Feeling like you re living less and less like you re a person?

If you feel that you are not living like a person more and more, you can reflect on yourself, feel that there is something wrong with you, and correct it from the problematic place, instead of complaining about yourself, complaining about others, and feeling sorry for yourself, hoping that you can turn back.

If you feel that you are not living a decent life, you can still find your goal and direction at this time, and then adjust your state.

Step by step, move towards your goals and directions, and make yourself like the one you dreamed of.

In these moments, don't be afraid of difficulties, don't hold back, as long as you insist on doing some ideal things in your heart every day, you will succeed one day.

Feeling like you're living less and less like you're a person? Yes, that's not making money, that's how it is, people with money have to get out, they have to live a better life, and if you don't have money, you're like a master. It's not more and more unpleasant, and it's getting more and more unseemly that you earn money before you go to work, and you have money to use, so it won't be like this.

This is a kind of dissatisfaction with the status quo of the company. I hope it can be summarized and planned well. With continuous effort and continuous learning, this situation can be improved.

Don't denigrate yourself like this, everyone has their own way of life, it's not that your current lifestyle is the worst for you, maybe he is the right lifestyle for you now, you can try to break him.

You can't think of it that way, the world of adults is not easy. It's not simple for everyone. We are all working hard to live, and there are even people and things that are not easier than us that are not fair, so you are already very lucky.

You feel that you are living more and more like yourself, and you are not satisfied with your current self! Now that you have requirements for yourself, you should be yourself from now on.

Once the concession and equality are broken, you can only force yourself, do not allow yourself to make mistakes, and live more and more unlike yourself. The more you grow up, the more lonely you become, the loneliness of the soul, the loneliness of the material, the loneliness of the spirit

Maybe it's because of your mood or other things that affect you, you can change it.

You have to have confidence in yourself, you must affirm yourself, everyone's life will have twists and turns, and you must believe that after the wind and rain, there is a rainbow.

At this time, let yourself relax and don't put too much pressure on yourself. Then work hard to change the status quo instead of giving up on yourself.

Then look back at what you have been for all this time, causing you to hate yourself, and make up your mind to change, stimulate your potential, and make yourself different.

People must not be decadent because of blows, but still have to be self-reliant and self-reliant. You have to understand that there are some things that you can only rely on, and you can face any challenge bravely if you are strong.

It's normal,,The angle is very related.,,I often look at myself like a nerve,,o( o...Have faith in yourself!

It's all like this, before you live to the end, you are only half alive, and after living for a long time, you will find that you are not living like people.

Don't look at the bad side in this situation, look at the side where you are better than others.

First of all, you have to adjust your mentality.

We seem to be living in an era of low socialization.

I don't know what to say to others, and I don't have much motivation to meet new people.

I feel that maintaining a relationship is very tiring and troublesome, and it is very difficult to communicate or chat, and I would rather watch dramas and surf the Internet at home when I have time.

In the past, I would be very bored when I was alone, so I wanted to stay with my friends; Now, I just want to have some time to be alone in a quiet daze, I don't want to move, I don't want to talk, I don't want to struggle to show myself and my ...... to communicate

Is this a good thing or a bad thing?

Let's start by asking: Do people need to socialize? Is it possible to live without socializing at all?

The answer is also very simple: yes. No.

I mentioned in that there is a hypothesis in psychology called the social brain: this hypothesis is that the human brain is constantly understanding real-life problems and adapting itself to evolve in a direction that is better adapted to society.

For example, a 2020 study found that when humans interact with living objects, a pathway in the brain's prefrontal cortex is activated; Conversely, when interacting with inanimate objects, the pathway remains silent.

ninomiya et al., 2020）

What this means is that our brains are inherently more sensitive to human hand feedback.

This phenomenon is also found in other mammals (monkeys). This shows that for mammals, living in groups, and how to better adapt to it, is a very important thing that deserves to be developed as a special function.

Personally, I don't think there's a way to live independently of social interactions. Although we are living in the age of the Internet, well, there are a lot of opportunities for face-to-face communication, although the social interaction of face-to-face communication has gradually decreased, but we are still communicating online, so I think it is impossible for people to exist without socializing.

Now I suddenly found that I was born boring, I would be belittled, ridiculed, and then I slowly began to doubt myself, became unconscious, and found that I gradually forgot what I was like, and lived a tangled person in Lingnai!

I used to be a very chic person, never worried about big and small things, didn't make much money but lived freely, happy every day! Recently, I found that because of my age, in the eyes of my family, I have completely become a sinner next to the stall, just because I didn't find my fate when I was about to stand, and I couldn't get married and have children at the age I should have, which made me very helpless, I want to tell them that I am also anxious, pretending to be calm on the surface in front of them, chic, and extremely uneasy in my heart, because of the eyes around you, you are afraid of the topic, for fear that they will suddenly mention you, and even more afraid that they will talk to you about your topic, which is like a kind of approval, This kind of approval has changed me from a person who is not wrong to a complete sinner, this crime is "the boss is not small, it is your fault if you don't get married" You are powerless to refute, there is nowhere to shout injustice, I can only bear it silently, and I have to show to the people around me to admit my mistakes! No one will understand your client's feelings!

Is it really a sin not to get married?

The state has not explicitly banned the crime of not marrying before the age of 30!

It's not that I don't want to get married, but I haven't met fate! I also want to meet the person who can stay with me for a lifetime, live an ordinary life with me, chic, free, well-fed, warmly dressed, be able to live a dull life, and a happy and free life is also a happy thing!

I want to be good, I don't want to turn myself into a depressed patient because of this incident, I'm already very tired, I can't fight back because of the pressure of life, I don't want to add new injuries because of this crime that doesn't belong to me!

It's hard enough to survive 2020! Don't judge me for not getting married, okay!

I hope we can all spend 2020 safely, no matter how difficult it is, we have to carry this winter, and everything will be fine when we see the spring flowers blooming!

Summary. When you don't feel like yourself anymore, it's because someone or something has affected you. You have to be yourself, and if someone affects you, you have to figure it out right away, and then you have to give it up right away.

Dear, when you are less and less like a self-starving person, it is because someone or something has affected you. You have to be yourself, Li Fanwei If someone affects you, you have to make it clear immediately, and then immediately give up.

It's not that I don't feel like myself, it's just that I feel like I'm only a shell in this world, and I have no soul.

Dear, the reason why I say this depends on what affects you. You can talk about it in detail, and the teacher will help you analyze it specifically.

Kiss, did you encounter something?

In general, during this time, I didn't find anything important to you, and I didn't meet important people, that is, in the past, I was the kind of person who resolutely didn't live in the man's house before I got married, but I lived in it this time, and I felt like I had no principles.

To be honest, it is really inappropriate to live in the man's house before marriage. You can be so principled, it means that you are a good woman, in addition, you can live, but you can't live for a long time, Zi Chunbu, otherwise many shortcomings are easy to expose before you get married.

I only stayed for a short time this time, also because my boyfriend and I can only see each other once a week, and I decided to stay there after the holiday.

Yes. It's okay in the short term.

It's just that sometimes his family is there, and I feel a little embarrassed when he goes to work again.

This one does. Then when he goes to work, you can go out shopping, or pretend to go out for something, which will be better.

Uh-huh. It's okay. It is okay to stay for a short period of time.

During this time, you also get to know his family well.

The mental state of not being able to truly engage emotionally with others can be a variety of situations, and here are some possible explanations:

1.Apathy: A person may be emotionally indifferent because of personal experiences, personality traits, or life circumstances. They may be less sensitive to other people's needs, emotions, and relationships, and may lack empathy.

2.Fear and defensiveness: Some people may feel afraid to re-engage in a quiet relationship because of a history of hurt, disappointment, or betrayal. This fear can cause them to build a defense mechanism to avoid getting too close to others or getting emotionally engaged.

3.Social anxiety: Some people may feel uncomfortable, nervous, or anxious in social situations. They may fear rejection, judgment, or injury. This anxiety can cause them to distance themselves from others and be reluctant to be truly emotionally engaged.

4.Self-preservation: Some people may choose to keep their emotional distance out of the need for self-preservation.

They may think that being emotionally invested makes them vulnerable and vulnerable. Therefore, they choose to maintain a calm and objective attitude and avoid too much investment.

These psychological states are not necessarily pathological, but only specific behavioral patterns and psychological mechanisms of certain people. However, if this state of mind that is not really emotionally engaged seriously affects interpersonal relationships and personal well-being, it may be necessary to seek the help of a professional counselor or psychologist to solve the problem.

In the final analysis, life is too realistic, maybe we used to be too idealistic, always thinking about what is good, just thinking about what to become, but in fact we can't do it at all, we can only go with the flow and become what we don't like.

Everyone wants to make their lives better and realize their lofty dreams, but their dreams are often disappointed, not so easy to achieve, their abilities are limited, and there is no way to live what they want, but they must also work hard to make themselves live better.

Because this is the real society, life is more stressful, and in order to survive, you live as you don't want to live.

Most people's ideals are relatively full, but in reality, they often think about themselves, so many people live like they don't want to live.

Because of the pressure of life, I have to live the last thing I want to live.

This is how life is. The ideal is beautiful, but the reality is cruel. I can only do things I don't like in order to live, and I am helpless. I can only adjust my mentality and try to move forward towards what I want to live.

Maybe that's life. No one can really do what they want, there is no smooth sailing in life, no wish comes true, only things are man-made.

To put it bluntly, most of the reason is that I didn't work hard enough.

Don't make any excuses to say that the conditions don't allow or anything.

If there is no possibility, create the possibility, and the solutions are all figured out by people.

People are used to living in their comfort zone.

Reluctant to break this coziness if you don't jump out.

If you don't adapt to the new environment, then you can only watch others succeed.

Self-pity.

Because life is full of too many variables, in many cases, although you are reluctant, it will also change with the change of circumstances.

Because most people don't have self-control, it's a metaphor for some people who are comfortable but can get hooked on gambling, and then lose in a daze

Because it was pressed by the real society.

Because this is counterproductive, some people work very hard, but they live like they don't want to see, then I think no matter what, I should set a goal in my heart and move towards this goal.

Because of the choice, for example, the probability of winning 5 million in a lottery ticket is too low, most people cannot choose the best choice! You run yourself at full capacity, others are also running yourself at full capacity, quite the train runs, and like the train tracks, under the order, the rear carriage can not run to the front of the car, the harder you work, the faster the front of the car is, just like the brothers and sisters work hard to eat, the boss adds chicken legs to you, and the boss changes to a new car next month, and the n word is omitted below!! Don't expect too much, after all, only a handful of people can push their limits!

If you can't break through the limit, you will live like you don't want to!