Why do people force themselves to be excellent, force themselves to work hard, and force themselves

The main reason is that the social involution is too powerful, and for most people, if they don't work hard, are not excellent, and are not strong, and fall behind in the social competition, they will be very disappointed. If you look at it, everything will go naturally, and you will be willing to live a plain life, but it doesn't matter.

Is it to make yourself superior to others and survive the fittest, which is not easy to be eliminated by society.

First, when you are excellent and strong, you can have a secure economy.

Second, when you are excellent and strong, you can get the respect of others, and your network will become wider and wider.

3. When you are excellent and strong, you can influence your relatives and friends around you, and your children will go in a positive direction and make more and more progress.

Fourth, if you are excellent and strong, you will become more and more confident and more and more calm in the face of problems.

Fifth, to put it bluntly, the weak and the strong are everywhere, and only by becoming strong can we live a better life.

Because only by redoubling one's own efforts can we make ourselves excellent and stronger, and can we make greater contributions to the motherland.

Vanity, a little better material life, these two main points, and many other factors, everyone is different...

If you are not good, there will always be someone who is good for you.

If you don't push yourself, you don't know how good you are.

Summary. 1.Adjust the environment to block out distractions.

Separate the rest area from the study area. It is advisable to carve out a study area away from the bed, sofa, TV, etc., to ensure that your mind is in a state of study. At the same time, wake up every morning, pay attention to the dress code, and avoid wearing clothes that are too casual (especially pajamas).

And tell mom and dad not to move around and disturb during the study time, such as feeding food; I also told the meow master at home, Master Wang, not to disturb your study.

1.Adjust the ring width and sensitive environment to isolate interference. Separate the rest area from the study area.

It is advisable to carve out a study area away from the bed, sofa, TV, etc., to ensure that your mind is in a state of study. At the same time, wake up every morning, pay attention to the dress code, and avoid wearing clothes that are too casual (especially pajamas). And tell mom and dad not to move around and disturb during the study time, such as feeding food; I also told the meow master Wang of the good Dongqiao Lu family not to disturb your study.

2.Define goals and make plans. The day before, make a plan for the next day.

What to do, what to accomplish, divide by importance or time, as a model for your own actions. Students with strong self-control ability, this should be done well, but in any case, it is recommended to use tools such as a planner to write down and implement it specifically, so that the results are more obvious, and what they do every day is also clear at a glance.

3.Put it into action, check it in. If you have made a study plan, you must put it into action, otherwise it will be just a piece of paper.

We need to implement one by one, and then check on time every day, confirm what we do, clarify the reasons for not doing it, and reflect on ourselves in time or adjust the plan letter, so that our daily plan will also suit us, and become more and more compact and efficient.

Many people live in comfort and pleasure, and they are very afraid of difficulties and pains, because of difficulties and pains, they will torment our hearts to a great extent. As human beings, we are very sensitive to pain and will always choose to avoid it. But a successful life is bound to go through these pains, and in order to achieve a successful life and force yourself to move forward, in my opinion, you need to do three things.

1. Make a plan for life. If you want to make your life better and force yourself to move forward, then you must make a life plan, because only by having a good plan for your life can you know which direction you should work from. If a person wants to change, he should first systematically understand himself, have a clear understanding of himself, and neither exaggerate nor belittle himself, which is the best attitude.

2. When you encounter difficulties, encourage yourself to persevere. Many times, the reason why we want to push ourselves is because whenever we encounter difficulties, our inertia will tell us that it is really easy to give up and persevere, and it is really uncomfortable. Whenever this time, we have to carry out a self-encouragement, we can carry out a kind of self-hypnosis, when we persist halfway, when we really can't persevere, think about the future and ourselves, if we give up, how much effort will have to be put in to be able to regain strength.

A kind of self-momentum encouragement can be a good way to gain a new courage in the face of difficulties. <>

3. Actively forge ahead. If you want to push yourself forward, then it means stepping out of your comfort zone, and after a person has been in your comfort zone for a long time, a kind of inertia will develop. Once people get out of their familiar field, they will have a sense of fear, and only if they can face this fear with the right attitude, explore the world, and open up the world with a positive attitude, then we can achieve success.

If you want to make yourself better, you must first make a plan, and work hard to complete this plan, add more responsibilities to yourself, and let yourself have pressure to move forward.

Then set a goal for yourself, and then let yourself accomplish some things that cannot be done, and then force yourself to do some things, and slowly you will become very good.

When you work hard, you have to work harder and force yourself to work hard, so that you can become better.

You must set a lofty goal for yourself, and then continue to work hard for this goal, and be fearless in the face of difficulties, only in this way can you become better.

That is, we have to cut off all the retreats, so that we can fight to the end on a road, and when we keep persevering, we will always see success.

Tell yourself that if you don't work hard enough, you will be eliminated one day, and only by forcing yourself in this way will you work hard to climb forward.

In life, you must remind yourself that you can never satisfy yourself, that you are not good enough, and that you will become more perfect if you believe in yourself.

Set a goal for yourself, let yourself continue to struggle every day, and only after the struggle can you know how good you are.

Don't be satisfied with the status quo, don't move forward, don't procrastinate, finish today's work, and persist very patiently, no matter what level you are in, standing on that ladder of life, you must look upward, don't fool yourself with contentment, even if you have stood at a certain height, don't be complacent, stagnant, most of us do things for five minutes, a hammer in the east and a mallet in the west, like a bear breaking corn. Everyone understands the importance of persistence, "no accumulation of steps can lead to thousands of miles, and no accumulation of small streams can become rivers and seas".

When I got up at 6:00 this morning, I saw Chunhong update "Write My Heart" one by one, "Don't force yourself, you never know how good you are", after reading it, I felt a lot of emotion and was full of energy.

Yes, each of us has a lot of potential, and only by pushing ourselves will we find that we are also very good.

Chunhong, although she had a dream of writing before, she has always had insufficient faith, hesitation, and hesitation.

After joining the Writing 365 platform, the dream in my heart was ignited, and my inner energy was stimulated, so I had the belief and pursuit of firm writing, the perseverance and perseverance to persist in writing, and the tenacity and confidence to overcome difficulties.

The night was terrifyingly quiet, and I was so sleepy"

But in order to complete the sharing manuscript, all difficulties can be overcome.

In the end, she overcame herself, successfully shared, and reaped a milestone event for her own Fufan.

From 7 days of writing to 22 days of writing, her writing is atmospheric, witty, and powerful; She is diligent, hardworking, self-motivated, and tenacious; Her persistence is firm, persistent, and ...... with faithI am amazed by all of them.

In the past, Chunhong always envied others for writing well; And now, she stands out in Pingzhao Jintai and has become an excellent writer who is envied by everyone.

This is Chunhong, the Chunhong I admire is not written one by one, and the one and the hall base are amazingly written.

I'm also glad that I've found like-minded friends on the road to writing, and we empower each other to work together on the road of writing.

Everybody is good and has a lot of potential, it's up to you to push yourself bravely.

Instead of spending time envying others, take the time to improve yourself and make yourself the envy of others.

Only by forcing yourself will you find your own excellence and make yourself more excellent.