I feel like I m getting worse and less talkative

Brother, you're right!

If success in the 70s & 80s by guts, 90 years by relationship, then now it is by knowledge and ability more than others, if you want not to be eliminated by this society, you need to continue to learn, since you have resigned, don't suffer from gains and losses, work hard, work hard and may not succeed, but do not work hard will not succeed!

You must first have confidence, believe that you can do it, for the gains and losses you mentioned, decadence, drowsiness and the like, can only prove your own incompetence and cowardice, if you want to change or succeed, you have to do what successful people should do, and these are exactly the road to success can not have, if you say that you just can't overcome, then okay, don't take the test, you are not that material, you are destined to be mediocre for a lifetime! Do you admit it?

There is no way to change the inequalities, darkness and other things in this society for the time being, so we must learn to tolerate the darkness of this world. But inclusion is not about following the crowd, setting one's own lifelong goals and persevering in them. How can you see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain?

There is no age difference in success, as long as you decide to work hard, it is never too late, there is an old lady in England who forgot her name, she started to learn to paint at the age of 80, and she can still become a famous painter, until one day she suddenly thought, I am more than 100 years old, and then I died on the recliner, so as long as people focus on what they have to do, they will never get old.

The last thing I want to say is to adjust your mentality, take a little time every day to exercise, run, play ball, anything, and be healthy to have the ability to cope with all challenges.

Hope it helps, brother. I hope you realize your dreams soon!

Come on, I'm as anxious as you are, it's not been three months. Since the past is very unbearable, then look forward and don't look back, as soon as you turn around, you will be angry with the past, and you will lose a lot. If you resign and fail the exam, what will be the result, turn your grief into hard work.

Regarding your dreams, if you don't do it now, you can only take it to the grave, then when you are older, you recall the garbage data that you would modify for 30 years when you were young, and gradually integrate into the culture of superficial articles and even deception, how do you regret it, now that it is like this, your values have long been formed, and they cannot be changed.

If you don't choose to leave, then choose to adapt to it.

Endlessly wandering in choice, it is still the choice that must be faced.

Making a choice is the first step to success.

You're older than me, but that's what I'm trying to say.

Learn to blend in with this dirty, mean, ruthless, realistic society around you!

Summary. When you don't feel like yourself anymore, it's because someone or something has affected you. You have to be yourself, and if someone affects you, you have to figure it out right away, and then you have to give it up right away.

Dear, when you are less and less like a self-starving person, it is because someone or something has affected you. You have to be yourself, Li Fanwei If someone affects you, you have to make it clear immediately, and then immediately give up.

It's not that I don't feel like myself, it's just that I feel like I'm only a shell in this world, and I have no soul.

Dear, the reason why I say this depends on what affects you. You can talk about it in detail, and the teacher will help you analyze it specifically.

Kiss, did you encounter something?

In general, during this time, I didn't find anything important to you, and I didn't meet important people, that is, in the past, I was the kind of person who resolutely didn't live in the man's house before I got married, but I lived in it this time, and I felt like I had no principles.

To be honest, it is really inappropriate to live in the man's house before marriage. You can be so principled, it means that you are a good woman, in addition, you can live, but you can't live for a long time, Zi Chunbu, otherwise many shortcomings are easy to expose before you get married.

I only stayed for a short time this time, also because my boyfriend and I can only see each other once a week, and I decided to stay there after the holiday.

Yes. It's okay in the short term.

It's just that sometimes his family is there, and I feel a little embarrassed when he goes to work again.

This one does. Then when he goes to work, you can go out shopping, or pretend to go out for something, which will be better.

Uh-huh. It's okay. It is okay to stay for a short period of time.

During this time, you also get to know his family well.

Recently, the hail life in Rawhide Town has changed a little bit, although the people I come into contact with are still those people, but there are some not very pleasant things that burn the sails, which makes me have a different view of the things and people around me.

As a result, there were some changes that I didn't even notice to myself.

Bold, noisy, bad, fierce, annoying.

I don't really like myself like that, and I kind of miss the old self who used to do my own thing quietly.

Now the question is, should I change back?

In the past, I always hoped that I could be bold and say more, but now it seems that it has changed in this direction.

But it seems that ** went wrong, is it excessive?

Is it too self-indulgent?

Is it because you want to express yourself too much?

The mood is always strange.

After a while with my roommate, the other party gave a positive answer.

Always want to express yourself, always don't take into account the feelings of others, always want others to do what you want.

Maybe the change happened a long time ago, but I didn't notice it until my actions hurt someone and I went back and reflected on myself.

I used to hate people who wanted to express themselves too much, but now it seems that I have become such a person.

To be honest, I'm a little scared because I don't know what to do next, and if I deliberately change, my personality will change more or less, but in what direction am I going to change?

It takes a little time to think about it.

But I knew very well that I had to learn to work in a team, maybe to be confident and not complacent, kind but not cowardly.

I suggest that you also take a moment to summarize whether your personality and behavior have changed from those you were a year ago.

There will always be change, for better or worse, ask yourself, do you like it?