Affective problems Acute Affective type problems

Let's see if you like him very much, whether you want to be with him very much, think about whether you can be with him in the future if you pursue it, and what the consequences will be if you are together; If you can't pursue it, what will be the consequences, and can you face these consequences very calmly If you feel that you don't like him very much, and he still has a girlfriend now, then let it go and live a calmer life If you do something wrong just for the sake of anger, it is an unwise performance, and it hurts more than one person

Such a boy is the kind of person who can easily change his mind.

is a person who is not responsible for his own feelings and the feelings of others.

Even if he broke up with his current girlfriend and chose you.

Can you guarantee that one day he won't fall in love with another one?

There are too many boys like this around.

None of them will be happily married.

If you are hoping to find one.

Someone you've been with for the rest of your life.

I hope you will be cautious.

If you just want to fall in love.

I hope you understand that love is a hurtful thing.

But it's also something that makes people mature.

Are you ready to grow up?

For this kind of insidious woman, come to something dark, she spies on you, you just look at him, and it's best to be angry with her.

Remember, it is impossible to forget about him, time is the best medicine, believe me. Ask him to understand his intentions, snatch him over, and fight for her.

She spreads rumors about you, and so can you, but don't be as stupid as she is and let others know that she is the one who said it. For example, it's a good idea to post her scandal on the bulletin board Oh Don't embarrass us women, let's attack

Calm down in the dead of night, think about your feelings for him, listen to your voice from the depths of your heart, whether you really love to the point of no choice, if so, then fight for it, for your own happiness, feelings are this thing, you have to rely on yourself to grasp the feelings, what others say is useless.

Vigorous love can make people reminisce for a lifetime, and ordinary love can make people live a good life.

When two people are together, you often don't know the preciousness of love, thinking that it is just ordinary life, although sweet, but plain. However, once separated, the feeling of a piece of heart being cut off will make you understand that the original ordinary life is the best gift of love. So many people think that what hurts their hearts after a breakup is love.

In fact, you are wrong, what makes you sweet is love, and what makes you miserable is only unwillingness.

What's the use of regretting, again and again....Even if she changes back, can you guarantee that there won't be a next time? In fact, the solution is very simple. Love her well, but whether you can do it or not is another matter.

Women do what you say because they love you too much and don't want to lose you. Then you think about asking what you did in the first place, why you want him to change, and he changes and you don't like it, what kind of her do you want. Ask yourself!

Sometimes I don't understand what you men are thinking、、、

Sometimes your feelings change, but it's not your heart, it's a habit.

In general, the two of you still have feelings, but there is also a lack of understanding between each other, one is in terms of personality, and the other is in terms of behavior patterns, there are big differences.

If a pair of lovers want to come together, they must understand the behavior pattern of each other's original family, so as to find the root of each other's behavior, so as to better run in, rather than friction.

Judging by your narrative, your girlfriend is a somewhat introverted person, which is the opposite of your personality. She is reluctant to speak directly, lacks a certain degree of assertiveness, and has a strong dependence. To form a family, it is a good thing for two people to complement each other's personalities, but we must learn to respect and tolerate, otherwise, there will be contradictions and even tragedies.

For you, learn to respect each other, not to be too aggressive, to be patient, to be tolerant. Judging from your narrative, you think she's stupid, which in itself says a question: do you respect her enough?

Subconsciously, do you feel that she has not grown up yet, and treat her as a child? Girls are very afraid of emotional injury, and girls like her are even more so, their personalities are more fragile and sensitive, and you have to take extra care of them.

Even if a boy chases her, it is understandable, a hundred women begging for it, after all, you have not established a marriage relationship. In this case, instead of blaming her, you should ask yourself: Am I giving her enough security?

If not, why shouldn't people be allowed to look for safety?

For the sake of time, I will say so much for the time being. Good luck.

Personally, I think it was your fault at the beginning, you all know that she should tolerate her if she is simple, and the daughter-in-law is hurt rather than scolded, but you should believe her later, because loving someone is not so easy to change, and she is just angry with you. Hope to adopt.

Question: I broke up with my boyfriend I don't know what he thinks now Here are the reasons for the breakup: When my boyfriend showed me his ID card, I jokingly laughed at the ** in his ID card Then he got angry The first time he was so fierce I felt very aggrieved and ignored him Although he admitted his mistake I ignored him We have been in a cold war until we broke up But his avatar is still the love we used to fall in love I will also sneak up on me in the corridor after class He took the initiative to find me in the past I also took the initiative to find him once or twice I don't know what he thought this time.

Answer: It's not nonsense, both of them are nonsense, from school to marriage, you have to go through a lot of things that are more difficult than now, and you quarrel at this point, but this time he is stingy. There's no problem, the two of you are just one step away from each other, see who takes a step back to find each other. Both need to be sane.

You can't just say a breakup.

Once you break up, don't regret that, don't bother with that. Otherwise, a little thing will say that you will break up, is it to fall in love, or to find a quarrel?.

Question: I'm not a good articulate person, and I like to keep everything in my heart, and I think it's hard for me to be active, and I was also in a passive state in my previous relationship.

In fact, from love to marriage, mutual communication is indispensable. But very few people can last until they get married.

When I asked, I only dared to talk to strangers about my heart, and I wouldn't even talk to my good friends about my heart.

Lack of communication, it's best to pick two people to have a good chat when they are calm, communication is the bridge of feelings. After chatting, maybe some things will be figured out, right?

Hehe, if that's the case, then I think you're just confused for a while, it's better for you to be with your girlfriend, because how to say, I also had a period of time when I got along well with my current boyfriend, but I still unconsciously thought about a man I liked before, and finally made a comparison in my heart, this is a mentality, a mentality of eating pots and pans. My current boyfriend and I are fine, but I always feel that he is not good enough, and I always feel that the man I used to like is many times better than him, but when that time really passes, that is, suddenly something in your life hits a stubble in the middle of the girl you used to like, then you will break it, and that's how I am. It was an accident.

As long as you still know in your heart that you should be with your current girlfriend, if you have this point of view, then you will survive. There are many confusions in life, and whether you can persevere or not depends on yourself. Think about how good your current girlfriend is, and slowly you will forget about the girl you used to like.

People are like this, if you don't get it, you feel that it is the best, out of reach, you think it is the most beautiful, you are living in your fantasy about her, recognize the reality, if you really have it, you will find that she is not suitable for you, you have to cherish your current girlfriend, to be rational.

90277522 This group answers questions about love and psychology.

What kind of feelings?There are many kinds of relationship problems!

It can be seen that you are a very filial person, and it is a coincidence that my grandfather also has mental problems, and I can understand your feelings very much. And I'm embarrassed to say that there are many discordant situations in our family, but the elderly, after living for a long time, they naturally have a deep understanding of some things in life, and they want to see that they can spend their old age in a harmonious family, so this requires someone to stand up and resolve the disharmony of the family, I believe that under your efforts, the family can understand your filial piety, and there is more disharmony for the elderly for the sake of filial piety, they may feel guilty after that. Filial piety comes first, bless every filial son in the world.

Don't just listen to grandma, help untie the knot. Grandma was just scared and couldn't let go of this home, so she asked her parents to spend more time with her grandmother.

Generally, this situation is caused by a blow or a long-term void in some cases, and it is best to go to a specialized agency for consultation.

You can spend more time with her.

Comfort her more. Just listen.

1. There is a feeling called love at first sight. The first time we passed by, we confirmed the looks. It's like singing in "Legend" - just because I looked at you in the crowd one more time, I never forgot your face.

Surrender to each other's faces, and feel that they have met the right person in this life.

2. There is a feeling called Kuafu chasing the sun. No matter how much I chase, I can't keep up with you. In this relationship, you are willing to stay for me, I don't want to give up halfway, I always think that all the efforts are worth it, and one day you will be moved and wait for me.

3. There is a feeling called long-term love. I used to have no heartbeat, and even a little annoying, but after a long time, I became more and more dependent on you, and became more and more accustomed to having your life. I don't know when you started to wander in my mind all the time.

4. There is a feeling that you are a good person. Although I don't resent you, I've never been tempted either. I have seen all the efforts you have made, but you are not my ideal type, forget about me, you will find better, because you are a good person.

5. There is a feeling called knowing. You may not say it, but I know your whole heart. Who doesn't want to pierce that layer of window paper, but they are willing to cooperate with each other to act. The whole world knows that we have a story, but there is no ritual of loud confession.

6. There is a kind of relationship called fate. You've loved me, and I've loved you, it's just not the right time. When I love you, you take it for granted; When I don't love you, you are deeply affectionate; When I turn back, you have turned; When I'm gone, you look back.

7. There is a feeling called childhood sweethearts. From playing with mud and licking lollipops, we didn't guess. The older you get, the more memories you have, and the more memories you have, the deeper your feelings become. In the first half of our lives, we are in the same boat through thick and thin, and in the second half of our lives, we will grow old together.

Family, friendship, love, the fourth type of affection.

What is the fourth type of affection ? That is, the feelings outside of marriage, family, and friends, which are different from family and friendship, and are a bit close to love, such as blue and red.

There is no one in this world that you can't like ... It's just that it could be a one-man show... If you can't let go. ，。It's fun to prove it.

If you want to be with someone, you need to listen to your own inner voice, not the fingers of others.

Falling in love with someone you shouldn't love is full of scars. Sadness is always inevitable, why should you be in love.

You must be rational about your feelings and know what you want.

Is it necessary? She's all yours, the one who doesn't even dare to reveal her name, do you think she'll follow him?

It's not what you do, it's what she does.

Clear?

You have to be tolerant! Such a small-bellied woman is the most annoying! Don't think about the worst, maybe it's your girlfriend or your buddy's prank, you must first have the patience to discuss it with your girlfriend and then solve it.

It must have been found out that man