Would you be with someone like that?

Trouble. I think if you really like it, keep going until you think it's really impossible for her to like you and then give up.

Troublesome. If you love her, touch her.

Impress him with your sincerity.

Choice: Will you choose someone who loves you or someone you love.

Once you understand this question, you will know what to do and how to do it!

Since you love her, don't give up lightly, let's take a look!

There are many events or situations that can prompt the average person to make up their minds to be with their current partner. Here are some common examples of base sells:

1.Mutual attraction and love: Two people may feel a strong attraction and chemistry when they first meet, which makes them decide to stay together.

They may find that the other person's personality, appearance, interests, or values are compatible with them, and they fall deeply in love with each other.

2.Shared values and goals: When two people find that they have similar or compatible values and goals, they are more likely to decide to be together.

Shared values can promote mutual understanding and support for both parties, while shared goals can make them work in the same direction in life.

3.Support and understanding: A person may make up their minds to be with their partner because they feel supported and understood by the other person. Whether it's during difficult times or as a person grows, your partner's support and understanding can strengthen the bond between them.

4.Shared experiences and memories: Shared experiences and memories can deepen the bond between two people.

These experiences may include travel, adventures, overcoming difficult times, or special moments spent together. These shared experiences and memories can strengthen the emotional connection between two people.

5.The test of time: In the face of some trials and challenges, a couple may work together to get through tough times by supporting and relying on each other, which may deepen the bond between them.

These trials may include long-distance relationships, family conflicts, and occupational stress.

These are just a few examples, and everyone's situation and motivations can be different. Ultimately, the reasons for deciding to be with someone are very personal, and each person has their own unique story and reasons.

Summary. Hello, dear, when everyone says why you are not with him, it means that the people around you think that you should be with him, but you don't want to be with her in your heart, then you have to insist on yourself.

Hello, dear, when everyone says why you don't stay with him, it means that everyone around you thinks you should be with him, but you don't want to be with her in your heart, then Brother Mori, you have to stick to yourself.

Dear, hello, when everyone says why you don't stay with him, it means that everyone around you thinks you should be with him, but you don't want to be with each other in your heart, then you can stick to your own point of view, no longer infiltrate the opinions of the people around you, be the most authentic self, and don't care about other people.

Hello, dear, when everyone says why you are not with him, it means that the people around you think that you should be with him, but you are not willing to do this in your heart, then you still have to follow your brother-in-law's humble and true envy of the idea, to Hail to stick to your feelings, don't care about other people's comments, don't let yourself live up to yourself, don't let yourself have regrets.

For many people, choosing to be with the person they like is not just based on impulse, but often has deep reasons and experiences. These reasons and experiences, perhaps certain details, certain moments, have left an indelible mark on our hearts, so that we can make up our minds to believe that this is the person we want to bury in the void with whom we want to spend our lives.

For the people I know, the reasons why they are with their partners vary, but most are influenced by the following:

1.The feeling of being in love.

First of all, when choosing a partner, of course, the most important thing is whether there is a feeling of love between the two people. This feeling is not only manifested in being attracted to each other and appreciating each other's appearance and personality, but also in the psychological needs such as the sense of security and belonging that the other person can bring to them. The generation of this feeling requires the accumulation of time and space, as well as the communication and exchange between the two parties, and only in this way can the relationship between two people be deepened.

2.A shared experience.

In addition to the feeling of being in love, there is also a need for shared experiences between partners. In life, many people choose to be with their partner, often because both parties have experienced something worth remembering, such as a trip, a show, a memorable night, and so on. This combined experience can bring two people closer together, build a deep emotional foundation, and at the same time, increase mutual trust and understanding.

3.Shared values.

In addition to shared experiences, shared values are also the reason why some people choose to be with their partners. Everyone has their own beliefs, ideals and pursuits, and being able to find a partner who is similar or compatible with them can make the relationship between two people more harmonious and comfortable. When two people have a huge compatibility with their views on life and future goals, then their tacit understanding and consensus in getting along will be higher, which will lead to a happier and more stable relationship.

Overall, there are a variety of reasons for deciding to be with your partner. These reasons may vary from person to person, but the common denominator is that they all need to have their own selection criteria and bottom line, and before making a decision, they need to have an in-depth understanding and examination of their partner's personality, habits, qualities, etc. Only after a thorough assessment and judgment can you be sure that you have chosen a partner that is truly suitable for you.

Falling in love is a beautiful and magical feeling, sometimes two people seem to love each other very much, but in the end they can't be together. And others, just after they met, they can stay together for a long time.

So why are some people not suitable for being together? From my personal experience, let's approach this question through the following three aspects.

The first aspect is because the values are different.

Everyone has their own outlook on life, worldview, and values. Sometimes, even if two people love each other, they may not be able to be together because of different values. For example, one person values family and family, while the other person is more inclined to career and self-fulfillment.

As a result, the two have disagreements, and their different goals and pursuits also make it more difficult to fall in love.

The second aspect is because of different habits of getting along.

If two people want to come together, they need to spend a lot of time getting to know each other. However, some people have completely different habits of getting along with each other, and even if they love each other, they can't adapt to each other's lifestyle. For example, some people like a quiet life, but they have a wide range of interests and hobbies, and they may feel that they are too different from each other and their lives are too boring compared to themselves.

This is especially true for people with very different habits, and in general, people who are more adaptable are suitable for people who are also good at adaptability.

The third aspect is because love is short-lived.

The last aspect is because love is short-lived. Sometimes, we feel that two people are not compatible in some way, and we forcibly distort our thoughts and choices in the hope that we can maintain a relationship. However, we should also be clear that loving each other does not mean staying together forever, and perhaps at some point, we will have to be separated for some reason.

Therefore, we must also learn to accept this possibility, and not let the nostalgia for love affect important relationships.

In general, why can't some people be together? It may be due to different values, different habits of getting along, or love is inherently short-lived. We can't tie our lives to a relationship because we insist on not wanting to leave someone.

Because love is not accidental, but it is possible that it is just catharsis and cannot become a permanent commitment. We need to pay attention to the broader blueprint of life, which is not only a compliment to ourselves, but also can bring us more excitement.

The first is that you want to fall in love because of loneliness. Some people will say that most people want to fall in love because they are lonely. Then mine is, then look at those who want to fall in love because of loneliness, how many of them have been holding hands for a long time?

In other words, because of loneliness in the person who wants to fall in love, a lot depends on the three-minute passion. After your passion is not so strong, or the loneliness disappears, the relationship of love may become a burden in life. At the end of the day, this type of person is still more self-centered, meeting their own needs while usually not taking care of the needs of others.

When you are with her, you need to change according to her mood changes. It's the kind we usually see, you have to show up when I need you, and you must not bother me when I don't need you. The second is because you want someone to accompany you in love.

There is still a certain difference between wanting someone to accompany and being lonely, and the fundamental need to be accompanied lies in the lack of a sense of security, and someone needs to fill this gap, because loneliness and wanting to fall in love belong to a period of time, and there is an impulse to integrate into others in the heart. For this type of person who wants to be accompanied, it's easy to treat the object as a tool person, what even the microphone sleeps, what message is replied in seconds, most of them come from this type of person. Although companionship is the most affectionate confession, when we focus on the core of love with someone, then the problem is obvious.

She just wants someone to accompany her, and it doesn't matter who it is. Of course, this person at least has to look at it himself. The third type is that you want to fall in love because of specific needs.

This type of person often satisfies his needs under the banner of love. As for what the needs are, they vary from person to person, including physical, financial, resourceful, and networked. In general, falling in love with this kind of person is like completing a project, and when the project is completed, maybe your relationship will end there.

Some people who are relatively better in disguise may consider continuing to use it, but you will obviously feel that there is a slippery slope in the attitude and behavior of the other party. Fourth, you want to fall in love because you want to get married. This type, you may think a little strange, why do people who want to get married and want to fall in love are not suitable for being together?

The reason is very simple, marriage and love are originally two dimensional things, and the specific subdivision will not be said today, but if you take marriage as a task to complete, then love is just lip service. Formal marriage and love relationships do not meet the needs of most people.

In a marriage, if material conditions are the cornerstone of marriage, and stable feelings are the prerequisites for marriage, then the right match is an important factor in whether the marriage can last.

This is also why more and more young people, after falling in love freely a few times, lamented that it is more reliable for their parents to help them introduce people to people on blind dates.

Two people are generally the same in all aspects from family background to education and growth environment, and with this connection, two people can be more compatible and less oppressive.

01.Two people with huge material conditions cannot go to the end.

When I used to watch idol dramas, I thought that Cinderella and the prince were a match made in heaven, but in real life, the prince is with the princess.

When two people with very different material conditions are together, the word money will become extremely sensitive, especially for the less confident party in terms of material aspects.

When a person has had good living conditions since childhood, she will become confident and confident in such conditions.

He was taught to give himself the best he could be, and for the most part, never to be embarrassed by material things.

So he couldn't understand why someone would choose to wait for a bus for so long because of a few dollars, instead of choosing to take a taxi.

I don't understand why some people are reluctant to buy themselves a cup of milk tea for more than ten yuan, they have not experienced this kind of life, and they will not empathize, they only feel that their life is the norm.

And when they meet a partner whose material conditions are not as superior to their own, some people who are well-educated will be more considerate of each other, be careful everywhere, and not let the other party feel uncomfortable.

And after getting along for a long time, some use their material advantages as their own ridicule of each other to make themselves appear more active.

The other party will become less and less confident in the comparison again and again, and all kinds of details and ideas in life are contrary, which fully reflects that the two people are really not people in the same world.