Your ex comes back to chase you, will you be with him?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-08
51 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's okay not to say it, but I want to slap myself twice, I don't know what is good about him, I am cheap!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Of course, as long as he's sincere, why not?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I knew that it would be a repeat of the mistake if I came back, but I was still willing.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There is no such possibility, he is the father of his child, I am the mother of my child, I lived for myself before I got married and had children, and I have to think about my children after I get married and have children!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    No, because we both have families, since we were not together at the beginning, there is no need in the future, I don't like people who hurt me because of other women, that proves that I don't care that much in his heart, and I don't care if I hurt me for others, that proves that I am not that important.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Yes, because of some realistic helplessness that makes us have to separate, I will be with him, after all, I have a strong and deep love to give us a chance to do not leave the last regrets.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    No, because it hurts too badly, I look for you every day when I love, and when I don't love, I don't say a word, and it disappears.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    No, because I'm getting married.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The person who can make me an ex, he's just an ex at best, accept him and dump him.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It depends on the situation, if you still love each other, you have grown up, you know how to love, and reuniting can actually make up for a regret, and you will cherish each other more.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Yes, because I still love it, but I won't get along like before, because I have lost it, and I am not afraid of losing it again.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The ex is the first love, and the pain of losing someone you like very much is like amputation, but I don't know, maybe it won't.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Yes Only when you have lost can you know how to cherish it After a long time, after more experience, you will be more mature I have been waiting for him to love me again Give me another chance Lover come back I don't want to love others again in this life.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If two people have loved each other, the abandoned generally do not look back, even if they look back and find that they are different from what they think, the abandonment of the other party generally begins to feel that the other party is very good after a while, I am not going to miss him and begin to regret it, in short, the chance of being able to enter the marriage after turning back is particularly small.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Yes, because I still love him and wait for him to come back.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's already together, but it doesn't have the feeling it had at the time, and I don't know if I still love it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Not anymore! We've known each other for two years, and he's been in private contact with his ex for a year! First remarked into his wife, after I found out, he said that he was chatting and playing on the Internet, and then he promised to delete her, 2 months have passed, a goddess's remarks have caught my attention, it turns out that it is still that woman, he just secretly changed the remarks, and he didn't delete it at all!

    Later, he finally admitted that it was his ex-girlfriend and his chat background was that woman's**! Then, overnight he sent me home, and when I was locked out, I hit the last **, and I said can you wait and go, I can't get into the house......It was one o'clock in the morning at that time, and he said ignorantly, you can figure it out yourself, and then hung up**! I sat at the door until four in the morning.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Neither will I. Because I'm afraid of losing it again.

    It's better to be friends forever.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    No, because from the moment he had a new love, we weren't able to do it anymore.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    No, it's been so long since they've been separated, and people should move forward, the past has gone sour, and there will be no reconciliation.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Whether you will get back together with your ex depends on whether there is still affection between the two people, if the two people still have each other in their hearts and care about each other, they can get back together, because maybe the original breakup was impulsive, then if you really break up completely, you will miss each other and leave regrets!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It depends.

    If I break up with my ex for a long time, and he doesn't have a new girlfriend and I don't have a new boyfriend, I will consider analyzing the problem, solving the conflict, and then getting back together with him and continuing the relationship.

    If it were me or him, no matter which one of them had a new love, if I had a new love, I wouldn't get back together, because I knew it was disrespectful to the current one; If he comes to me again after he has a new love and breaks up with a new love, then I won't get back together, because this way you can see clearly whether a person is worth giving up something about yourself for him.

    Some people have something that they can only let go.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If my ex had come back to me, I wouldn't have gotten back together with him. I think that good horses don't eat back grass, and since they have chosen to break up before, it means that they have been disappointed in this relationship.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    No, since they have left each other, the moment they leave, the moment they leave, they are destined to never intersect again!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    This situation still depends on whether I still have the other party in my heart. Do you still have expectations for this relationship? If there is still one. Then you will choose the composite one.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It's not going to get back together, but we'll talk about how we're doing.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Everyone has the opportunity to choose in a relationship, and in the face of the re-pursuit of the ex, they also have the right to choose to refuse. It's not that if an ex-boyfriend pursues him, he must agree to get back together. And since the two people have chosen to break up, there must be emotional problems between the two people, and if such problems are not solved and then get back together, they will break up.

    In fact, it is easy to fall in love, but it is difficult to get along, this sentence is really a good confirmation of the current situation of many couples, there is obviously still affection between two people, but they have to say goodbye, in fact, because the personality of the two people and some attitudes towards dealing with problems in life are different, life leads to the unwillingness to compromise between two people, resulting in the constant intensification of contradictions and breakups. And when two people have proposed to break up, it means that the problem has not been solved, and eventually the two people cannot get along well.

    Re-pursuing with your ex-boyfriend shows that he still has feelings for you, and he also hopes to have time with you to continue to get along. But in the face of such an ex-boyfriend, girls must not be soft-hearted immediately, but also aware of the problems that have always existed between two people, and try to solve the problem first, if the problem has not been solved, must not agree to get back together, because after reuniting, they will often break up because of these problems, so they will fall into a cycle, not only a waste of time, but also a waste of energy.

    In the face of this situation, you must see your own heart and what the future will be like after the two people are reunited, and if these do not get a positive answer, do not agree. Because life has to go through a lot of trials and challenges. Don't just because you still love each other in your heart, you don't think about those practical problems, and you agree to get back together in a daze.

    Girls must also be rational when they are in love, so that they will not be hurt more deeply in the relationship, and they can also make their lives better.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    You have broken up with your ex-boyfriend, but he comes back to chase you, if he is, the type you like, and has broken a lot of bad habits before, very serious about chasing you, asking to get back together, you can make a decision based on his performance, if he meets your requirements, you can get back together.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    You don't have to get back together with him, you have to see if you still feel for him, if you still love him in your heart. And in the case of the ex-boyfriend's sincere attitude. will choose. Get back together with him, otherwise it wouldn't.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    This words, you don't have to get back together, you also said it, the two of them have broken up now, although he still has a good impression of you now, and wants to come back to chase you, but you use yourself. Do you like it or not? If the other party likes it, then agree, if it doesn't like it, you say wait until you calm down for a while before watching.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    You don't have to get back together with him.

    It's all up to you to think and decide.

    If you don't have feelings for your ex-boyfriend anymore, then it's better for you to say no explicitly.

    Because two people can be together, it depends on liking each other.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Of course, you don't have to get back together with him, whether you get back together or not depends on your own mood, if you think you are suitable, your feelings are still there, you can also get back together.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    You still have feelings for your ex-boyfriend and want to be with him, even if he breaks up with you, but comes back to chase you, then you can choose to get back together with him, if you don't have feelings anymore, don't stick to him anymore, you should decisively reject him.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    After breaking up with your ex-boyfriend, he came back to chase you, as for whether you get back together with him, it depends on whether you still love him, there is no relationship that you have to get back together, everything depends on your heart.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Luo Lijing broke up with her ex-boyfriend and came back to chase you. I think it still depends on your own feelings, and if you can't let go of it, he can choose to get back together. If you don't feel the need to be together, it's better to give up.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    That means that you still love him or not, if you don't have the next relationship, and you feel that he is still okay, then it is more normal for you to get back together with him.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    If the relationship is still there, or the reason for the breakup can be resolved, then you can consider it. If it's still like that, just because you can't let go, then it's better not to get back together.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    You've broken up with your ex-boyfriend, but he's back chasing you, do you have to get back together with him? I think you still can't forget her, like her, of course you should get back together.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    This situation depends on the performance of the other party. If the other person is sincere and has actual actions, you can try to give the other person a chance. If the other party is just very perfunctory and just wants to have fun, don't give the other person a chance.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Don't get back together with him, such a guy is not worth it for you to turn back for him, and after the breakup, you have to start a new life.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Of course not necessarily, there are so many good men in the world, and choosing that person like this is an insult to yourself.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Hello, this is not to say that it must be, it mainly depends on whether you still have love for him, you can investigate it for a period of time before you talk about it.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    No. If a good horse doesn't eat the grass back, I won't go back, and I won't let myself repeat the mistakes of the past.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    You and your ex-boyfriend have broken up, and now he is looking for you to come back and get back together, whether you agree to get back together or not, no one can dictate you, it depends on your own true feelings.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    It depends on what you think, and if you have feelings for him, you can choose to get back together.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    No, it's up to you. See if he is still reliable and can give you a sense of security. Will you have results?

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Of course, with such an experience, in fact, the experience of every couple, I divide and combine, this is actually a very test of the relationship between two people.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    This is not necessarily, depending on the specific reason for your breakup, and then whether this reason has been solved is an important question whether you want to get back together?

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    As you can see from your question, you still have some feelings for this man. And you're used to his kindness to you. In fact, during the breakup, you may have a hard time.

    But you didn't choose to break up because you said you were impulsive. It's you who are thinking about getting married right now. In your opinion, this man loves you very much and should be emotionally reliable.

    But this person, to be honest, may not mix well in the future. If you are married, the stresses of life may make you feel uncomfortable. So, what you're really struggling with is actually this.

    Golden. In the face of marriage, women are really more rational than men. That's why you chose to break up.

    And now you see him pursuing you again, in fact, you are a little moved in your heart. But this kind of moving doesn't solve a lot of practical problems. In fact, if your ex-boyfriend really loves you, he probably shouldn't do it.

    He should work hard and speak from strength. So, from that point of view, he might not really be the right fit for you.

    Blue. Although many people say: "Persuasion and not persuasion."

    But since you chose to break up. This is your initiative. Although you say it because of impulse.

    But that's not the case. You think a lot. Now he's coming to you again, making you feel a little unwilling.

    Maybe you want to say yes in your heart, but you think about what will happen in the future, and then you are entangled in your heart.

    Pink. So, in the face of such a situation, I advise you: don't say yes, you can set a time for yourself.

    If he doesn't change within the allotted time, he won't be up to the bar to be your husband. You should give up decisively. You can also tell him about the idea.

    If he really loves you and wants to be with you, he will try. Yes, we have to take into account reality. After all, you can't easily choose to reunite just because you are moved.

    Two people together, is thinking later. So, you have to think long-term. Don't choose to get back together just because you're a little moved right now.

    I hope you understand this. Make the right choice for yourself. Remember:

    Love is not child's play. Since you have thought of a lot of questions, you have to weigh the pros and cons and make the best choice for yourself.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    I won't get back together with him, since I've broken up, it proves that it's not appropriate for two people to be together, and if I get back together, then the previous problems will reappear, and the two people will have conflicts, and there will be no point in such a life.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    If it were me, I wouldn't get back together, if I dumped him, then I definitely wouldn't consider getting back together, if he broke up and got back together, it means that I didn't find a better one than me, and I didn't deserve to get back together, so I wouldn't get back together.

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