Why do you desperately want to be good yourself

Everyone's ideas have more or less personal, life, and social influences, no matter what aspect of the impact as long as it is beneficial to oneself is worthy of praise, you can't help but consider why you want to become excellent from the following points:

One, personal. For individuals, it is to reflect the individual's life value, life philosophy, way of thinking, and survival rules; This is also a thought that a person is slowly instilled from birth, not innately.

Family influences. Parents are a standard and role model for children's growth; Good, bad, positive, negative, etc., imperceptibly affect the formation of children's mentality and thinking patterns.

Campus Impact. There are many people who say that children's success needs to be influenced by nurture, and this makes sense! At present, in Chinese education, most children absorb the most knowledge in the places where they are educated, such as campuses, training, and tutoring.

The way children talk about the teachers and seniors they come into contact with on campus is also a direct way to slowly stereotype the idea that children work hard.

Second, life. When a child goes from childhood, adolescence, and then to youth, he must slowly face personal life, family life, team life, etc.;

With the development of the economy, the pressure of life increases, and not being excellent is a manifestation of being irresponsible to oneself; This kind of performance will directly reflect the following things that the individual can give in the future: family stability, family quality of life, children's education, parents' peace of mind, etc.

Third, society. Giving back to the society means an individual's contribution to society and their own professional workplace. As small as the responsibilities of personal work, work hard and accumulate money; It is as big as the type and meaning of dedication to the enterprise and the people.

Everyone wants to be particularly outstanding, to become a very powerful person, to become the pride of the family, but the really outstanding people are not opportunistic, sideways, to continue to cultivate themselves, accumulate over time to become better, what do we need to do in life to make ourselves better, first of all, we must have dreams, dreams are the place where success begins, and it is also the driving force for ourselves to move forward. What kind of person do you dream of becoming, you have to learn from someone, you will not be confused with a goal, and you will not be empty, it seems that it was originally a steel mill, because your dream became one of the richest people in the United States, the stronger the dream, the greater the motivation, and the closer the distance from the dream, when you have a goal, have the desire to do something, look back at the days when there was no goal, no dream, you will feel that life at that time is meaningless, and you have to learn to make a plan, Whatever you do, make a plan before you do it. Beginning and beginning.

What to do again, what to do in the end? So the important thing is to plan in detail, you can divide each quarter into three points for 11 years, 1 small assessment in January, and a big assessment in three months, to see how far you are from the plan, only in this way can you earn money at the end of the year, and then there is to cherish the event, from now on to arrange your own time full, go to bed early and get up early, learn to exercise, don't indulge in games, make full use of time, time is the only thing that can be obtained without spending money. It is necessary to enrich your brain with knowledge, the reserve of knowledge is very necessary, he is the peak of your view, even on any occasion can make you not frightened, rich in poetry and calligraphy, calligraphy and painting learning is an indispensable part of a person's progress.

Only by becoming better can you meet better people, better jobs, improve your personal living standards, broaden your horizons, and become richer in the spiritual world.

Everyone thinks differently, some people think that being good is a better grade, and some people just keep learning and become a better person.

Everyone is desperately trying to live, for themselves and for others. Everyone's existence has his meaning, big or small. No matter what the meaning of our existence is, after all, it is to make ourselves a better person.

And sometimes if we want to be an excellent person, it may be that we meet someone you like, and his excellence makes you prohibitive. So, you will work hard to make yourself worthy of him and stand by his side, why is that?

1. Dissatisfaction with real life.

When we feel something in life, often this feeling is a kind of self-perception of life, thinking that such a life or such a way is not something that can bring you anything, nor can it guarantee your future life. Therefore, when you feel that others are better than you, you will feel that your ability is not enough to support your future life, and you will not be able to give the other person the life they want. Therefore, when you feel that others are better than you, you will start to question your current state and whether your abilities can support your future life.

Second, meeting him makes you feel inferior.

There is never a shortage of admirers around an excellent person, and there will be countless people among the admirers who want to approach the excellent person through hard work. Under what circumstances can a person feel inferior, that is, when the person you like is better than you in everything, especially when you can't support the future for him, you Shenfan Cong will feel inferior and feel that you are not capable of giving him the future he wants.

Therefore, when you feel his beauty, you will feel that you can't be too bad, and you also need to work hard to make yourself excellent, so that you can have this excellence with peace of mind. But, in fact, the other party doesn't ask for anything, and he doesn't want you to give any help, all he wants is for you to be there for him, that's all.

3. You want to give her a better future.

When two people are together, what they should think about is the future and the present. How to be yourself in the moment, how to give each other enough security in the moment. When he wants the future, you can give him enough support and confidence.

Therefore, you also want to be able to help him when he encounters difficulties or career bottlenecks, and be able to accompany him all the time. At this time, all you can think of may be to change yourself and make yourself excellent, so that you can have enough confidence that no matter what you encounter in the future, you can love him with the same change.

Summary. First of all, you have to study hard, get admitted to a good high school, and then be admitted to Beijing Film Academy, and you can realize your dream of being an actor.

How to work hard to make yourself better.

I want to be an actor star what I should do, I'm in junior high school now.

First of all, you have to study hard, get admitted to a good high school, and then be admitted to Beijing Film Academy, and you can realize your dream of being an actor.

You are still a junior high school student, the most important thing is to study hard, increase your knowledge and culture, and you can be admitted to the acting school.

I'm in my third year of junior high school, and I only have one year to go, and in this year, I work hard and study hard, and I can achieve what I want.

Yes, as long as you study hard, you will definitely be admitted to a good high school, and if you study hard in high school, you can be admitted to the acting university.

First of all, I must emphasize that a person does not become excellent for the sake of the person he likes, but for himself to become excellent.

I feel that for individuals, there is basically a certain degree of similarity between the people that everyone likes. Maybe for the subject, the people who like it are the type that is on the good side.

Secondly, this kind of thing is really Zheng Zhiye's relationship with whether it is excellent or not, but excellence is indeed a very important part. Maybe you've become better, and you still don't like people who hate your brother now, but you've gained more things, and that's to become a better version of yourself! Even if the person you like doesn't like you now, you can still meet a better partner than the person you like now.

Therefore, for the question of becoming excellent, there is never a need to become excellent for others, and even if there is, it may only be a certain stage. If you shout that you want to be good, then you want to be good for yourself, isn't that better?