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Foreigners raise children in a free-range family, and their minds are relatively open-minded, Chinese are a little more traditional, reluctant to let children suffer, the older generation of people are also easy to interfere, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have many contradictions, I still like the education method of foreigners.
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Because the educational environment at home and abroad is different, the way children live is different. Chinese parents basically hope that their children will become dragons and daughters will become phoenixes, and they have great expectations for their children, so their requirements will also increase.
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It is not easy for foreigners to raise children, and many mothers will also suffer from depression. The tiredness of Chinese parents is mainly due to financial anxiety, and they spend money like water from the beginning of pregnancy.
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This is because most Chinese people always meet all aspects in the process of raising children, and provide children with the best growth environment, hoping that children can become better and win at the starting line of life. It is mainly reflected in the education of children, the cultivation of children's living habits, and the improvement of children's learning ability.
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This is because most Chinese have relatively high expectations for their children, and in the process they will form a certain amount of doting on their children, so they are very tired. It is mainly reflected in the cultivation of children's daily learning habits, learning ability, and living habits.
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In the Chinese, it is expected that the son will become a dragon and the woman will become a phoenix; Ideology, education, life, discipline and education.
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The reasons why Chinese work hard to raise children are as follows:
Pressure on children's education: Parents in China generally believe that their children's education is very important and therefore invest a lot of time and money in educating their children. This includes providing the best educational resources, enrolling your child in various training classes, taking various exams, etc.
All of this can put a lot of pressure on parents and children.
Busy work and life: In modern Chinese families, parents are usually busy with work and life, and it is difficult to find time to take care of their children. As a result, they have to send their children to kindergarten or ask aunts, grandparents, and others to take care of them, but this also brings a lot of financial and mental stress.
The pressure of social competition: Social competition in China is fierce, and children's education and growth are seen as important barriers to the future of families and individuals. Therefore, parents need to provide their children with the best educational resources and growth environment, so that their children can get more opportunities and advantages in the future social competition.
In short, there are many reasons why Chinese people are hard to raise children, including education pressure, work and life pressure, and social competition pressure. This also reminds us that we need to pay more attention to the development of families and children, and provide better educational resources and support to help parents and children grow together.
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01 Expectations are too high, and the pressure is too big Most parents have the mentality of hoping that their sons will become dragons and their daughters will become phoenixes, and they regard their children as the center of the whole family. From the child's croaking to the ground, to going to school and literacy, to the child's graduation and marriage, buying a house and a car, parents have been worrying about it every day for decades, never stopping.
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Why are Chinese tired of raising children?
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Because Chinese are particularly concerned about their children and want the best for their children, they are very tired, resulting in children who are also tired and will become rebellious.
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Because I think the cost of raising children in China will be relatively high, and Chinese pay special attention to education, and will send children to various tutoring classes. Children's food, clothing, housing and transportation also need to be carefully considered by parents.
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Chinese raise children are really worried about everything from childhood to adulthood, will not implement free-range discipline like foreign parents, parents manage the study and life of their children when they are young, and after the children get married and have children, they still worry about their children, so can this not be tiring?
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Because in the current society, the economic pressure of every Chinese is very great, and raising children is a big economic expense.
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Because the Chinese have too high requirements for their children, every parent is looking forward to their sons.
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It is because adults are reluctant to cultivate children's independence, and do everything by themselves, which breeds children's dependence and simplicity.
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1.An only child, pampered. 2.
I don't want my children to suffer. 3.Take care of everything and arrange everything for your child.
4.I hope that my son will become a dragon, and my daughter will become a phoenix, and I will spend money to learn all kinds of talents and public affairs. 5.
The society is developing rapidly, and the pressure of survival is high.
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Because the Chinese raise children to arrange all the things for them, they always feel that they are still young, can't bear it, can't do it, and are willing to give everything they have to help them.
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One is that the expectations of the child are too high, the second is to meddle a lot in the child's affairs, the third is that the concept of raising a baby is different, the fourth is the lack of fatherly love in widowed parenting, and the fifth is comparison.
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