I m 20 years old this year, I m still introverted, I don t like to talk, I m very confused, and I m

You have to take the first step, I was like you back then, but how did I get started, want to know? I forced myself to run for class president, and then, I finally became class president, and then at that time, I had to face a lot of people, I had to communicate with a lot of people, I had to learn how to interact with more people, I had to learn how to speak in front of so many people, in fact, this was in my previous situation, it was simply an incredible thing, but I persevered, hehe, I may be a little too pushy, but I think you also have to make up your mind to start changing yourself, step by step, It's always going to get better, man, you have to learn to be thick-skinned before you can start your social life, and I wish you success.

Do you use QQ to chat with people more?

After that, it just becomes a reality.

Take the initiative to communicate with others. Don't be afraid that others will hate you, and you will make people laugh if you say the wrong thing. Be confident....If others don't understand, just talk about it, and they can understand it.

I'm still in school, right, let's go to a club, I will join the Youth Volunteer Association when I go to school, and I have to try to socialize with people, and I will get better slowly.

Take her to a crowded place to play, and have more contact with friends' children, and there will be communication between children.

There is a kind of person who is very confident, because he understands himself and others; There is a kind of person who is very arrogant, because he only understands others and cannot understand himself; There is a kind of person who has low self-esteem, because he understands himself but cannot understand others. Friend, you are only 20 years old, and your personality is still very plastic, so take advantage of yourself.

You don't have enough self-confidence, you don't need to see a doctor, don't care too much about what others think, that will only make you more troubled.

I don't think so, I used to be very introverted and didn't like to talk, but as I grew up, the surrounding environment changed from time to time, the more people I knew, the wider things I saw, and I gradually became more cheerful, I suggest that you have time to go out and walk more, open your mind and meet more friends. That may change.

No, it has a lot to do with your state of mind. Find out for yourself

Since you can't change it, don't change yourself, it's best to go with the flow, and your heart should be smooth, so why bother adding trouble to yourself, and why care about other people's eyes, just follow it. (It's okay to sing and increase your self-confidence).

At your age, this situation means that you are normal and immature! It's okay, as time comes of age and everything is okay

How can this be called a failure? I think introverts have a lot on their minds, maybe they don't want to be seen or heard by others, so they choose not to say it, just bear it alone, and over time they will be biased towards introversion, take advantage of this age to let go of everything, look down, live happily every day, and don't impose pressure on yourself ......

How can it be considered a failure, you are only 20 years old, still very young, there are still many things that have not been done and experienced, the heart is just your character, people will change, you also try to change yourself, contact more people around you, and classmates or good friends, or get together more, don't be out of the group and mingle with others, even if you are silent in that group, there is only one contact, it is better than being lonely and cranky.

Not having friends doesn't mean failure. Introverts generally don't communicate easily with others. But you also have to let go a little bit. At least a few close friends to talk to.

No, it's just that you personally don't want to say what you think, just learn to talk to others slowly, and don't be afraid of getting hurt.

You don't have to change it whenever you want.

It's not your fault that you're introverted, it's just that you don't find like-minded friends with you.

You can make yourself strong!

You don't need to wait for others to save you, you yourself are your own savior, open your heart and communicate with others, there will definitely be people who can understand you and love you.

You only need to take the initiative to ask others, and they will pay attention to you and make friends with you.

I don't feel safe, it's because my parents weren't around when I was a child.

Of course not, I think you're a very nice and kind person. In fact, you don't have to worry about being too introverted, introverts are not bad, but more caring. You have to learn to get along with a lot of people and be open to others.

There will always be someone who appreciates doing things, don't think that those who are very good at propaganda must be good, you have your own way to survive. In fact, your personality should make real good friends, don't force yourself to go along with others because you don't fit in. You don't have to worry too much about love, as long as you treat others sincerely, there will always be people who like you.

Don't be too withdrawn, try to communicate with others, in fact, it is a very pleasant thing to be able to communicate with others sincerely. Hope it helps.

Try to change yourself, introverts are usually very kind, find a place to exercise their ability to dare to speak, and dare to speak up a few more times! Remember, introversion is not the same as timidity, in this world you want everything you want is your own thing, even if you can't get it, you have to leave a mark on it.

If you are looking for a wife, you will find the kind of generous one.

Don't deny it for the rest of your life just because you haven't met it for a while. If you really do what you say, you will meet someone who loves you very much.

Don't be too pessimistic, you have to be confident, believe that you are the best, find the right goal, work hard, everything will be done.

Of course not, many boys nowadays talk a lot but are too frivolous

Not necessarily, if you like you, you will like you, if you don't like you, I still don't like you, I really can't find a boyfriend.

No, dear, it's good that you're slowly adapting, and you'll get used to it after 30!

My wife's thing should be fine! Because there are many girls who like this one! Introverted! It's not too good for work! It's hard to go up.

I think about it, I'm very honest, I live in a technical school, and I'm often bullied. Actually, you should be confident. Talk more, talk more with some people who have a better relationship.

No, it's not until you're 40 years old.

It's okay to take over after not changing.

That's fine, but being introverted will kill you.

No, it's that you're thinking too much about yourself.

Yes, you're done with revenge society.

It's okay, you can go on a blind date like you in the future.

No, some girls like people like you, too.

This kind of personality is definitely not good, it is not just a matter of finding a girlfriend, you can't eat when you are looking for a job or at work, you must exercise your social skills, and you can improve your ability to socialize with people more.

There is really no bai wish to be as comforted as they du.

You, the comfort itself is right, but I'm afraid that the wrong dao is comforting.

Useful. You have to realize that the biggest bottleneck in your life is that you are not brave and too thin-skinned, you have to upgrade yourself to a person who almost feels perfect, and always pursue this point and continue to work hard to really solve the problem.

Is it like this since childhood, or is it just now? If it's only recently like this, it may be because you are usually too homely, rarely go out, stay in the dormitory every day to play games online, and disconnect from communication with the outside world.

It's very simple to deal with this, usually go out for a walk, exercise your body, do more exercise, and cultivate your sentiments.

If it's like this since childhood, it may be a little troublesome, after all, it's been more than 20 years, and it's impossible to change it, it is recommended that you read more books on interpersonal communication, and accumulate a certain theory first, but focus on practice, or deal with people more, communicate more, don't be so homely, don't be so nervous when talking to people, think about it and then say, no one will laugh at you, as long as you say it with your heart, of course others will listen attentively.

It's very difficult to change it, but no matter how difficult it is, it must be changed.

I have spent 30 years on this, and now I have basically reached normal communication with the society.

The lesson I have learned is to look for self-confidence, and I will strive to do what others can do, and do better. What I can't do is to see if others have done it, and who has done it to learn from him. If no one else can do it, then it shouldn't be my fault that I didn't do it.

Take the initiative to say hello when interacting with people, and then follow what others say, if you don't have anything to say, listen carefully, you must listen carefully, otherwise he won't talk to you. You say everything others say is right, and you say everything others say. People will like you more and more, and they will love to talk to you more and more.

Then tell them what you have to say, and they will be very attentive to help you. When your problems are solved with the help of others, you will feel that it is not so difficult to interact with people.

First of all, it is recommended to practice reading the newspaper and insist on reading for an hour a day, and you will have a surprise after a month.

The other is to take the initiative in interpersonal relationships, actively participate in some group activities and find something you like to do, and slowly you will find that there will be more friends around you.

I am 24 years old, I am also an only child, I just graduated last year, I am a college student majoring in electrical engineering and automation, not that I like this major, but my exam results can only go to this major. I'm also a standard otaku at school.,Except for the Internet or the Internet.,No friends.,After graduation, my dad originally wanted me to take the civil service exam and then ask the relationship to help me find a job.,But I didn't take the test.,The reason is simple.,I don't like to be a civil servant.。 I found a job as a network engineer on the Internet, and now I am alone in Beijing, with a salary of 4,000 yuan, which is not high, but for me who has just graduated, I am very satisfied.

Well, after listening to my story, do you have any thoughts, as a man, you have to find a way to turn the pressure on your shoulders into motivation, because you have no other choice (if you have a rich family or a powerful family, then I didn't say it above).

Go out and walk more, and travel if you can. Go to lively places and attend more parties. No one to say.,Go find a group.。。。 Participate in team activities.

Set yourself a goal, set a goal and achieve it. Do this and you'll understand.

I'm a boy, 21, introverted, don't like to talk to others, have few friends, and I'm confused about the future, and now I'm studying civil engineering, I don't want to study, I feel that this industry is not suitable for me, but when I saw the question of the Lord Mauser suddenly, I said I would continue, thank you.