, and I believe that there are good people.

Society is too complicated, it's just people, there are people of all kinds, there must be people like this kind of pit their relatives, but this kind of person I think is not kind in my heart, and this kind of person is also a minority after all, and you can stay away from this situation.

My mom told me that I was the most reliable in this world. This is a quote to you.

Because everyone has their own family in adulthood, and the city is not together, the distance between the two parties will become more and more distant, and it is only possible to see each other during the Chinese New Year. Naturally, family affection is not so heavy. The focus is also on their own families.

A lot of people don't like their own brothers or sisters very much, and they don't feel like they are profitable, and they don't resonate when they solve some things, so they look like enemies.

Because of some conflicts of interest and some contradictions, there are problems in the relationship between siblings, and secondly, because they are busy with work, they have no time to communicate, and their feelings are gradually rusty.

As the old saying goes, if brothers become a family with each other, they will consider the family for most people, and some brothers and sisters, whether it is work, love, or brotherhood, are gradually estranged because of the few times they meet.

It's because there are many brothers who will quarrel over money, and they also value interests more than anything else, and they don't value blood ties.

Because the whole society is changing, the whole era is also changing, and these sisters have already paid for their families, so they will become particularly indifferent and ruthless.

Because there are many young people nowadays, they only focus on playing with their mobile phones every day, and the home is very quiet, and there is no sound at all. Therefore, the relationship between family members will become very cold.

It's because the current brothers and sisters don't have too much intersection in their usual lives, and they seem to be more indifferent.

Because siblings don't communicate and communicate with each other often, and they don't often interact with each other, it seems that their relationship is particularly indifferent, and there is no family affection at all.

Because many brothers and sisters are far away now, they usually don't have time to contact each other, and they are relatively strange after a long time.

The times are different, almost all the brothers and sisters are relatively weak now, and after getting married, they have to share their own property. No one wants to take care of their parents when they are old, and parents are everyone's obligation, aren't they?

Because today's young people pay more attention to their inner feelings and have no time to maintain their feelings.

That's because everyone has their own career, and everyone is in the north and south of the world, and the time for contact is very small.

Because the current social and economic pressure is very high, brothers and sisters are too busy to take care of themselves, how can they have time to talk about family affection.

Because of comparison. The closer people are, the more they will compare, and the more they will compare things.

That's for sure, as the saying goes, a golden nest and a silver nest are not as good as your own kennel. But it also depends on the relationship. If the relationship is good, it doesn't matter if you stay a little longer. For example, it's like a sister, but I'm used to staying in my own home, and I'm a little restrained in someone else's house.

I also feel this way, I feel this way when I treat my own home, I am free, I can do whatever I want, you are a guest in someone else's house, you are inconvenient, and others are uncomfortable. As the old saying goes, the golden nest and the silver nest are not good for their own grass nest.

The problem you said doesn't hurt at all, the gold nest and the silver nest are not as good as their own nest, this is a family that has no time, convenient joy, at home, can only be with roommates, what are you doing, what kind of habit is used by the battery, it is convenient at home, what kind of things are remembered to be put in other people's homes, you want.

It's better to stay in someone's house than to stay at home in your own home. There is no doubt about that. After all, your home is a warm harbor, and you can do whatever you want at will.

It is understandable that there is friction with their own sisters. You just think, you will get along with your parents in this state, let alone between sisters.

But you have to learn to deal with it right and learn how to solve problems. so as not to affect the feelings between relatives.

Yes, as the saying goes, a golden nest and a silver nest are not as good as your own kennel. It's not that sisters are bad, but sisters' homes and their own homes mean two things.

This is from a certain point of view. If you live in a sister's house, you can understand their difficulties. After all, people are also a family.

People think differently, so sometimes you have to take responsibility. Okay, that's all I'll say, I hope you look away.

Look at the relationship, your relationship is not good, and it doesn't feel good in your own home! Of course, Chinese know that their own pig nests are more comfortable than Jinwu! Going to someone else's house, because it's a family, so that's another side of the problem! After all, it's not a permanent residence.

That is, take yourself as an example, others come to your house for a few more days and have the same feeling as you, as the saying goes, the golden nest and the silver nest are not as good as your own kennel. Maybe that's the reason.

Which is for sure, no matter how good it is to go to someone else's house, it is not the same, unless it is the same as your parents' house, no matter how good the treatment is at a friend's house, it doesn't feel comfortable, as the saying goes, the gold nest and the silver nest are not as good as your own kennel, the fact is so, your brothers and sisters' homes are the same.

It's too stressful, so be kind to yourself.

Just ended an argument with my sister a few hours ago. I came here to divert my attention and calm down, and when I saw this problem of yours, I found that the problems we encountered were very similar, and the only difference should be that I was the one who despised or did not want to associate with her in your description of the problem.

Because it's a housework, others won't understand the twists and turns. I should also be a little more personally cleared up.

In fact, most of the reason for quarrels should be the accumulation of many trivial things, and because of the detonation of a trivial matter.

However, you have to believe that older children understand that their siblings are their own relatives, and that only they will support them and do their best to protect them after many years.

But inevitably, people have likes and dislikes, as long as the other person is human, there are likes and dislikes. But she is your sister, and you don't have a choice.

So, I regret arguing with her now, and I regret making my parents angry. But next time, I'll be upset to see what she's doing.

I put up with it, but there was a time when I couldn't help it. I tried to communicate with her, and I had a long talk many times, and it didn't take long for it to continue.

So there will be a reluctance to associate with her, I can't get used to seeing me avoid it, can't it?

As for despising her, I don't know what kind of contempt is there between you.

However, I really can't get used to her being a junior in college and coming home from summer vacation and smirking on the TV; I really can't get used to her relying on her to study for a few more years to talk back to my mother, my mother's family was poor when she was a child, and she didn't even finish elementary school, are you embarrassed to take my mother's money to learn and then go against my mother?

I just can't get used to the way she still shows her teeth and claws when she doesn't understand anything, and she looks like she takes it for granted: I don't like that, or you Buddha do that.

So, my advice to my sister is: either you change or stay away from me.

Even if it's a sister, I can't force me to like you.

Just ignore her! What else is there to associate with such a person? I don't value feelings so much. Let's not talk about sisters, outsiders, we have to discuss something first.

It is best to establish rules, that is, to establish the principle of treating others and others, and everything revolves around this principle, rather than constantly changing your attitude according to the reaction of others, and treating things not people, but there is no need for sisters to be like this, hurt and angry.

Sisters are relatives and are related by blood, so even if she has done something excessive, she still has to bear with her. Don't deliberately please her, find a time to sit down with her, have a good talk with the two of you, and talk about each other's hearts.

If it were me, I would find out what the problem was, since it was a sister, how could it be to the point of contempt? If it's her fault, then I'll definitely ignore her.

I think it's okay to ignore her directly, as a sister, if she doesn't treat you as a sister, then why do you need to please her? So as not to add to the blockage of myself, I think this is how it should be.

I will never try to please her, but there is a reason, find a time, the two of them sit down and communicate calmly, if it is really her unreasonable and can't communicate, simply ignore her.

It's better to go with the flow of this kind of thing, neither take the initiative to please nor ignore her, because after all, they are sisters, and they will always intersect because of many things.

Ignoring her, they are all sisters, and they deliberately snub you, which is extremely excessive. Usually friends don't do this anymore, let alone sisters.

She despises me, why do you have to practice yourself to please her, and she doesn't weigh how many pounds and taels she has, and she deserves me to take care of her? Looking at her from the rest of her eyes, she felt that it was a waste of resources.