There is a shortage of wives in the countryside, the father and mother are worried, and the son has

As the saying goes, there are four fortunate things in life, "a long drought and a rainstorm, a foreign land meets an old acquaintance, a candle night in the cave room, and the title of the gold list"! Indeed, since ancient times, settling down and starting a family have been an indispensable part of life! However, with the development of social economy, in today's rural areas, many older young men are worried about marrying wives!

In the author's hometown, some young men who have reached the age of marriage should have married and had children step by step, but for several years, it has always been difficult to find themselves, and this has become a problem in the hearts of parents!

The reality of "a shortage of wives" in rural areas has caused the number of "singles" to continue to increase, and even if some young people have stable jobs and high education, they are not exempt from vulgarity and become a part of the "difficulty in marrying a wife"! The reasons for the "wife shortage is difficult to please" are also varied, but in addition to the high bride price and the increase in girls going to the city to find a partner, the main cause is the imbalance in the current gender ratio between men and women! This stems from the fact that in the past, due to the influence of people's traditional thinking, they always thought that "raising children can prevent old age", so when the one-child policy came, most of them would selectively give birth to boys!

And this has also caused the embarrassment of "it is difficult to marry a wife" now!

For this reason, since the main reason for the "wife shortage is difficult to please" has been found, people have also begun to look for a way to solve it! For example, in response to the imbalance in the sex ratio, the most direct thing is to liberalize the policy of childbearing, and with the "full liberalization of the second child", will it be easier to marry a wife? In the author's opinion, not really!

First, although the comprehensive two-child policy is coming, the phenomenon of "cold" appears frequently!

It has been a few years since the comprehensive second child was released, but there has been "cold treatment" in the countryside! The reason is roughly that prices are constantly **, although the farmers' income is more, but for raising another child, many young couples feel powerless, afraid that life will be crushed, and naturally slow down the rhythm of having a second child!

Second, far water can't quench the thirst of the near!

It is difficult for older young men in rural areas to marry, although the second child has been released in an all-round way, but we can't let those older young men wait for decades! Therefore, although the sex ratio at birth has gradually returned to balance after the full release of the second child, it is difficult to change the imbalance between men and women in the current marriage year!

Indeed, after letting go of the second child, there will be a good recovery for the sex ratio at birth! However, in addition to the problem of the ratio of men and women, the biggest constraint to the difficulty of marrying wives in rural areas is the problem of economic development! For example, although the gap between urban and rural areas has narrowed, it still exists, and most of the direction of rural girls' mate selection is still in the city!

Therefore, if the rural guys do not work hard and do not change themselves, even if the gender ratio of men and women is reversed after 20 years, it will be difficult to get rid of the helplessness of "wife shortage is difficult to get"!

Don't panic when you encounter this kind of thing, first of all, you must instill a certain concept in him, tell him that his future life is very good, and he must work hard now.

I don't think you can give up, you still have to build faith. Be positive and sunny to earn money, and be full of hope for every day of life.

I think that if something happens in this situation, it will collapse completely, so it's better to make money.