Why do you get more lonely as you grow up? I was born in the 80s and suddenly listened to The More

The older you get, the more lonely you become... When I was young, I was always carefree, I didn't need to think about anything superfluous, and my parents only wanted you to be happy every day, but when we grow up, we will have our own lives, people we have to take care of, and people we care about, so we will always think a lot, think a lot, and work hard for our own life survival when we grow up, these are inevitable, so don't be unhappy, think about everything you do beautifully and happily, then you won't feel lonely...

In fact, this is true of ordinary people. When all your friends have started a family and have children, then this will definitely happen. But when you look back, you weren't the same.

Each period has a different focus on life, and I think you can understand it. Yes, childhood is beautiful, so we also have nostalgia to taste the beauty of the past, I wish you happiness.

Because you have a lot of friends in your childhood, and when you grow up, your friends will leave you because of money, fame and fortune, and there will be very few true friends, so the more you grow up, the more people you can talk to. The older you get, the more lonely you become.

Because people are mature, they have more things to worry about, more things to consider, and their own outlook on life, worldview, and values is very unique, so they feel that no one understands them, and they are lonely or something.

Because I grew up and saw a bigger world, I became smaller. When I was young, the world was very small, and I felt that I was big, but when I grew up, I felt that the world was very big, and I had become very small.

Because I grew up and had ideas. When I was a child, I didn't understand anything, and I didn't feel lonely anymore.

Friends go their separate ways for life, and they all have their own homes one after another, and when they are depressed, there are fewer and fewer people to talk to, so go out for a walk and make some friends.

Hehe, slowly those naïve thoughts are gone, and they have entered the mature stage! After that, there will be a lot of troubles.

Because you can't realize your childlike thoughts.

Because when you grow up, you have more ideas!

Because when we grow up, we will have more and more things to think about outside, and we will have more and more responsibilities. And when we grow up, our psychology will become more and more mature in the process of growth. As we grow up, we have undergone a lot of physical and mental changes, and we become very independent.

And when we grow up, everyone's goals and paths are different, and each of us is a maverick, so if we can't find someone to walk with, we will become more and more lonely. When you grow up, each of us has different family conditions, and it is possible that your parents will pave the way for you. If you don't, you'll have to walk on your own, and the bigger you get, the more lonely you are.

In fact, it's just because when you grow up, you have to take a different path.

Because I am not carefree like when I was a child, I want to live.

The main reasons are that people can't find friends to confide their thoughts in, and they feel insecure.

As people get older, people take up different careers. Workers in each profession have different work pressures, and the older we get, the more we can't talk about the inner pressure of others, let alone the other person can't think about it for ourselves.

On top of that, people feel insecure about the workplace. Even if we can make more friends through work, the workplace is full of uncertainties, maybe one second we are friends, and the next second we become competitors. Everyone is unable to express their inner feelings to others, and the sense of insecurity is getting worse.

Although people have a very stable life and work status, it does not mean that people will feel full of security in their hearts. A sense of security is not just a matter of words, it makes people have higher requirements for their surroundings and friends around them. In addition to this, there is increasing pressure at work, and many people are worried about being fired, which inadvertently increases the insecurity in the hearts of many people.

When we grew up, we embarked on different lives and had different jobs. Even if we encounter difficulties in work and life, we confide our feelings and thoughts to our friends. However, if you are working in a different job with your friends, it will inevitably lead to the other person not being able to put themselves in your shoes.

As more and more often, people naturally feel lonely and even directly feel that they are unable to share their inner thoughts with others.

In general, loneliness is a feeling of self. As people live longer and longer in big cities, a sense of loneliness arises in their hearts. Work stress and uncertainty in the external environment can also lead to loneliness.

In addition, the work environment and the nature of the work between friends are different, and it is difficult to tell others what they really think.

Because the older you get, the more you have no friends, and it's hard to meet like-minded people, so you will be lonely.

Because I know more things when I grow up, and I am often busy with work, my family, I rarely be able to hang out with friends, and I am relatively lonely.

When we grow up, we will imagine more things in our hearts, and we will lose the innocence of our childhood. At this time we also found out. There are fewer and fewer things that can remain in the heart.

The older you get, the more lonely you become, maybe your values are different from your circle.

First, the more you grow up, the more cautious you are, and the more you look forward and backward, the more fragile you are. Growing up takes away not only time, but also the courage that was not afraid of losing at the beginning.

Second, no one has ever told me that when you grow up, you may only do a bad job, talk about a bad relationship, and live a bad life.

3. At first, we pretended to understand in confusion; Later, we pretended to be confused. It's not that we are willing to live in vain, it's just that many things, as soon as we exert ourselves, we will debunk them, and as soon as we debunk filial piety, we will lose them.

Fourth, some people disperse while walking, some love fades after living, too many people become friends with likes, and even change their nicknames and avatars a few times, and they forget each other in the rivers and lakes.

Fifth, drinking lonely wine, blowing the wind of freedom, waiting for a person who has no return date, and dreams only of himself for the rest of his life.

6. There are hundreds of names in the address book, but I don't know who to talk to; There are many friends on WeChat, but I am sad but I don't know who to go with. Because: there are not many people who really understand you, and even fewer people who really love you.

Seventh, I used to meet the heartbeat and flirted directly, but now that I'm older, I'm afraid to do anything, it seems that in addition to fighting the landlord to dare to scream, I don't even like it.

8. When you're unhappy, you always want to do something, such as cutting your hair short, running ten kilometers, and deleting all your moments and Weibo. And in fact, you can only live well, life is not easy, take care of yourself.

9. Slowly learn that a person bears in the wind, not expecting anyone's hand, the world is unpredictable, people's hearts are unpredictable, you can carry it yourself, don't make a noise, you are full of grievances, in others it may just be funny and hypocritical.

Because the older we get, our desires are also growing, and the older we get, the more we experience, the more we see, and it's not easy to communicate with others, so it's usually a person.

I have seen a lot, I have understood a lot, and I have my own understanding of human affairs, and the more I grow up, the more I find that I don't have a friend around me to talk to.

The older you get, the harder it is to open up to others.

When I live by myself, I feel struggling to work. When you do mental work, you feel like your mind is frozen or restricted. When you live alone, you begin to feel that you want to be accompanied.

01 started punk health once, it was not a matter to go up to the fifth floor in one breath, and it took four hours to climb the south gate of Mount Tai, but now I sit in the office all day, but I feel a sore back when I get off work; In the past, you won't get fat after eating and drinking three meals a day and having supper, but now you have to weigh yourself every day without eating and exercising at lunch. insisted on long-distance running, I didn't know that ** didn't get it right, and my knee hurt badly; Learning to swim, within two months, the hip joint began to hurt, and the leg was stiff. It's quite frustrating, because I'm getting older, I can't bear it, and I'm gradually tasting the blow of aging.

From the physiological metabolism has slowed down, for example, if you eat less, your weight will immediately have a significant fluctuation, but now you still eat less, it seems to be useless, but if you eat more, you will get fat. Finally, I started soaking goji berries in a thermos cup, and I asked for water before eating takeout, and I didn't touch ice cream in spring or summer. I even walked around the dessert shop that I used to go to after work.

Because whether it is the new high weight or the acne **, it reminds me all the time: I can't indulge anymore. I used to scoff at the health faction, but I didn't expect to be so willing to become its supporter, and unswerving.

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