What has happened to people who don t trust their parents

As parents, they are afraid that their children's lives will be too difficult.

We always say: I just want you to take fewer detours and live a more comfortable life in the future.

And in fact? There are a certain number of bumps and bends that should be encountered in life, and they are not lost by the protection of their parents.

On the contrary, the frustration that the vast majority of people encounter does not come from society or others, but from parents closest to them who do not respect, understand, let go, and distrust their own.

The road is walked by people, and the road that parents can't walk doesn't mean that children can't get through.

As a parent, you need to keep in mind the first rule: do not use your own preferences, limited experience, judgment and vision to imprison your child's life choices.

At every intersection of the child's life, in the face of his every choice, you can analyze the pros and cons to him, but the choice should be returned to him.

If your child's choice is not your ideal direction, please learn to respect and understand!

True love for a child is to learn to withdraw gracefully when he becomes an adult, and to learn to love him in another way.

As a parent, you need to keep in mind the second rule: do not kidnap your child's life in the name of love because you can't wean.

Everyone has their own way to go.

What is the outside world like? Only let him experience it himself.

And what you can do is learn to support him when he chooses to pack his bags and walk in a foreign country!

Parents love their children deeply, and so do their children. However, they have not opened their hearts to each other, and they have been filled with misunderstandings.

I thought I was doing it for your good, but unexpectedly, I kept making you carry the weight forward.

As a parent, you need to keep in mind the third rule: don't make decisions for your children without communication.

Today's children have a lot of ways to obtain information, and they may not have less information about the outside world than their parents. In addition, many children have already planned their future and know how to make trade-offs.

Therefore, it is important to learn to communicate and, more importantly, to trust.

Here, I hope that all parents can always be vigilant to themselves: don't let yourself become the biggest setback and detour in their children's lives.

People who don't trust their parents, society will teach him a lesson! When you really understand your parents' good intentions, it's too late!

When you are not trusted by your parents, you should try to communicate with your parents, and you must speak your own thoughts so that the other party can be aware of the problem.

Make changes and regain the trust of your parents through your own efforts, and you can also explain to them what the reasons are.

Start by communicating with your parents, then tell them what you think, and convince them to believe in yourself.

It's not that your parents don't believe you, but they always feel that you are still young and young, and many ideas are unrealistic, and they are also afraid that you will fail and not be able to bear the blow, and others may have experienced more than you and see more comprehensively. You can communicate well with your parents, and do things yourself so that they can see your grades and see that you are growing, and your parents will naturally believe in you, come on!

Most parents are like this, because they think that they know you well and feel that you are not as good as others in terms of ability...Because of this wrong cognition, as well as the perception of age, I feel that what others say is right.

In fact, according to the heart, the parents themselves also know that it is unreliable to believe in others in this way, but how to say it, anyway, this kind of belief will not have any bad consequences, sometimes it is a detail hanging in the air in one fell swoop, anyway, I believe that I will not lose a piece of meat.

If there is really something to lose, these parents will not be so easy to play tricks, this is more of a hypocritical social in adult society, just like praising each other's children for being good, and then belittling their own children for not being as good as each other....

As a parent, these are all fake, praising each other's goodness, maybe it's really good, but maybe it's because the other party is a child, even if the child is ugly, there are few people who can say it thoroughly....As long as they are healthy and lively, can eat and drink, they will say that the other party is cute, smart, and must have the ability when they grow up!

No one knows exactly what it will look like when you grow up, so this kind of talk is just a scene.

You will definitely be sad, this kind of sadness is too much about yourself, in the eyes of your parents, because this care about how your parents evaluate you, sometimes many things are not taken care of, hurt others and hurt yourself.

I'm like this too, so I need to train myself well...Let yourself not care too much about your parents, your own evaluation, this kind of intentional or unintentional harm, just because we care too much, we have to learn not to care too much, and then just say that you are incompetent, and you will not be sad when the time comes. No one is yourself, your parents are just others Everyone is an independent individual, since it is a confidant that an individual can meet, there are very few....

In the future, you can find some friends to talk to after work on the Internet to make up for the lack of trust in front of your parents.

Parents always believe that outsiders don't believe in you, this problem is really uncomfortable, after all, your parents don't believe in yourself, and you must feel very painful and uncomfortable.

But it is still recommended that you should try to show yourself and communicate more with your parents, so that they trust you from the heart, so that they will naturally change their minds, so you should still treat this problem rationally, don't be too extreme, and slowly talk together that it can be solved!

First of all, when making sure that you have not done anything wrong, if your parents still listen to outsiders. Then do something to protect your family's property. When parents suffer, don't blame and criticize, just comfort them and help them analyze the problem.

What if your parents always believe that outsiders don't believe me, I think your parents always believe that outsiders don't believe you, then they must feel that you have a lot of things to deceive them in long-term contact with you, so they won't believe you in their minds, if you feel wronged, you can talk to your parents directly, spit out your grievances, so that your parents will believe you.

First of all, we must clear up some misunderstandings between you, because if this happens, it means that there is a problem with the trust between you, and both parties sit down and communicate well. Because no parent doesn't want their children to be better.

Your parents always don't believe you, probably because of some things you did before, which made it difficult for them to believe you, and you have to change their stereotype of you through your own efforts.

I always believe that outsiders don't believe you, it seems that they think that their children's abilities are limited, and you have to impress your parents with your excellence.

Parents always trust outsiders and don't believe you, that means. You have deceived your parents with a lot of lies before, so your parents would rather trust outsiders than believe you.

This is usually not enough communication with your parents, who don't know you very well, so you still have to find time to talk to your parents more and communicate more. This way, parents can also keep abreast of your thoughts. It's good to take it slowly.

Maybe our parents think that we are still young, and that we have not yet understood the so-called truth, we should strive to improve our own abilities, let our parents reassure us, and let them approve of our ideas and views.

I think this is normal, I don't know why all parents always trust outsiders and don't trust their children. My parents were the same. I taught them how to use their phones, but they always didn't believe it and had to go outside and ask people again.

So this kind of thing, you just get used to it.

Then you will make a success to show your parents, generally do not trust you or have lost confidence in you, and your parents will naturally believe you if you do well.

It doesn't matter if you believe it or not, filial piety to the elderly is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, as the saying goes, over time, you will be able to appreciate your goodness.

Hello, parents always believe in outsiders, but not in you, first of all, you have to find the reason from yourself, and secondly, you can tell your parents what you think.

In this case, you should reflect on what you have done that led to your parents' misperception of you. Change your bad habits and let your parents get to know you again.

You can try to convince them, put the data in front of them, and prove that what you say is right with strength.

Find a way to let your parents see your good side, and let your parents like themselves from the bottom of their hearts.

There are some elders who have really strange thoughts, they always hurt those closest to them. But in big things, it must be biased towards his own children.

It must be that parents hate iron and steel!

You are disobedient, ignorant, unmotivated, and unassertive! No sense of responsibility!?

If you work hard and can reassure people, others will trust you!

I wish you happiness and a happy life!

Hope, thank you!

The choice is to believe in outsiders, not to believe that I can sit down with him and communicate.

Your parents may not be very firm in their minds and will be suspicious of you when they hear other people's gossip, but they will still believe you if you are willing to explain.

First of all, how do you make your parents not believe in you, this root ultimately lies in you, know that there is no parent who does not believe in their children. Unless it's your own children who always do something that makes their parents sad, which leads to the end not believing you. The key to solving this problem is how you do it yourself.

There are no parents who don't believe in their children, they are just sad on the surface. But they believe in you in their hearts, and they can't tell them in front of others, I don't believe in you, I believe in my children.

Your parents always trust others but not yourself, which means that you usually do things and behave in a way that may hurt your parents' hearts, so they don't believe you very much.

Communicate with them and let them know what you think.

My parents too, I don't know why the words of outsiders seem to be the same as the words of God, I can't figure it out, no matter what they do, anyway, if they don't believe me, they don't believe me, it's a big deal, I'm like this myself, and I don't want them to believe it.

If you don't trust anyone, you must have been betrayed by your dearest ones, including your parents. What we need to do is not to trust others easily, and it is better to believe things after verification. We can't easily change anyone to the point where we can raise our vigilance.

You can't have the heart to hurt others, and you can't have the heart to defend people. I hope you learn to protect yourself!

Maybe you have been betrayed and hurt by someone you trust, so you will have this kind of thought, if you can, try to establish a relationship of trust with your loved ones, on the premise of protecting yourself. In the process of growing up, everyone has pain and loneliness, when their hearts are strong enough, they will digest all negative thoughts, it may be that they feel that no one can protect themselves, if they can, try their best to establish an intimate relationship with their mother, maybe the aging mother can not let you be avoided, but if you can love her, you will also experience the true feelings and kindness from your relatives, and your heart will be warm, when you grow up, you can learn to protect yourself, and the most trusted person is only yourself.

Having this kind of thinking means that something happened to you, and maybe your parents are thinking about you from the perspective of someone who has come before. First of all, there is definitely more detail between parents and strangers. Secondly, sometimes when your parents' views are different from your own, you should consider them calmly.

Not trusting anyone can only make you uncomfortable with this society, and I don't think it's the best protection for yourself. The best protection is that someone trusts you and you have someone to trust, which is the best protection for yourself. Being on guard against everyone is the most tiring and losing the trust of others.

If you suddenly don't trust anyone for no reason, not even your own parents, you have to consider your own problems in this situation. It's understandable that you don't believe in other people, but your parents don't believe it either, this is definitely your problem.

I don't know what kind of situation you have encountered, but normal people should not have such a thing happen to you. You don't trust anyone as the best protection for yourself, so once you have a problem, or a physical problem, then who will help you?

So don't think that way. Each of us needs help.

This is what it is, this is human nature, and human nature is profit. After all, there are very few parents who are not worthy of their children's trust, perhaps because there are differences or opinions in the way out and life pursuits given.

Not believing anyone is a sign that you are insecure and have lost your sense of judgment, which is a sign that you have been hurt inside.

Your family and parents are not worth trusting, this state is very pitiful, so who else can you believe? Can you only believe in yourself? If you feel that this is the best protection for yourself, then you are also excluding yourself from society.

If you feel that no one is worth trusting, you can hide yourself appropriately, make your own decisions, and make yourself happy. Maybe you're not that distrustful.